Make them go away, shut their holes, anything like that?
I think my next purchase will be Instant Female Magic though, so that should help with my mood after a nasty convo like today.
This doesn’t have to be used during “that time” does it? Can I just use it on a daily basis or as needed?
Also, when you use the customization thingy (adding cops and scents), is the neroli scent used stronger than what it normally is? How about coconut, is that a really strong suntan oil smell?
I have Instant Female Magic ( for Women ) & it does relax you & you can use it any & every day, it doesn’t matter.
Not to tell you what to do or anything but, I wouldn’t add the cops to the Instant Female Magic only because if you are going to be spraying it a lot to relax yourself and then are at work or a family function you might not want the cops in it, as they garner a very sexual response. But, it’s up to you & I am no expert. In the right setting that combo would be a good thing but, if you got it in another product you could just combine them or use them seperately.
I wanted the 20X cops so, I ordered them as the customization to Instant Shine because I figured you can’t go wrong if you keep adding more and more because it would just make me & whoever feel in a great mood!
I don’t know about cocanut but, chocotini is stronger than neroli so, would cover cops better. It is not too strong. I like it, I think it smells like choclate covered cherries & almonds. I love it!
well, those are my suggestions but, I would ask Tisha or maybe more experienced people will write in.
I am not sure but A314 with Instant Honesty will let them know that No, means No.
If not a big guy named Sphen, Bruce, Bubba. to splain it to him.
If telling him no doesn’t work, a restraining order will help.
If he is beating on your door trying to get you to open, call the cops. Say he is threatening your life and you fear for your safety.
The trick is to let him know he has no chance in hell of winning you back over, and that his actions trying to win you back are actually driving you further away.
yes, I have dealt with my stalkers in my day. My sister attracts looser guys, and we have to help her out, but after 4 I am getting tired of it.
Best of luck to you
I believe IFM is good anytime your spirits need lifted and you need help calming down or relaxing.
Thanks Kimmie and Woofie! I have calmed down a bit but I am still thinking a guy named Bubba might help tremendously!
I wasn’t planning on adding any cops but thanks for pointing out the inappropriate family situation Kimmie, I actually never thought of that! That would be a tough one to explain to my old grandpa! :o
The best response to a guy who pursues you relentlessly is to ignore them, cut contact (or cut it down as much as possible) and let them know, in no uncertain terms, that it’s O.V.E.R.
If he’s just pestering you to annoy you, a restraining order and carrying pepper spray will help you feel safer.
Of course, Bubba telling him to leave you well alone would work as well!
I wish I could get a stun gun, they’re illegal here.
If your ex is refusing your requests to be left alone, ignore, ignore, and ignore. Don’t respond at all after you’ve made it clear you don’t wish to have any more contact. Document any time he does make contact just in case you do have to take further action. And lastly, don’t waste any pheromones on a jerk.