The thing is that girls (most of them) see me as some ugly guy (I’m 20). If you say that pheromones work, they will help me attract girls. I know that I need confidence, LOVE MYSELF, positive thinking, etc…but pheromones will help me with girls to be attracted to me…
another question…
If they will see me as ugly or unactractive, how are they going to see me with pheromones…different???
What do you mean by “attraction”…girls will like you???
Maybe… some scientists believe that a person’s pheromone signature is even more important than physical appearance. It doesn’t hurt to look physically attractive. Maybe you need a “makeover” and perhaps some “self-improvement” too.
Attracting people isn’t as simple as wearing chemicals on your body, though. Nothing like an Axe commercial.
Pheros won’t help unless you begin to help yourself. And are you sure they think you’re ugly? Or is it a confidence thing? It could also be your lifestyle/attitude/personality. Here’s a tip: With girls, its 10% looks, 90% other. If they think you’re ‘ugly’ it’s most likely the ‘other’ you have to work on. For how to ‘look’ attractive, read my attracting dos & don’t’s list (in my sig).
Another thing is congruency, if you don’t act the part, nothing will come of it. Look for the link to a very good congruency guide in renny’s sig. Again, pheros won’t help unless you begin to help yourself.
Being physically ugly
Some girls say that I’m ugly (most of them). For that reason I believe that I’m ugly. Besides, I’m infatuated with some girl. So, if I forget about that I’m ugly and just care about treating her the right way…possibly she will end up with me???
I have a plan
First, I will buy Ammunition to see any reaction on girls…as we know that pheromones DO HELP YOU AS I HAVE SEEN IN MANY POSTS.
Secondly, I will take an NLP course since I’m depressive, social fear or phobia, a very low self esteem, need to be more confident, act mature, etc.
What do you recommend me? Please help me
In all honesty? I think if this is something that’s really bothering you, you might consider some counseling. I don’t think there is a product available anywhere that helps a person with their own self-concept and self-image. That’s something you have to work through, and rather than going the DIY route, you might need to consult a professional. My gut instincts tell me that there’s a little more at play here than whether or not someone else thinks you’re ugly.
-D4
Dont let others define who you are mate.
People often say a lot of stuff to diminish a person, and really, it’s usually not even true..
Beauty to one person, is ugly to one person. Vice versa.
In fact, getting girls isn’t based only on your beauty. Girls do look for that, but it really doesnt matter as much if you say the right things.
Dont get me wrong, being a walking bulk of testosterone and man muscle is better than being unhealthy, but a big guy with the right attitude and persona could walk into a club, and get a lot more girls than a body builder that has the “Hey. I’m Bob” technique.
Dont let stupid people get you down.
Read up on The Mystery Method, or listen to the seminars, and change up your game, and that “you’re ugly” will turn into “OMG! I SO WANT YOU!”
Um, be congruent with your pheromones though, so don’t just wait in hiding for some girl to come up and start humping your leg…
They are like a laser sight + an extra magnify power to your scope. They help you. Help you.
Once in a while that laser sight gets hard and does a good part of the work for you, but not all the time.
So, dont be discouraged if you walk out one day with it on and no one jumps on your back.
Physical attraction is a weird thing. Im a bigger guy so I am attracted to thicker women versus my very thin friends who like to them to be super skinny. I really thing attraction is best done on a case by case basis.
This is very true.
My family had a friend growing up who was electrocuted in the military, fell quite a ways to the ground . He had two artificial legs and a crippled hand, was bald, and wasn’t physically “special” looking, and yet he found somebody that loved him and he had a really commanding presence in a room (and he still worked in the military, he had a “desk” job). What you look like doesn’t really matter all that much, and the more you dwell on it, the worse it hurts you. I know this from my own personal experience as well.
Try some Instant Gentleman and Instant Openness. I can almost guarantee you, you will start having better eye contact with people and stop focusing on your self-image. Also, consider some counselling if you don’t notice any changes in your attitude- it’s not healthy.
Physical looks are only a small part of who you are, and one that most people are going to forget right away, especially if you are a guy- it’s just not that important. See my lastest reply in your other thread about the guy with two artificial legs and a crippled hand.
Plus, if you are really ugly, you can use that to your benefit to enhance your status 
I doubt Al Capone, for instance, cared that he was ugly as sin an had a scar on his face- if anything that made him much more scary. 
Looking rough and gruff or unusual can enhance your presence, not a bad thing at all. If you can combine that with a warm personality, you have a winning combination. “Beauty and the Beast”, etc.
don’t mean to discriminate here ,
but i live in a country where only 1 out of 10 guys would be considered
Average ( nope , not gorgeous , just average )
The Culture most of the guys have here is , All you need is money
kay , i digress ..
Reason why i said all that , is cause ,
Somewhere , somehow , there has to be a starting point to create the chance ( Be it Looks , Kindness , Money , Or even Voodoo )
I don’t know how you look , but no one was born to look like an Ogre
I bet you’ve seen many Poor Butt Ugly Men with Beautiful and Wonderful girls b4
and wondered to urself , how the hell they did it ,
Obviously they did something right -
and i believe the first thing they did was to love themselves
Being comfortable in ur own skin , makes others feel comfortable being around you
Put it this way , if you were a chick , and you had to go out with a not so desirable looking fella , who , On Top of that , you have to Live and Deal with his Problems of being afraid of people ( which means , you’ll probably need 2 forsake the Fun Social Life ) , Depression ( the Lovely whining ) , and Has no Love for himself ( Oh , Boo Hoo )
Would you date yourself ?
How can someone be attracted to you , if you’re not even attracted to urself
So , Throw ur shoulders back , straighten up ur posture , Walk with ur Head up , Look Clean , Smell Clean ( Yes , please shower ) ,
Smile alot , Work out - not just to look good , but for ur health too
Oh and ignore those nonsense comments of what people say bout you ,
They are insignificant in your life ,
If there were to say another mean thing to you ,
Tell them that they have Fat Armpits and It looks like they have Black Gunk Stuck on them
and i don’t care how you do it ,
find a way to Love the Exterior God Gave you to ur beautiful beautiful soul
( Ur stuck with it anyway , plus , U’ll be alot happier spending time Loving it then hating it)
Then Top everything off with your Ammo icing
i can’t guarantee that you’ll Get that Girl you desire ,
but i can guarantee that if it were to happen by any chance at all ,
this would increase ur chances by a mile , or more
Or who knows , someone else might get smitten by you .. You Fox You …
And , you’ll be having a hellofatime with ur friends , old ones or new ones .
So much so , even ur princess can wait ( Yeah , make her BEG ! Woof WOof )
Sorry if i sound Harsh , i really mean well
And unless you REALLLLLLYYYYYYYYY Look anything like this ,
http://www.thebaglady.tv/jabba.jpg
I Ain’t Buyin the Ugly part
U might wanna try the ‘Z-Point’ Process or EFT , to aid you with this
Google it up .
May the Chicks be with you , k dumb joke ..
With all due respect Merridew you have started about 4 or 5 threads asking this same question.
I realize that its important to you and that’s fine but please pleaseeeeeeeee keep it to this thread.
Repeating it over and over in new threads is not going to get you a different answer.
Now don’t get me wrong, we love having you here with us I am just a order freak and need to keep order here in the forum 
I merged them
Tisha
Perhaps you want to post a pic for a biased opinion. My guess, is that are not ugly but you don’t do certian things to bring out your appearence. Simple things like nice clothing and a good haircut will change a lot. If you are heavy loosing some weight might help, but there are bigger guys who are alpha and get women so I don’t think it has a lot of pull in attraction, unless you make it a big deal.
Search for hypnotica stuff or other NLP hypnosis tracks.
True, I mean, just imagine jabba the hut with a huge smile on and a nice haircut. He’d be the cutest slug evar!
Jabba has all the slave chicks he could ever need . He doesn’t need your stinking bantha poodoo pheromone. He is the biggest, baddest slug in the universe. No Jedi mind tricks work on him.
Don’t be disrespectin’ the Hut.
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U Guys Are Hella Funny !
Hang in there buddy…most guys get hotter as they age. A lot of people who weren’t noticed at 20 years old are smokin hot in there 30s and 40s. Please work on your inner-game bro. Several us on this forum have benefited from David DeAngelo’s courses…maybe check out the “Deep Inner Game” course.
PERCEPTION IS REALITY. How you perceive yourself is what you are. It’s either a blessing or a curse, and the good news is, it’s your choice.
Yeah, David D is awesome. I have his Cocky Comedy DVD, and just to prove that looks aren’t everything, he’s got this physically disabled guy, whose name escapes me right now, that does a presentation in the seminar, and to hear him speak is amazing. If I had a fraction of the love and acceptance this guy has for himself, I’d be able to accomplish ANYTHING.
-D4
I just want to add… doubting your self-image is pretty normal as a teenager, to some extent. Don’t let it weight you down too much- sometimes it’s easy to obsesse about the obsession. Work on having friends at that stage in your life, not on getting a particular girl. Find an activity or friends that takes your mind off yourself and your problems, something you can contribute positively towards. Build up the social skills you can use later in life, when stuff really matters. I know that’s hard for teenagers to grasp, it was for me… but if you take it to heart it can serve you well.
Alot of gents and ladies have given you solid advices and opinions. I also wanted to add that what is inside counts more than what’s outside. Eventually you will find a girl who will appreciate you the way you are. Keeping up with your appearance is still important though. Also if you can make what’s so good inside of you come out, it might change your outside appearance. Hope this helps.
OK, first off, if you are 20 and girls are telling you to your face that they think you are ugly… you need to do some serious hygiene improvement; if you already bath, comb your hair brush your teeth, and wear clean clothes then you need to find some different girls. The ones who are telling you this SUCK! They are not worthy of your time or energy I don’t care what you look like.
Yes, pheromones can change the way other people perceive you. Will you look different to them, I don’t think so.
If you have some real physical challenges like bad scarring or something you should seek counseling… there are ways to overcome things like that. I had a friend in school who was badly burned on his face as a child, when I first met him it was actually hard to look at him without feeling pity…SOB always dated hot girls and married the girl who was voted most attractive in our annual.
Attraction simply means that you get positive attention from people. What you can do with that attention depends a lot more on your personality than pheromones or physical appearance.