"Using" Phermones on a friend

So to make a long store short I have a very close female friends who’s just a friend who I have a huge thing for. She as far as she’ll admit doesn’t want to be more than friends although many people think the opposite. Has anyone ever tired using pheromones to see if you can get a spark to click? We’re taking a trip in a month and sharing a hotel room, so i thought this might be a good time to try it.

I’m 35 and she’s 29.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Hi Zutroy, where are you from?

Hundreds of people on this forum have used these pheromones to get sparks to click :wink:
You must be looking for advice on what to purchase…

I recommend IO, IH and TUTH to try in different situations.

I’d add Instant Gentleman to that list. It is amazing how many women respond VERY well to that. Especially when combined with a spray of TUTH.

Ditto what the boys above said, but bear in mind that it’s very difficult to change a girl’s opinion of you once you have been put in the friend zone.

If there is any chance at all, it’s going to come down more to how you interact with this girl than anything else.

Most times, people in your position tend to be a little too nice, helpful and available to the other person which makes you a pushover to her and kills any attraction she might feel.

I’m not sure how often you see this girl and whether it’s one on one typically or not, but if it’s more than once a week you need to cut it back. Be doing something else if she wants to catch up. Tell her you have a date - better yet, actually be having that date!

If you talk to her on the phone a lot, cut it short. Don’t call her at all.

I’m sure there are other guys on here who will have good advice in regards to this sort of thing.

Please bear in mind, I’m not telling you to be a p#$ck to her. You just need to be busy - possibly a little bit too busy for her at the moment, and preferably with other women. You need to get her to start seeing you as a desirable commodity that isn’t always going to be around to fulfil any “comfort attention” she might want.

If she does feel anything beyond friendship for you, you will appear a lot more attractive in her eyes this way…

Great advice! :slight_smile:

uhhh… this is pretty much exactly what i was going to say…

friends zone is a place where few men come back from, so you have to do your work.. the pheromones can help her open up and feel relaxed… being busy with other women should help, but you’ll, at some point, have to show her, if not just a little, how you feel for her too. I actually have a semi-similar thing going on and for my situation RIGHT NOW, nothing will most likely change that for me… but the future could change things for me, never know. Good luck!!! let us know how things progress.

DAMN YOU FRIENDS ZOOOOOONNNEEE!!! :slight_smile::frowning::wink:

I hate the friends zone so very much.

Good luck to you on hopefully changing her mind.

i’d say it’d depend on how much you’re willing to spend on pheromones.
for some that work great (for me anyways) instant honesty, putative 83, instant shine, and instant gentlemen ( for your age, i think a314 would work better )

instant honesty- it really gets the girl to be more honest and open to you with what you guys talk about. it’s great for deeper conversations

putative 83- i haven’t tried it myself although i should be getting a bottle in the mail tomorrow. from what i’ve read though it’s a sexual pheromone? i don’t think that’s exactly the case. it sounds more like it just makes the girl more aggressive at trying to get what they want. so they’d be more aggressive but you still gotta do your part to reel her in.

instant shine- good pheromone no matter what situation or enviroment. it’s a universal pheromone. good for everything. it gives you a confident feel and it makes you “shine.” give girls the vibe that you’re energetic and fun

a314- never tried but everyone seems to love it. a respect and value pheromone i think. not hard to research. posts on it everywhere

The thing about the “friend zone” is it means she isn’t into you romantically or sexually for some reason. But she likes you for other reasons. Getting out of the friend zone is possible but it depends on the reason you’re there. If she’s only attracted to older White males and you’re a young Hispanic, no amount of mones will change her taste. However, if she if is attracted to you at some level but a relationship didn’t develop because she was into another guy and he’s now gone, you might have a chance.

I’ve been great friends with women but still teased and played with them, maintaining a wee bit of sexual tension. We always knew there was an attraction but held back due to other commitments. When things loosened up, the friendship blossomed into romance. Personally I find friends transformed into lovers to be the best. It’s so comfortable and has a great deal of depth out the gate. But realize, when it goes south–and they all eventually do–you usually lose her as friend. And sometimes a long term friend is far more valuable than a shot term lover. It’s a lot easier to get laid than find a true friend.