Thanks for the helpful replies; I will give a detailed response tuesday - it’s approaching 3 here and I have to work long hours weekends (our government slashed funding for philosophy/political science graduates rather harshly - break out the violins guys).
Very briefly though, gambler’s quite good, but never went to a workshop, just skipped through his materials. I do, like most, have specific goals when I think about it - increasing status in social settings and among my longer-term relationships, satisfying my addiction to the ego boost a girl’s laugh or sexual advance provides. I have the quite typical ambition of being some sort of alpha-male, but I never fully commit to any method - I can only devote so much time to something that may or may not be simply a craving for validation and an un-realistic level of social success that upon achievement I may not even enjoy that much… Maybe my father doesn’t pay me enough attention, I was dumped too harshly by my first love, was slightly bullied for being overly verbal and sensitive, and have a borderline body-dysmorphic obsession with how I look - overly self-conscious… Maybe that’s off the mark and introspection is not what I came here for. Oh’ look, this stream of consciousness wasn’t quite as brief as I had intended it to be.
Anyway, I was scammed by Phelure a few years back, but I think that love-scent’s products (I’ve tried Chakira, edge, edge trust, and Scent of Eros) are decent. As mentioned, I am cynical about how much mone causality there really was. Next on my background experiments (and yes I can appreciate the sports-psychology-esque wisdom that approaching anything this half-heartily will lead to failure) I was going to order A314 and Ammo for a daily combo, and TUTH for night-life stuff.
Anyway, I’ll follow the voucher link and provide some entertaining and maybe even edifying (mis/)adventure stories with mones and some more personal stuff about my game. I am, in fact, after a 2 week holiday in Croatia and a week in Amsterdam for work (and fun times with mushrooms and dutch friends), on the brink of moving from a more theoretical interest and background effort to improve my social skills and flirting style by speed-reading through the plurality of so-called ‘guru’ materials towards a more geeky, advanced and holistic (PUA/ the game/paragon project/ mystery method/ even gambler) orientation with more emphasis on actually going out and forcing practical experience upon myself. I guess the reason why I never took the leap and went full on with this stuff was that my situation was never really dire; I am just an overly curious, obsessive, and greedy chap, who likes to have a bibliography and maximum set of resources behind him whenever he competes for a prize (of sorts). Again, I will go into what inspired this shift (failure and the realisation that it need not all be the same ol’ self-fulfilling self-help crap, but may actually be what I need for what I really want). Yet, I will still beware not to fall too far into the comforts of online social networks, pick up or pheromone… I have a phobia, I guess.
Until then, good-night gentlemen.
In what way do you need help to improve your game? Opening, staying in sets, rapport, attraction etc.? We have many different products for different situations. By the way what race are your target group and how old are them?
