i agree. Pharcyde you should totally do this.
way better than soem rose or stuffed animal.
just don’t claim your undying love in the note.
That’s what I’m trying to say. If you’re going to leave a note, don’t make it sappy!
That’s the impression I got after you said a rose and a note. That’s a BAD idea. Repeat after SteveO, NO SAPPY NOTE… NO SAPPY NOTE… 
Don’t say anything in the note other than maybe: Relax girl, it’s only your entire college diploma on the line. After all I’m depending on you to pass so I can marry you, then divorce you after you get rich and take half your money. Light, sarcastic, cocky, comedy.
That’s why Lor wants to spank me or be spanked.
I’m just lovably irresistible.
guys-
dont make the mistake of thinking girls find that funny.
we begin to plan your deaths-by-pillowsuffocation with that line.
seriously.
no.
first of all…
…i think your all giving this more thought than me, wow!!
and the spirit i originally meant this in was to make her feel valued and special and sort of take her mind away from all the stress, not to try to change her mind about anything.
as for hooking up with her, she said shop was closed to all. she may have been trying to let me down easy, but thats what she said so thats what ill go on. as far as the note goes, id probably just say stuff like that to her face (not the sarcastic stuff).
re: Lor’s post >> yep.
jokes about killing you with a pillow= funny
jokes about divorce = not funny.
j/k … sorta
Stolen directly from David DeAngelo!!
Absolutely.
I’ve used it many times in school all with GREAT (think Tony the Tiger GREAT) results. Works like a charm.
ok cool - but the note is still cute and it is an action. after all words are just words. besides - when she goes to do laundry or soemthing and finds it folded up in her pocket, it will make her think of you. and smile. especially if you spray it with Shine.
I think I just figured out the main reason just why Steveo is still on his own.. No..transient fleets of girlfriends and “mistresses” (what an utterly VILE way to reference a women btw..) do NOT count.
Cynical much?
Pharcyde: Listen to Lor, Nunya, Carrie and Jim, and remember that faint heart never won fair lady - no matter what way of “thinking” you follow.
I think a few guys here on these forums need to have a serious rethink as to how they handle dating, mating and relationships in general.
Some have very low, VERY inaccurate opinions of women, and unless they get over THAT barrier, they better get used to fly-by-night flings, and one-night-stands.
Read Jim’s (Mtmjim) posts whenever you can, and take them ON BOARD!
There’s a very good reason he’s a couple of years from sixty, but has a joie-de-vivre that puts many people half his age to shame - and a girlfriend who is frequently taken for 35…
Ail 
Yeah well, I disagree completely, especially since you have NO idea about my girlfriends and what type of relationships we have together.
Sorry Ail but you are completely wrong; I have absolute admiration for every woman that comes into my life. I guess that’s the reason every ex-girlfriend (minus one) of mine still love me to death and want me in their lives. We speak regularly, some I broke it off with some broke it off with me. The longest “transient” relationship was 11 years.
The only one that doesn’t talk with me broke my heart. Turns out she loved another guy while I was in love with her. I treated her like a princess and gave her everything and did anything for her. Our relationship lasted 5 years. Makes you wonder!
My lady friend who I call my mistress asked me to call her that, since she is very much into literature. She enjoys the name and says it has an air of mystique around it she finds attractive, alluring and sexy. It’s the literal origin of Mrs., meaning a woman of stature.
Are you suggesting that a single man is not happy? I am very happy with my life, but question you and yours. You seem to find self-fulfilling gratification in suggesting anyone who differs from your ideals is flawed and can and will never obtain happiness.
My life is wondrous and joyful from the happiness I enjoy daily.
Pharcyde you know already what you need to do. As always I wish you the best of luck and hope you are successful in your endeavors 
No, I see what you say, and I also see what you don’t say. See whether you believe or not, I’m a practising Witch, and it ain’t something I try to deny - ever. Isn’t that right, Gem…? I’m sure he’ll clarify that for you.
Steveo: You have appallingly-warped views on many aspects of relationships, and ACCEPTABLE dating practices in general - especially given your age, and no, that is not only my opinion. I’m just the one who fires the cannonballs others merely construct. Four girlfriends on the go at once, and you think that’s not transient? Please…
Think on..
Ask Lor, not about her views on what you say - about me.
I SEE.
Enjoy your relationships, if that’s how you wish to conduct your life - it’s your choice, but ask yourself just how much trust can EVER go into a “relationship” where you are shared out like a best Sunday joint.
Not a lot.
Trust, is the single most important factor in any relationship, and if it is not there, the rest doesn’t even matter. Many single men AND women are VERY happy, but they don’t have to resort to trickery, manipulation and games to be that way, and no, that is NOT merely directed at you.
Oh and as for me, I am the happiest I have ever been in my life. I am with a wonderful man who was only ever my best friend for over 10 years before he became what he is now, oh, and was my rock after I got out the other side of an extremely violent almost 8-year marriage to boot, but of course, you know SO much about me. You know so much about women, don’t you?
No, you don’t.
And I leave THIS where The Gods flang it, as we Scots say..
Ail, out…
As you know NOTHING about me
Ail,
I always take what you say with the hour it takes to absorb it.
I say it takes an hour because soooo many times (and you remember those days
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) I would reply right-quick without so much as a minute’s passing of thought.
often upon reconsideration , i would realize its just easier to absorb first, and be thankful for the incredible insight later.
information we resonate with is never new information; information that seems harsh is usually something we have yet to discover about ourselves. again, i make this face
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without making a judgement on anyones character here ever (unless its to say sexxay ) i am just saying that i am grateful for your frighteningly accurate insight as it applies to my life
Well what works and is desired by some doesn’t work or is desired by others.
I’ve seen such a wide range of people and personalities in my time. I have oft shaken my head in disbelief.
Follow your own path. (“To thine own self be true …”) But ye shall reap what you sow.
That’s just the way it is. “Right and wrong” sometimes end up being value judgements of the moment, and open to our own interpretations… right, or wrong…
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That’s the ticket