There was an interesting discussion earlier this evening at a friend’s house, about whether guys who were breastfed as infants were more likely to be “into” boobs later on in life, or not.
The consensus was, as far as the men present, was that the men who were breast fed as babies were not as “into” womens breasts as adults. The men who had NOT been breastfed were more boob-obsessed as adults.
So, perhaps men who were NOT breastfed somehow subconsciously are making up for it? And the men that weren’t breastfed have subconsciously “been there done that” and are thus less boob-oriented?
Yeah I’d have to say I’m more of a boob guy although the attribute has waned a bit over the years. Its a decent close second after a girl’s face for me
For myself it has very little to do with how or where I was fed from in my early days. It’s more about features that convey either health or femininity. In the case of womens breasts it’s the latter. I’ve heard of men having fetishes for less gender specific body parts such as hands or feet…I’m a man, I have my own hands and feet so I tend not to pay much attention to these attributes in women. Breasts on the other hand, I do not have, nor do any men…well not most at least. So it’s by and large (no pun intended) a very feminine quality, and at the more well blessed levels a quality that can easily be noticed and identified from a distance.
Now I would wager that breast size is an attractive feature to far more men than would admit to it. I posted about a similar issue some time ago in the lounge. It’s been my experience that while a great number of men will jerk their heads, and stare slack jawed and drooling over a woman that could play a live action version of Jessica Rabbit, they also tend to make some rather odd assumptions based on this.
I’ve noted that with a lot of men large breasts might be nice to look at and admire from afar, but most are actually intimidated by them, perhaps not having a clue as to what to do with them if they actually got the chance…maybe insecure and not comfortable with the idea of being seen in public with a woman who’s proportions garner the very same looks from men that he himself is throwing her way.
Then there are men that are willing to go out with and enjoy sex with such women, but will attach moral assumptions about the woman based on her anatomy. Women are just as if not more guilty of this than men to be honest. If you don’t believe me, stand with a group of women that are all C cups or smaller and hear what they have to say when a woman blessed with DD’s or larger walks into the room. The woman could be a virgin for all they know but never will you hear “slut” and it’s myriad of variations as you will when women speak about a woman who’s breasts are larger than their own.
But I digress, the levels where men tend to view large breasted women seem to be classified among the following statements or anything comparable.
“Anything more than a handful is a waste”…perhaps, but fortunately I have very large hands
“Nice to look at but I would never actually want to BE with a woman like that”
That’s like saying that a Ferrari is a nice car but you’d never want to drive one.
“I’d fuck her (apologies for the crassness but this IS what men say amongst men) just to say I did, but I don’t think I’d seriously date her”
“I could date her for a while for the sex but she’s really not marriage material yanno”
Now granted men will classify any and all women in categories like this but damn if a womans breast size (at least when exceptionally large) become a deciding factor when men make their classification. Ironic that the very feature that garnered their attention and in many cases inspired their lust in the first place also becomes the feature that disqualifies her from being taken seriously as a long term partner. Of course this is common thinking with people in general, we punish others for giving us what we want…men desire sex yet label women as loose moraled sluts for giving it to us.
I’m in touch enough with my inner cave man that I can appreciate a pronounced indicator of both femininity and sexual maturity for what it is.
I’m enlightened enough to know that breast size, is neither directly nor inversely proportional with intelligence or morality.
I’m hearty enough not to consider an abundantly endowed woman to be too much for me to handle.
And I’m confident and secure enough not to be bothered or concerned by the attention a large breasted wife or girlfriend might garner from other men.
I was breastfed but am obsessed with female genitalia and arse. Love to get my nose wet and part those sweet cheeks. Boobs are nice–prefer small 'n perky–but I mainly touch them because women like it. If I had my way, I’d dive headfirst into the cracks. I guess that makes me a dad burn crackhead…
Actually that brings up a related question…if some might theorize that not being breast fed leads to men having an abnormal fixation on women’s breasts, does the fact that I was delivered as a cesarean explain my obsession with vagina?
Silly me, I shouldn’t have voted, because it doesn’t really apply to me since I’m a (straight) girl. I don’t know how to un-vote on something, so the percentages shown in the poll are slightly skewed because of that.
lol, if the stink hole stinks, then no. But if you are in a 69 position, and it’s not dirty down there, i don’t mind playing with it a little to enhance her pleasure, if she’s open to it.
Maybe I’m shallow, but if she has a smoking body and an unpleasant face, none of it will work for me. But, I guess it depends on the positioning. I like to see a woman’s face while she is being pleasured. And, I’ve been told that while I’m down there, they like when I look up at them. I’ve only had a couple where they said they were uncomfortable when I was looking up at them.
