Need some suggestions on what you would do

Ok lets say hypothetically your a 24 year old male and you have a 20 year old girl … a really close friend that you have known for 5 years. What would be the best combination to use on her to get her really interested in you.

Go wash your mouth and thoughts out with soap!

Do not mess up a good thing, because your hormones are stampeding your good senses. Five years is a lot of time invested in a friend, and go and let your pecker mess it up. I don’t think people understand the value of a good friend. Hell, I don’t think people understand the word friend. Those are the one’s that are always there for you, they’ll tell you when you’re wrong, and you ALWAYS have someone to talk to! You really wanna mess that up?

If the answer to that is yes, then you’re going to have to invest in a lot of mones until you find something that you SEE touches her. Start with the socials, and work your way up.

Good luck, Chief Crazy Horse!!! :smiley:

Hypothetically — yeah, right!

Lol Ty for the help yeah i know, but its driving me crazy every time i look at her she makes me melt. Ive tried to let it go but it doesnt happen. I dont know what to do shes just the perfect girl, but i want to make sure she feels the same way about me but if i use mones to do it would that be wrong?

No, we produce pheromones naturally and pheromones can’t change a girls mind and have her do something that she knows is wrong. Unless she has an inner attraction for you as well then yes, the pheromones (but most importantly you) can help bring that out to the surface.

so if she does respond to me then she pretty much liked me from get go she just hasnt reacted to her feelings then?

Possibly, it sounds more like something a nice deep talk can help than pheromones. Unless she’s just responding well to the pheromones, but only in a social manner and nothing else, so either way you’re left with a decision to make and a nice little conversation (or a move on your part if you want to take it to that level than just friends.)

if your set on this then a healthy dose of IH might make for a deeper conversation, the kind that might include a chat about feelings and the like. I’d be tempted to add p83 into the mix too, but then I’m permanently tempted to do that with everything so take that as you will.

There is no getting away from the fact though that if you have to take things further with this lady then you’re going to have to admit to your feelings. That will be a conversation that will have to be handled very carefully if you don’t wan’t to lose a close friend. Maybe when you’re both in a relaxed frame of mind you could casually mention “have you ever thought what would happen if you and I got together” something of that nature which should get you what you want to know but also gives you the wiggle room to back off if the answer seems to be a no.

Things you shouldn’t do, for me, would be:

Coming on too strong and freaking her out - you risk losing a good friend.
Going to her friends and asking them - Because, believe it or not, girls talk to each other.
Plastering on enough None to sink a ship - Not only would you probabl od but the girl herself will probably get horndog vibes from you a and back off a good long way.

That’s my twopenneth anyway. I went through something similar in my early twenties and it caused a hell of a lot of tension and awkwardness between me and the lady in question. Luckily, very luckily over time the events have faded (as have the feelings) and now she’s back to being a really good friend. I went to her wedding 2 years ago.

Everybody’s PERFECT until you start sleeping with them. :wink: Still … learning from mistakes can never be wrong. That word EXCEPTION in Webster, is there for a reason. It may work out, too.

IF ‘I’ were in your situation, I’d just play with the mones around her, keep my mouth SHUT, and watch. IH and a tad bit of something fun and something sexual. CTTM2 + something sexual (1 spray of TUTH/AMMO/P83 on your chest (skin - under your shirt or t-shirt). You’ll know, pretty much, if she starts having less to say, that something’s going on … positive or negative.

Good luck, Nawtee Boi!

I dont want to just sleep with her i really truelly want to have a relationship but like you said i dont want to ruin a great friend relationship if her feelings arent the same. I dont want to just come out and say it figure i could try the mones and see if i cant see any hints on that she has feelings for me. Like people been saying they might say there not interested but there body language will give it away. Just have to look for the signs.

If your gonna use mones as reconnaissance try to go very easy on the sexual mones I’d say. Putting the science aside I’d be more inclined to think the girl was more into me if i gave her a nudge with the mones instead of sending a firing squad to get the job done in order to see signs of interest. Just tease her and flirt with her lightly like you always do and allow the mones to paint a bigger picture for you in terms of her womanly subtleties.

I hope everything works out for you dude.