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If these girls have preconceived notion of you being, as you’ve eloquently described, “ugly” then I’d say no. However, Ammo or other pheromone products might help you attract some new girls you meet.
Did they actually came up to you and said you are “ugly?”
NO! AMMO will give you some help in creating attraction from some girls.
There were a lot of posts in this thread trying to help you understand that. It’s 90% you 10% pheromones.
The answers are no different now then they were the last three times you asked them.
Obviously AMMO will not change the way you look to other people. Mones enhance the good traits you already have. They cause interest and attraction not because of the way you look but because of the vibe your sending out.
As for ugly, no one is attractive looking to every person. Everyone has different tastes. Its impossible for every person you meet to think your good looking. Stop worrying about these girls who think your ugly and get out there and meet the ones that don’t think your ugly. But to be successful you need to let go of this worry about being ugly and just be who you are and be the best you, you can be. Whether you use mones to do that or not.
Tisha
You are way too hung up on physical looks. Some people are going to dislike you for any number of reasons; you cannot change their minds, even with pheromones. I have met some downright ignorant or evil people who will NEVER like me, and I just accept that. It is their loss, not mine. Getting praise or friendship from such odious people would mean nothing to me anyways, if it meant I had to stoop to their level to please them. Likewise, these peoples condemnations/criticisms also mean nothing because they have no ethical values to base their judgements upon. These people tend to hate everybody as part of their nature, guilty until proven innocent, etc, unless they can get something out of you, more than they have to put in. They are just haters and manipulators.
In short, their opinions of me don’t matter because they are wrong, and being liked by them would only drag me down. I’d much rather seek out quality people who will appreciate me for who I am rather than who they think I should be or what I can give them.
Does that make any sense to you? I think, if your questions are now answered… we can move on. Ammo isn’t for you. Try Instant Openness, bathing, wearing nice clothes (don’t dress like a slob) etc. And leave the attitude you are unlikeable somewhere else.
You just don’t get it, do you? Some people will hate you anyways, for no reason at all, just because they are evil/ignorant. This is true for everybody. There is more to life than being popular, you know.
Ammo will most certainly not make these people like you. If you find everybody doesn’t like you, then there’s probably something wrong with you how you see yourself. Seek therapy. What Ammo and other pheromones really work well with is getting noticed, not changing peoples minds about you.
For starters you can go on Youtube and watch Arcady39’s videos on interacting with people/dating. I know what he would say- some people are not worth being popular with if they cause you to compromise your core values and drag you down to their level (I guess assuming you have values? You do have values, right?). It is far more important to be self-confident and moral/ethical than it is to be popular. Also look up “Sean Stephenson” while you are there, too.
Bottom line, there is a term for somebody that gets their validaiton from other people, that needs other people to like them, it’s a mental illness. Healthy people get validation from themselves. You are a teen and probably don’t understand that completely, though, but just trust it anyways. If you don’t believe in yourself, well, there’s not much there for anybody else to like either, except somebody who wants to use you. The good news is if you really hate what you look like, or what you think you look like, rather, there is help for it. Talk to a school counsellor, a licensed clinical psychologist or social worker, they can help you deal with your feelings.
There’s a lot more to attraction than just physical attraction. You keep asking the same question, maybe you have confidence issues? If you’re negative about yourself, it changes the way you act and do things that people might pick up on. Try to be more positive.
3 threads of advice, encouragement, and suggestions, and you ignore those by starting a 4th one. Not only that, but in doing so, you’re dictating the type of answers we should give? I have a feeling only one answer is going to satisfy you.
That answer is no. The reason is actually because you’re secretly repulsed by women. My understanding is that coming to the realization that you’re gay tends to bring about all sorts of internal conflicts, particularly if you’ve been raised under a certain umbrella of mores and values. I think the best thing to do is find one of those free local newspapers with the personal ads, look for the Men Seeking Men section, and call someone. I think if you just talk about it with another gay person who is “out”, you’ll find the self confidence to embrace this lifestyle. Don’t fight the feeling, man.
-D4
Merridew may also have insecurity issues. I know I did. That’s why I created the ‘ladies input needed’ thread. After seeing what the ladies had to say and after studying a lot and working on myself physically and mentally, I feel like I own the world now. Well, not really, but I feel pretty damn good. But still. . .
Yeah, self esteem, thats it. I guess the reason for 4 threads is because the answers in the other 3 was a ‘No’ instead of a ‘yeah, just spray some AMMO on and all your problems will go away’.
I’m winning a battle with self esteem issues and the “ugly” notion, it can be done, just takes time and effort. Using pheromones can be a real help but only if you understand what they can do and can’t do. Theres also plenty of non-phero related advice on this forum that can really help.
Post a picture of yourself!
I suspect that you may find a nice homely girl who will think you are king.
but unless you are obscenely rich, picking up a supermodel, cheerleader or beauty queen will be out of your league.
They may act nicer to you in public, but getting one home long enough to turn out the lights will likely not be possible.
There is a lot more to a healthy relationship than looks.
I saw a special on human attraction, (I think it was Inside the human sexes, or The Human Body?, either way it was a Study by Desmond Morris) Where they had subjects rate computer pictures, by their attractiveness, then they had pictures of the subjects, and they found that people were most likely to pick people who they had rated as having a smilar score as they rated their own picture as potential mates, dates or partners.
So unless you are Ken look alike, getting with Barbie will not likely be in your future, but there is someone somewhere for you.
Besides physical attractiveness women are very keen on social value. Some experts in the field say making the best out of what you were given (dress well, practice good hygiene etc) with high social status is enough to attract a high value mate. Pheromones are a very eloquent way to boost your social status. Read books on attraction and social status and social rules so that you can be on the top of your game.
Women are more keen on social status where men are more keen on looks. Hope that helps.
if you think you really are that ugly (btw, noone is - beauty lies in the eye of the beholder) then you should focus your efforts on making a s*hitload of money. then you’ll have to pay girls to stay off you. find something that you are good at and focus all you efforts into it. if you really have such deep confidence issues you are probably wasting your time on this forum. pheromones wont change who you are, and most importantly it wont help repair your confidence issues (only you can do that). on the other hand, try exercise as a confidence booster, it has helped a countless number of people.
1st of all quit calling yourself ugly. there are females out there that might think you are hot. some women think i’m hot and some think not so hot. every women is different. 2nd, this stuff will open some doors for you but the rest is up to you. but a crappy outlook won’t get you much.
A skillfully applied dose of mones coupled with appropriate behavior will help create the appearance of high social status. However this appearance is only effective for the short term. In the long term you actually need to have earned your high social status. A poser is obvious once they get to know you.
Yeahhhhhhh. We girls love money.
No seriously, unless you’re deformed with one eye missing and an open maw for a face, personality trumps looks. I’d prefer to go out with a nice, well-rounded male who is capable of looking after himself and the finances, who knows how to hold his own in an intellectual conversation. Guess that’s where self-confidence and A314 / Inst Gentleman comes in.
Surely that beats going out with a ruggedly handsome drug addicted sex offender who beats me up and steals all my money.
OP, I think you need to give us some specifics as to why you think you are ugly. As the last poster said, unless you are some kind of quasimodo pseudo-humanoid, there are probably things you can improve. Using pheromones now would probably be premature as you need to be congruent with them–something you might have difficulty with because it sounds like there are more fundamental, underlying self-confidence issues at work here.
Mystery Method… Best book on earth…
Thats my dating profile right there 
No matter what anyone could say ,there is ugly people ,(I´m referering to the body and face) so it´s time to think that maybe I´m one of these and is good to know the truth.So I´ll buy some pheromones and see if something change ,unless for a short time, maybe becoming a little bit more atractive for girls.
You must recognize this could be a real situation ,even if I got a lack of confidence or not, so pheromones could help ,(I hope so).