I know this is a stupid question, and it’s not so much related to pheromones, but I value the opinion of all you male players here, and this seems like the best place to ask this question, so here goes:
For all you guys who have had sex with multiple girls with different hair colors, which hair color do you feel led to a more enjoyable sex experience?? So, if you’ve had sex with both blondes and brunettes, which did you enjoy the most and why? (based strictly on hair color)
My only sex experiences are with blondes…so I’m wondering what I’m missing (if anything) from brunettes or redheads. (No, I can’t just go pick up some random brunette or redhead off the street and have sex with them to “see for myself”! )
I am not one of the guys but would like to contribute some thoughts.
True blond is actually very rare. Only 1 in 50 blonde’s are really blond. So chances are if you have slept with more then one blond person you have slept with a brunette or red head LOL
While some studies indicate that people with similar natural hair color could have some personality traits that are similar there is no proven correlation between the two. Science feels its more the culture of the person that dictates how hair color and personality is perceived.
For instance red heads are native to the UK…Scotland, Ireland area. Some people describe red heads as hot tempered and strong. Its not their hair that makes them that way its there culture but because red hair is native to the culture we associate the two.
Now in modern times people dye there hair a lot more then they like to admit. So you may not know who has which color hair especially if a girl keeps up with her dye job. Pubic hair is not always the same color as the natural head hair. Its usually a few shades darker for a blond and dark brown to black for a brunette or red head so you cant go by that.
As far as sex, thats more about skill and personality not about hair color. Sex is learned just like anything else we do. So if you have a skilled partner with a open personality your not missing anything.
Now blonde’s could seem more arousing and skilled to you because you prefer the hair color and it turns you on. That’s just preference. Its like feeling more comfortable and happy in a blue shirt instead of a yellow shirt. Its just a perception.
I’d argue there’s also a little of cause and effect in there as well. Often if you expect someone to be a certain way because of their appearance, or if they have similar thoughts - it can manifest itself. I’m a believer that people will more often than not meet expectations of them.
That pretty much what perception is. The way we see something and the cause and effect of it. I agree some people take on a certain demeanor because of there perception of something.
If you perceive blonde’s as being shallow and stupid then thats what you will see.
If you are blond and you believe that you will begin to manifest that behavior.
Being a blonde myself I find that all girls seem the same. If your a man and you are getting laid, who cares what her hair color is as long as you two connect and enjoy yourselves. Thats all that really matters.
That is a question I wondered about as a young man. All of my teen and early twenties sexual encounters were with blondes. As I grew older and had increased sexual relations with non-blondes, I found hair color is only important in your expectations, which is ok, we all have curiosities and fantasies. But listen to Trisha23 and Fade1. I’ve learned not to look for physical markers such as hair color, but rather for the energy and connection for the best sex. The best sex is usually always without expectations. This is especially true with encounters with inexperience (unskilled) females who will be more relaxed and you will be surprised at how quickly they become skilled. Encounters with expectations often leave one or both of you a little disappointed or at least what was good sex could have been great sex.
It really is more about culture and upbringing. While brunette is far and away the most common hair color you’ll find that even within that are various stereotypes.
Asians are brunette (though I did meet a natural blond Vietnamese girl but she had a lot of french in her family tree) and men tend to hold a certain stereotype that asian women make good sexual partners because of the belief that they tend to be more submissive. On the flip side most Latin women you meet will also be brunette, they have a double stereotype, being good homemakers due to being raised in a patriarchal culture but also for being “hot blooded” and hellions in the bedroom.
As Tish stated, red hair originated with the Celts of the British isles, the stereotype of them being “fiery” in all likelyhood has little to do with any natural inclinations. People associate the color with fire and heat, associated those qualities to the people that had red hair and when everyone around you expects you to be “fiery”, you probably will be.
Blonde hair is suspected to be a genetic adaptation, a strictly cosmetic evolutionary development designed to attract the attention of potential mates by standing out against a crowd of dark haired prospects. Ironic however that it’s a recessive trait and a blond/brunette coupling will likely produce either hair as dark as the brunette parent or incomplete dominance of the gene thus creating a “lighter shade” of brunette.
Occasionally a mixed coupling will produce another natural blond but only if the brunette parent carries the gene from a blond ancestor in his or her own family tree.
Now there is no evidence to suggest this but it does make me wonder. Usually in nature a visible display designed to attract a mate is indicative of some other positive genetic trait and the display is used to signal that. What exactly is being signaled, I have no clue.
That said religion, cultural upbringing, confidence in ones own attractiveness and previous sexual experiences will all cumulatively have a greater effect on a womans natural sexuality than the color of her hair. Although as stated, social beliefs about hair color may effect it on a subconscious level.
Being a redhead, my view is that ever since I was like 10 or something I’ve had to listen to people telling me that we are surpose to be firery in bed. Knowing what is expected from me, I naturally do not wish to disappoint anyone
Well it’s like the studys showing that nicknames actually changes a persons behavior, if your boyfriend calls you princess, you’ll behave worse than if he calls you sweety. Since everyone expects to have badass mindblowing sex with redheads thats what we do
Awww, all of my experience is just blondes. Do you want to help me get my first redhead experience? I’ll load up on Instant Shine, Ammo, and MX297 just for you! That will be my Fiery Redhead Mix! :o
Definitely redheaded women. But that’s personal opinion and attraction. Redheaded women are rare bird, red headed people account for less than 2% of the worlds population!
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