So in past threads I talked about a shy girl at work who I’ve been trying to get with. Yesterday I asked her face to face if she wanted to hang out after work and she didn’t even respond…at all. So weird that never ever happened to me before. Caught me feeling stupid and speechless lol. And then after about a minute she asked me some question about Chapstick. Really annoyed me. So anyway today was a totally different case. We had an extremely sexual convo at coffee break which she initiated and she told me how she was in the mood and feeling h***y and it was like the door was wide open for me. So I text her throughout the day and told her I was thinking about what she said to me over break and she said," well I figured why not tell you we’re friends I can tell you these things" meanwhile I don’t even know her well enough to be her friend but def long enough to hook up. Don’t even tell me I got friggen friend zoned by this girl please. Lol what do I do now I’m so close. Ps the mones def worked tho I been using them for a month and she opened up quite nicely so they’re def great products but at this point I think the mones did their part but what do I do now?
Can you give a bit more info:
Which mones do you have in stock?
Which ones have you tried with her?
Was this event you are describing the first time you’ve been using mones around her?
I have currently a314 and IH I had ammo but ran out but I’ve been song mines around her a little over a month now but today was the most explicit convo we’ve ever had. I have been using the mines amongst my Coolwater cologne and since I’ve been doing that I notice she’s a lot more in tune with me so I’m going to continue to do that.
The ‘song mines’ and the ‘mines’ I don’t quite grasp, sorry 
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Sorry my autocorrect on my phone did that. I meant “using mones” and “mones”
Never, NEVER ask a woman outright to hang or go-with you. No matter how shy, this needs to be coming from her. Signal your interest in a physical/nonverbal way instead.
This is good - and if you were making her feel good about doing so, then all the better. The IH/IS combo on its own or in a mix is excellent for this.
This is maybe where you messed-up - You acted like a fish taking the bait too hard and running with it, she saw you were hooked and pulled too hard the other way, breaking-off. When she opens-up, you engage, then back right-off this leaves her wondering and that inevitably boosts any attraction considerably. Again, where status/emotional engagement mones (eg A314, IH) are involved, then the effect is often much stronger. She needs to wonder about you and you need to signal you have options that don’t mean you are immediately investing yourself in her. She needs to do more work to get your interest and you removed her need to - so she kept it just friendly instead.
You need to slow down, play it a bit more carefully and let her draw back towards you.
Not trying to hijack the thread but if you never ever ask a female to go out, do you wait until she ask to hangout with you? You can’t suggest coffee or a simple meet up? Good advice overall though.
A date is a different matter - and that sets the frame nicely but its not the way the op is going here.
He appears to be looking to get under her skin and build attraction in a different way because of her shyness.
I see. I reread the OP post and I see what you mean.
Thanks for your reply guys! Yea I’m definitely going to do that and try flipping the table to make her thirsty for me now. I just bought a to go of TUTH and IH today. What are my advantages and disadvantages with using these? I have A314 IH and TUTH so what is a beneficial mix now plus I see she reacts amazingly with my cool water cologne so knowing that what would be the ultimate mix to make her just quit the BS games and just get with it?
A314 and IH, is the obvious bonding mix to me, with the TUH introduced as you get into a more sexual state. If you had sme IS, that would do no wrong as well.
All of these will sit well enough with Cool Water if you give them a little while to settle on your skin.
Unless you work at Burger King, or some other temporary job that you don’t care about losing, the best advice you could receive right now is (take your pick):
- Don’t get your honey where you make your money.
- Don’t dip your pen in the company inkwell.
- Don’t shit where you eat.