First post. I’m new to the forum and pheromones in general. Never used them and I am now considering my first purchase.
The deal is, there is this girl who I really like (and likes me back) but I am stuck in the friendzone.
We have lots of comfort, absolute trust in each other, hang together constantly. But I just can’t get her sexually intersted in me.
Since we already have that whole “platonic relationship” thing going on I was thinking some pheromones could do the trick.
What is the best product to use in this kind of situation? Or any situation when you already have confort and trust and just need sexual attraction. TOTH?
Hi . Welcome to the forum.
My suggestions would be fir AMMO . It will send sexosocial signal to her. Use it with IS. This is for evening hangouts . As soon as she shows some intrest add TUTH . deal done !.
Pheros will help but I’m afraid they are not the whole story.
Attraction thrives on tension, a bit of emotional dissonance, sometimes outright infuriation and having her in a position where she has to invest herself, wonder about you and work for your attention - which of course you don’t give quite so easily.
Too much comfort, trust, constantly hanging-out, unequivocal emotional validation and otherwise being completely at her beck and call is a near-certain attraction-killer and spraying a few mones won’t do a great deal to change that.
In fact, using an overt sexual in these situations can work right against you - be making her edgy/uncomfortable and even inexplicably angry at your very presence. Put simply, TUTH is the chemical-signal equivalent of sitting there with your cock-out, saying FUCK ME NOW! - which isn’t always the best attraction strategy for most women!
However, in other situations, where she’s feeling good, having fun and when she can drop her inhibitions, well - TUTH can be very effective indeed.
So Soni’s suggestion of Ammo and Instant Shine is a much better routine option, because its a balanced social/sexual and masculine product with happy/feelgood steering from the IS. You then have the TUTH on hand for when she starts giving-out positive IOIs or for when you get in a much more raunchy mood.
But before then, you are going to have to rethink your approach to her, step back a bit and be quite prepared to steer you platonic relationship on to the rocks, in order to reframe it as a romantic/sexual one. And that can take time and pheros which will help to reinforce your new aspect in all the right ways.
Now we could use some more info about both yourself and the lady - ages, personality, any consious or unconsious IOI’s she sends-out and the range of situations you have to use pheros around her. This all helps get you better informed advice and if you put it al in a thread in the Intro Forum, you will also earn the $25 GC to help get yourself started.
OP this is some very valuable advice indeed, you should take note of it
Attraction within friends occurs in a similar way to what Mobo has described; you get a little bit more leeway in the trust and comfort department, and the first part of his advice takes shape in the form of friendly teasing, messing around with her, etc.
Mobo hits the nail on the head as usual. If you really want out of the friend zone, you’ll need to stop being a friend. While it’s true some friends fuck, that’s usually the exception to the rule. Most friends are just that, a friend. If you want more than that you’re going to have reclassify in your own mind what you are in relation to her.
Start going out more, without her, don’t respond to emails and texts immediately, do YOUR thing. She’ll wonder whats up with you. That will either push her to get you to make a move or she’ll leave. Simple as that.
The mones will help, with this. I myself have had great results with Instant Honesty, when I wanted to have a deep convo. TUTH didn’t work for me, but Instant Jerk does, tho I keep that for special cases.
I’m 28, caucasian, light brown hair and brown eyes. I have a “business casual” style and receding hairline wich makes me look older.
She is 24, looks (and acts) younger than she is, also caucasian with dark brown hair and brown eyes. Don’t know if it matters but she says my best quality is being funny, so if there is something that reinforces that idea it may be a good option (IS?).
IOIs: She constantly touches me (especially arms, sometimes chest) when she is speaking to me. Acts kinda jealous when I take notice on other girls and is cool with me touching her, although in a not very sexual way.
As for situations, we used to work together but not anymore. Now we mostly hang out during daytime (beach, parks, museums, shopping, the ocasional roadtrip). When we do something at night we usually go to a pool hall or bar, sometimes cinema. We rarely go to clubs together because we have different tastes in music and she has a steady group of female friends for that.
Would Alpha A314 be a good option? The overall general effects, especially at a social and professional level, seem to be quite useful for someone in my position (independent contractor).
