So, long story short;
I have a female friend, we’ve been getting closer and closer as friends for 2 years.
Last year I got feelings for her and opened myself up to her, but she saw me just as a really good friend.
However, I am not sure about how sincere that was since at the time, another friend of hers had told her the same thing, who she hooked up with a week later.
The ball is at her end of the court, so I won’t tell her again.
This is where I now came to think of pheromones.
Is there anything for me in this scenario?
I know very well this is no magical elixir that makes he rush into my arms, but I’m curious to see if there’s anything that might wash away any doubts (say, she does in fact, one year later, have some kind of feelings but is too shy to show it.)?
I was thinking about “Turn up the heat”, but I think that might just scare her away completely.
What about MX353, which I understand is more of a “this guy is awesome, I want to be around him all the time”-type?
Shoud I maybe ditch this completely since I risk too much?
If so, as a sub-point, what do you recommend someone who has never touched these things before if I want people’s attention at a party my friend is hosting in 2 months? Preferably female of course, haha.
This topic has been done to death. Time, distance, and no communication then reinvent yourself when you come back into her life 6 months or so later. Mones won’t magically make fall in love with you. She probably sees you as her emotional tampon.
Honestly, and if anybody wants a piece, I’m standing right here. The OP just joined today. He asks for help and people kick sand in his face. Damn near everything has been done to death, especially arrogance. “Hey, go post an intro. BTW, we f’ing hate you.” Real helpful. By my count, there’s three other phero boards at least. Bound to find something interesting there. Hell, maybe 10 whole new posts for the week! A Chicken Dance contest. Party baloons, cherry punch and hip hop records. Man, the fun I must be missing. P96. Sh’t ain’t free. And the day the new people stop being interested…the day the $ dries up for research molecules…I think we can kiss that sh’t good bye. No bucks, no Buck Rogers.
I’d be thinking about your primary objective. IH + A314 B spray is a reasonable fallout combo. It’s not made for closing in four hours at a party. Trying to project and fun, sexy vibe and break the ice, you’d pick AMMO and IO or Shine. I’m not saying don’t pick MX297 or 353, but 353 was just brought out of retirement and 297…well…all I can say is read up. The reports are mixed. The criticism of AMMO, if there is one, is that it isn’t an intense product. It isn’t made to be. It’s made to work at 1-2 sprays and not OD or stink of mones, cops, etc. Less upside potential, less downside risk. 1-2 sprays of 2X Shine or IO, you can certainly meet people. But it doesn’t have strong seductive power without charm from you. IH/314 is a slower burn over repeat uses.
Op didn’t have a problem with my post. I gave him honest advice and he’s in the intro section getting more advice. Telling a newbie that a314/ih will get him out of the friend zone is poor advice.
PS LMAO @ “if anyone wants a piece” Nobody is scared of internet gangsters.
Perhaps I was being obtuse. I find your bullying oppressive. No one appointed you guardian of what is and isn’t good advice. Perhaps you are accustomed to telling people what to do, say or think. I’m stating it quite clearly and plainly: calling someone an emotional tampon isn’t helpful to anyone. You can say whatever you like or be as impolite as you wish. You’ll forgive me for being underwhelmed by your 247 rep points in 5 years. And your award-winning advice.
The idea behind giving people a GC is that maybe they would like to become regular customers. It’s somewhat counter productive to offer someone a gift and then tell them they’re a girls b’tch rag when they ask for love advice. But, if the place has become ponderous too you, I’m sure we could survive the grief of your brief leave of absence. Must be an newbie thread at the other board you could flame.
PS, I really don’t like you or your posts, in case you were wondering. I find them pushy, mean, arrogant, sanctimonius, lacking helpful facts and in general typical of the usual circle jerk pissing contest that destroys most Internet forums. Hopefully, you won’t wreck this one, if I can help it.
This. The mocking other people’s posts. As if you’re qualified as the world’s greatest mones genius and everyone else is wrong. That’s what I’m talking about. How about knock it off already? I’ve never seen fallout from the current oil by itself. Have from spray. One man’s opinion doesn’t apply to everyone. Maybe for you it gets fallout. You don’t walk in another man’s shoes. Don’t tell him what to do or think or how to live.
Omg you don’t like me, my world just collapsed. I gave advice and he didn’t have a problem with it. Emotional tampon is a term commonly used to refer to guys in the friend zone. It means she’ll call you with all her problems and then go fuck some other guy. Rep points? Big freaking deal. The faceless people on the internet don’t have much impact on my life. As far as the link, the guy posted incorrect info. News flash, you’re not as important as you think you are.
Steve is my buddy. I only cried 'cause I thought he didn’t love me anymore. I’m psyched to win the Chicken Dance. When I meet new people, I usually shake their hand and call them douchebag, as a sign of friendship. The emotional tampon thing was new to me. Either way, I’m inside.
“News flash, you’re not as important as you think you are.” Just wait 'til I win the f’ing chicken dance. Tablet’s mine, b’tches.
In an effort to try to aid the OP, here are threads tagged “friendzone.” Yes, it’s been discussed before. But most people don’t know to call it that. New members usually receive a complementary 265-page ebook download with a the lingo. J/K. The search only works if you know what to search for. Often the tag cloud or the sticky posts have what you want. Some of them are a bit old.
In the time it takes to say “men stru ation,” we can give you some useful infor mation.