I am totally unmaterialistic.
A gorgeous smile that goes all the way RIGHT up to a beautiful pair of honest eyes, is what gets me where it should.
I loathe men and women who are all about the flash and the cash.
Money might be able to buy a lot, and it sure can help get you the coolest clothes and the nicest car, and even if you are altruistic, the best job, but so the heck what…?
NEVER was a truer word spoken than that money CANNOT buy you happiness.
Looks fade, and bankrolls can increase and decrease, but when your heart is good and true, trust me, the world IS your oyster. If you also find a partner in life that has a good true heart, then artifice goes out the window.
Okay, never stop putting effort into a relationship, always keep a bit of the magic and the mystery, but please, so many of you really need to start seeing past the gloss and the glitz and appreciate the person INSIDE.
Rant over. I just think a lot of you actually are preventing yourselves from being truly happy by being so superficial.
It’s not a reprimand in any way, it’s simply a suggestion to look outside the box for once. Mak has it right - Lor has it bang-on, some others do too, but honestly, I worry a lot of you are setting yourselves unrealistic goals that can only result in you never being content.
Even the way you describe certain women is not helping. Does a woman have to be a slut just because she maybe dresses a bit trashy and seems flirtatious? No, she damn well does not. I know in the men’s forum, guys have looser tongues and to be honest, I hear worse from some of my own students, but it is NOT helping you be content in yourself if you put women into boxes - or try to compartmentalise them by their “waist to hip ratio.”
What a lot of numpty gumff!
I have said this so many times here, be yourself, and it pays dividends BIG time. Put on an act, then when the mask finally slips, you are in for a ton of disappointment.
Do I know what I’m talking about? You bet your life I do.
..that’s another story for another lifetime though.
Brightest Blessings.
Ail )O(