The classic struggle here, I’m falling for my best friend and am hoping to use pheros to my advantage in trying to get her to see me in a new light, a romantic/sexual one.
I’ve been in the last month or so around her always wearing A314, since I tend to see her after work where I use the A314, and sometimes there’s a little TUTH if I’m going out or some IS if I’m seeing friends. So far, I haven’t noticed any results.
pheromone wise i would try ammo or turn up the heat.
HOWEVER
if you are friends with her now and apply the pheromones, it wont matter. you must work on your relationship and just accentuate it with phero’s.
also you should understand that just declaring your love will definitely end up in failure. you should just start talking to her in a way that conveys your interest. if she responds well then keep on escalating if not, its probably not going to happen, so just forget it and be friends with her. don’t worry for 1 second though, there are lots of other girls you can go head over heels for again.
I have been in the same situation, she will not change her mind about the way she feels about you, if you are always going to have the same feelings for her. Go out and find other girls and maybe even bring them out with you. You will see a change in her thinking once she sees you with other girls.
Ive been in your situation twice before both times resulting in getter the girl and this was long before pheromones just be flirty and use kino if you work hard enough you can get anything.
I have been putting more space between time I respond or write or call. I am not into gifts unless it is a souvenir like from Alaska where I was recently. I was way too complementary to begin with but then so was she. Been a real puzzle to me because I have never had a woman respond as she has without some romantic interest. I have no evidence of her dating anyone else steady and occurs when I am unavailable. She does go to group dance lessons or meet up groups for a dinner and cocktails. And I know goes dancing on occasion with girl friends or a guy. She is pretty open about her routine but at times not sure all is on the up and up.
Just a spritz of TUTH or IJ and at your age I mean a spritz…along with something else like a social.
I think you need that constant underlying sexual tension so over time she finally just says..wtf? every time I’m around this guy I feel this way.
Now Tisha has brought up good points about how you can get her feeling that way and she’ll only go release that tension on someone else. But my point is, its better to take that chance and have her feeling a bit edgy around you due to sexual tension, than just comfort. Comfort is huge, but there has to be that danger of sex there too.