Are women who use Pheromones ugly?

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First off, no offense to anyone here. I know this is probably a touchy topic, but I just have this strange feeling that people in general who use pheromones are ugly or trying to compensate for a lack of attraction in some ways.

So I’m just looking for you to prove me wrong, especially you Tisha. I have this feeling you’re just very ugly, and I need some photographic proof to think otherwise.

It’s okay if the pictures are scantily clad. By the way, you can feel free posting your pictures in this thread here since most of the guys don’t really check the women’s forum anyway :wink:

This will really help boost my confidence and probably also help reassure many of the other guys on the forum that just because we use pheromones doesn’t mean we’re ugly.

Thanks.

By the way, if this is not a good thread for this forum, please feel free to move it.

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Well you’re only as ugly as you believe you are. We all have seen pictures of the lovely Tisha23 as she uses them as avatars.

Also, ugly is more of a personal choice, what one sees as ugly another sees as beauty. I have a friend who loves women who are very big. Personally I find his tastes less than desirable to me, but to him he likes what he likes. Is his girlfriend ugly, certainly that would depend on the individual and their belief system (personal ecology comes to mind), and my friend loves her to death. Ugly is so much more than flesh, makeup and clothing. I’m sorry that there are people who believe otherwise, but it does speak volumes of their own character:o.

I really do hope that your post was derived as a way to get Tisha23 to post more scantily clad pictures of herself, than it is to disrupt members personal self-confidence :open_mouth:.

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Yeah, but the avatars are too tiny, and sometimes they’re just cartoons.

Yeah, I know ugly is a strong word, but quite subjective. I actually don’t think anyone is ugly unless they were born with severe deformations. It’s opinion, just like beauty. I agree with your post. Although, personally, there are times I think of myself as ugly. I think we all have these moments.

But I still want to see some pictures.

(and hey, I just noticed that reputation points disappeared, and I figured I’m no longer at risk of anything)

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Methinks your premise of mone users as disproportionately ugly is weak and maybe a troll. Mone users may tend to be tweakin’, detail oriented control freaks, but I doubt any homelier than the general population. I suspect they may be more presentation conscious than the average person and merely wish control their persona beyond appearance, body language, speech, etc. I think of mone use along the same lines as wearing nice designer threads, having a cool do or smelling good. It’s just part of the wardrobe or at least an accessory. It’s ain’t a smokescreen for lookin’ like hell.

Not too many will be willing to post portraits as anonymity is paramount for most here…

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I agree that we all feel ugly at times.

Nothing like a controversial subject to get the energy levels up!

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Firstly, What kind of question is this?! Touchy subject? Geeze. Seems more like an offensive statement.

Well, as a matter of fact, are you ugly? Hmm, you seem to be interested in pheros too. And I totally disagree with your feeling that people use this because they are ugly. No one in the world is ugly. Pheros don’t change you into something more attractive physically, they enhance you. Just like my eyes, see I’m dark skinned, and light eye-ed. When I wear enhancers people just turn 360 automatically, cause it’s so different…perhaps striking? it enhances what I already have.

Same thing with pheros, when people wear it, it enhances them, it makes them look more different, more special, it enhances their attractiveness. It enhances what they already have.

Now -WOW- you’re comment to Tisha there… watch your mouth boy, don’t know how you have the gutts to say something like that to a woman in the first place. And nobody is going to put any photographic proof to prove anything to you, this is just plain absurdity. LMAO, why don’t you post your pictures, and let’s see if you’re good looking or “ugly” hmm?

Well, we’re not going to let others down by mentioning whether they’re ugly or not to just boost your confidence. That’s just wrong, and a very asshole thing to do.

And why are you typing in the woman’s section if you want to feel better? You want to feel better as a man towards the ladies here? You could have posted in the men’s section lol, I might have dropped in to see some action. lol.

Well, yea the way you’ve written things are so fricken offensive. I hope this thread gets deleted or locked, before it get more words out of my mouth. Jesus.

Pfft, and I ain’t posting my picture here to prove that I’m pretty/beautiful lmao

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I just got a post report that this doesn’t seem funny or positive.

Since reading it out loud verbally, I think you are just being cheeky, trying to egg Tisha into giving you pictures. Flirting.

But you might want to make yourself clear. We want to keep his an upbeat, positive vibe here. You just have to remember that text is not voice. A lot of playfulness that’s transmitted vocally is not transmitted in text.

This reminds me, I gotta add some more emoticons to humanize the forum a bit. This is the perfect time to do it.

Anyway, if you can give a few words about your intention here (and it should be a positive intention), you can keep the thread.

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Oops…damn, you were playing with tish??

I mis-read the whole thing…I’m so sorry at flaming at you (((((smoothplayer))))) lol I must have burned you so bad lol, I was so fricken close to neg-repping you! fiew lol. Aww. I feel so guilty now!

Just next time, becareful with the way you write lol, it could sound otherwise.

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Hmm..your post definitely came off the wrong way at first.

I’m not really sure what to say, now that I’m re-reading your post. I don’t know how you reached the conclusion that pheromone users are/might be ugly..

Is a carpenter less of a carpenter because he uses the right tool for the right job? He could sand something by hand, plane it, then sand it, or leave it alone. Is the carpenter less knowledgeable/skilled because he uses a tool? No, not at all.

So how does that translate to pheromone use? Why would it imply that because someone is using pheromones that they are lacking physical beauty or relationship skills?

We all know the saying that guys with small dicks compensate with sports cars. Now, I’ve never done a full study, but I’m pretty sure that the distribution of penis size amongst sports car drivers (a pretty broad category) would be fairly normal compared to that of the rest of the world.

Some people compensate, those are the people that compensate with everything in a specific, personal way, whether it’s with pheromones, money, material goods, or eye candy.

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I didn’t mean for it to be offensive, that’s why I started off with " First off, no offense to anyone here."

That’s the thing, I may actually be. And this topic is brought up a lot on the Mens Discussion forum, so I figured, why not bring it up here?

I do actually agree with that.

Wait, 360 degrees would mean…uh, don’t you mean 180?

Yeah, but I was wondering, are the people who are drawn to pheromones initially, the types of people who inherently believe there is something wrong with them, whether physically or else? Like we’re all searching to fill some void. I think all of us here can agree we probably have some self-esteem issues.

I’ll post my pictures after Tisha posts hers. The rest of you I’m not so concerned about actually.

I’m not trying to let others down. I think Jasmin is right, text comes off much different from regular talking. A lot of my original post was tongue-in-cheek, just messing around. Although somewhat curios, but all in good taste. Not trying to be the bad guy.

Yeah, well I don’t want to say that exactly because it may ruin the chances of us ever seeing them. But yeah, I didn’t mean it to be negative at all. By the way, Richard Branson! OMG! I’m very jealous.

Okay, just to be clear everyone, this is a playful and positive post. Let’s see some pictures Tisha!

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I want to see your pictures too Phya :wink:

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And, of course, the direct answer is HELL NO! Of course they’re not ugly. Many of the phero users I’ve met have been quite attractive.

In reality, almost nobody is “ugly”, anyway. Yes, everyone has an “ugly” moment when they get upset or don’t dress to accentuate themselves. In LA, I see plenty of stars out and about who look far worse than you’d ever imagine they could.

Yet, I’ve never run into anybody who’s not a few quick tweaks away from pretty. Every child is born beautiful, it’s the ravages of life or abuse itself that gets some of us down, and encourages some of us to neglect ourselves. It’s then self neglect that’s a big turn off to others.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen her in person yet, but some of the “ugliest” pictures of anybody I’ve ever seen were of Angelina Jolie, caught when she was bummed out and self-neglecting. That makes anybody less appealing.

But a quick facial peel (to remove some of the stresses that life puts on us), a little internal cleansing, a cute outfit, and a good feeling inside, and anybody is “beautiful” again. Sometimes the good feeling alone is all that’s necessary.

Here, people are actively looking to improve themselves. Nobody who self-improves, especially, is more than a few minutes away from beautiful.

The only caveat is to watch out for people who doll you up. I had to go to Richard Branson function recently, and, since I don’t really use much makeup, I had someone do it at a salon. My hair came out nice, but my face came out looking really, REALLY weird. I would’ve been better off wearing nothing but a nice dress and smile.

Again, that good feeling rules all. It causes smiles and all sorts of other side effects. A happy person tends to be the most attractive person in the room.

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Relax ladies. This is not an assault on anyone’s appearence.

He’s just fishin’ for pictures. Show him a few of your glamour shots (or borrow somebody else’s) and he’ll go away.

Another typical case of male pattern blindness. As my friend Eldros said:

Ain’t no biggie. Unless you want to use this as reason to discuss real beauty.

OoohYahhh

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Lol, that was when I was thinking about what to write after re-reading your post.

I would post pictures, but they wouldn’t do me justice. :stuck_out_tongue: I kid, but I like meeting people face to face.

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Sure, there are a few and we try to help these one-shot-wonders time and again in the forums. However, those with physcological problems are probably the exception and not the norm. Besides, if you’re searching to fill a void, mones are a quick trip to nowhere. Try religion, booze or drugs. At least you’ll be so numb you won’t realize you never left the gate.

I suspect more mone users think they’re the shit and merely wanna keep it that way. For others, mones are merely a little extra ammo and insurance–on the same level as lipstick or perfume. Personally I think mone users tend to perfectionists whom enjoy controlling their environment without being too obvious. And more social cooperation means more time invested into getting things done.

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Well I think Selva might be a BABE herself. And until she can prove me right by posting pictures I vote her off the island.

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Ohh and apparently I was the only one who read this with a happy face and cartoon voice. Jasmosis doesn’t count because she taught me that trick :slight_smile:

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I’m pretty and I see no shame in enhancing what nature gave me. I wear flattering clothes, go to the gym, put on mascara, perfume and lipgloss…pheromones are just an extension of that.

It would be a boring world out there if no one made an effort to be extra attractive. I enjoy seeing people around me being well dressed and smelling good, it is simply courtesy.

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That’s how most offensive posts start :wink:

now, would you like me to test you? hmm? lol

Interesting point of view.

lol, aww, that’s just too bad.

lol, you’re too nice! :slight_smile: blush

I thought you knew how I look like! :smiley: And I’d love to prove you’re right…but I don’t think I’ve got any sexy pictures with a night gown on hand LOL!! :smiley: You still interested for a tamer pic? lol!

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Not necessarily! well I’m the only person that i know who has ever used pheromones, i dont personally know anybody else that does. so basically im just standing with my looks. and I dont know how other people in the forum appear but to me its more about chemistry than physical beauty.
well this is my ftj.
FaceTheJury.com - Profile christymich
its public and shows pictures taken between july08-september08. my myspace is private to non friends.:stuck_out_tongue:
anyways, yeah I hope you arent let down. just know that there is something beautiful in everyone.
have a good day.