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pheromones always work at a biological level. It’s involuntary. Whether or not the biological reaction translates into physical action depends on a multitude of independent factors. Unlike insects and lower mammals, humans have the ability to resist and/or ignore urges due to social filters. So while the pheromones will perk up responses, you still have to meet the social proof of the target. In other words, if a woman prefers rich Black rap artists, pheromones will not revoke freewill and make her fall for a poor White community college student.
Think of pheromones as an enhancement, sorta like wearing a smile or a nice designer shirt. A smile will often open open the door but you still gotta do the grunt work and past tests to get anywhere. And appearance is only one important trait among many. You can offset it somewhat with a great personality, promising career, nice threads, working out, etc.
Merridew, check this post for a realistic appraoch to what pheromones can do.
Beyond that I can tell you that yes looks matter but not as much as you might think. You don’t say why you feel unattractive so I’ll just say that whatever it is good grooming and a little fashion sense can help. I think pheromones help me be more attractive even though I’m an overweight middle aged guy with a ponytail and zero fashion sense. I’m working on everything but the beloved ponytail and I think that pheromones help me to keep working. Best to you.
Hey, I used to wear a ponytail, back in the 70s! Earthy women still love 'em. You just gotta hang at Green Peace rallies and organic food stores to be better appreciated.
Why do you think your unattractive ???
Everyone has different tastes and whats not attractive to one person is to another.
As long as your clean and neat thats what matters.
First thing you need to do is get rid of that “Im unattractive” attitude.
Confidence is part of attraction. Attitude is part of attraction.
So there are no unattractive people there are just unattractive attitudes.
Tisha
The organic food stores help with the weight thingie too. As a matter of fact a 20 something hippie girl who runs a rock shop (read stones and pebbles) gave me a nice crystal to help balance something or other just the other day. If I catch her hippie 20 something boyfriend stoned in the near future I’m gonna give her something back!
Beauty is an intrinsic property, in the universe, it holds that property REGARDLESS of who’s looking. Is the car red? Yes. Is the car beautiful? Yes. It holds these properties regardless of whoever, or if anyone is looking.
Attraction is not an intrinsic property. Attraction only holds that quality DEPENDING on who’s looking. In other words, attraction is in the eye of the beholder. Is that car red? Yes. Is that car beautiful? Yes. Does that car seem attractive? Depends on who’s looking at it. We all have different tastes. Beauty, personality, whatever else are only FACTORS of what people find attractive or unattractive.
So in other words, you need to accept the harsh reality of life. We’ve all been dealt different cards. He’s tall. She’s short. He’s Irish. She’s ugly. He’s hairy.
But its how you play your cards that matter. AGAIN: Weight, height, beauty, personality, culture, body language, whatever else are all factors that play into attraction. Some people will not find you attractive, but others do. ex: She can be tall and beautiful, but I may not find her attractive because she’s an airhead. A lot like that gorgeous, red car, that I may not want.
In other words, play your cards right, fix your inner confidence to say ‘I’m content and happy in my own shoes’, groom yourself, and however you look will hold no barring to who does and doesn’t find you attractive. Pheromones enhance traits that already exist within you. Social pheromones help establish connections with your peers that are more valuable than any love potion that ever did or didn’t exist. So if you’re interested in something that will boost your own self-confidence and help put your foot through the door and create friendships and romances that you never thought you would have before, than maybe pheromones are right for you. If you’re looking for a quick fix and a magic potion to make people morph their perceptions of what they think is socially acceptable to do to you and around you, then look away you need a witch doctor from Zimbabwe to fulfill those wants.
If I wear Ammo I will be very attractive to girls although I’m not physical attractiv
They will look at me more attractive??? I know that personality is what matters…but…wearing these pheromones is like opening the doors to girls???
I dont remember who said it, so sry for not giving creds to any1 specifically. But someone said this a while ago
OK, are you asking will mones make you better looking to women or are you asking will mones attract women ?
Yes mones will attract, arouse, cause interest ect ect…
No they wont think your better looking.
Attraction and the way people look dont go hand in hand always. Yes people are visual but there are other factors that cause attraction as well. Pheromones is one of those factors and they can influence women and give you a edge socially.
Tisha
Pheromones do work?
If I wear these pheromones I need to talk to the girls so they can work???
I completely understand that…besides, Im taking an NLP course to boost my self esteem, be more positive, more confident…yes, I will have all these qualities in a great extension…since NLP is POWERFUL!!! After that, Im going to buy some pheromones.
If you want to post on this subject dont keep starting a new thread. Go to the end of this thread and you will see a post reply button then we can keep everything nice and neat right here in this thread so its all together for you to read OK
Good I am glad you doing other things for self improvement. I think self improvement should be a life long quest for every person. That combined with mones should work well for you.
Tisha
Many things you need to know have been covered by the above posts. But out of sheer curiosity, do you mind posting a picture of yourself or PMing it to me? Need to make sure there’s a reason for you to think you’re unattractive.
cracks knuckles so Tisha any advice on how to improve perfection? Or has my life long journey already come to a screeching halt?
Anyways, I’m just kidding. But an NLP course is a step in the right direction, merridew. Trust me, your confidence and self esteem are worth their weight in gold, and just exuberantly displaying that confidence will work wonders for you in life. If you act like the most attractive person ever, then that’s what you’ll be. And no, you don’t always have to initiate contact with your peers to see reactions, in the same way a girl with breast implants can sometimes sit in the corner and give off vibes. But just like implants, if you take the right pheromones and stick them in someone else’s face by initiating conversations and such, it will be MUCH more effective.
take care of your hygiene and posture, women pay attention to little details.
also if you have time, get a local gym membership.
women don’t care about good looks as much as you think, you just have to develop your personality, be confident.