Alright so next week I’m going to a friends birthday. The last girl I was really close to is going to be there. We had a falling out, pretty bad.
I guess back then it was the “old me”. She indirectly pushed me to get better and go through all this self development and finding myself. I already had progress going but it just went into overdrive after things fell apart with her. I know I, believe me, I know, that it would not be the best idea to try and rekindle things. But at the least, I want to just be civil with her again. My friend smoothed things over cause both of us have to interact the entire night and she’s essentially doing it for her so everyone can have a fun time. This was THE one, everyone loved her and it was the right person at the wrong time. I know now with how I am that things could be a bit different and maybe, just maybe something can happen again.
I can disarm her with my charm and my personality, that I know for a fact, I just need something to get it pushed along and help me out a little bit here. Historically this girl has been attracted to the big asshole types. I’m not hating either, they do look like the biggest douches you will ever meet, and I’m totally the opposite. You gotta get to know me to see the asshole lol. I don’t know if a big -none signature would work, or I should stick to other products.
I know that this is going to be a long shot, but I have to try, it’s just one of those things.
You can never go wrong with the IH and IS. Both help for putting people at ease with you and can help set the tone for deep conversations and discussions( helps for rebuilding relationships). When you go to discuss what ever it is that caused the fallout, LISTEN.Oh and make sure to keep eye contact. (Girls hate it when you look at their cleavage) Get her opinion and stuff before you start rebuilding. Good Luck my man. Remember relax and just let it flow.
I’m aiming for the best case scenario. It’s gotta be on my terms too. I gave way too much to try and please her last time. I won’t do anything if it’s going to be like how it is. Her and I had this great connection and when you take the rest of the crap away, it is what really matters. It’s interesting too, I KNOW what I’m worth this time.
Wow dude, this hit home for me, I’ve been there. You seem like a pretty legit person, I think you have a lot to offer in a relationship from what I know of you. The IH should open some dialogue, sort of let yourself forget you have it on and let it bring it out of you too, you know?
Don’t ever let anyone tell you how good you are man. You are the shit and everyone else is just dog shit,remember that. I will not preach it seems from what I have read in your journal you have your shit together. Best of luck my friend.
It took me a really long time to start realizing that. Everyone believed it but me, and I can tell you that it makes a heck of a difference when you believe that yourself. I think we all have had that at a point in our lives.
I looked back on it, and I can honestly say to myself that I know why she did what she did, and a lot of it wasn’t my fault per se, it was just how I viewed things and she wanted it to work.
The hardest words I ever had to hear from her was “I was so damn close to throwing away all my fears and take a chance with you”. That was after I said I couldn’t be with her. I was looking for security in a title, when all I had to do was be patient and let love happen. This is why I’m even trying now.
Damn dude, I feel like we’re all having beers together right now. This is so familiar to me, I want everything to work for you and I think it will. Everybody here seems to agree and no matter what the outcome at least you know that you went in with your head high and your best foot forward. Most of all, that you’re being honest with yourself.
This was so the same situation I just got out of. I did so much for her and got so little in return. You’re a good person (I know this sounds like John’s comments but it’s true). If you’re going to go through with this, just remember not to let any previous emotions to sneak through. Just be cool, calm, groovy (yea I said that). As for mones, I’m gonna mirror what others have said and suggest IH. shrugs It works. Good luck P51.
Thanks for be willing to share with us. Best of luck. I was going to suggest P75, but I see you already mentioned it. I would definitely use it. You don’t want to over think or over-analyze things. P75 should allow you to just flow with the mood and use your senses over logic. Logic in a situation like this would be bad.
I wouldn’t be able to resist throwing some -none in there , especially since you’re using IHx4. We’ve both had success with IJ (especially since she usually goes for the asshole type haha) and that’s probably what I would use personally but it’s all up to you. Good luck either way.
Man, John, you don’t know what you’re missing. After getting IS x2, I feel like a caveman using the regular strength lol. It’s not only easier and more cost effective but there’s also less chance of you being “cologne guy”.
If she is into “Ass-hole” type, is it even worth it to pursue for soemthing serious? I am not trying to belittle your or her. I am saying this, because I don’t want you to waste your time or get hurt.
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