Third field study: Today, HAD to go to Costco to pick up a st load of water. Don’t like to do chores, alone any way. So I’m there, but before I was there I was jogging(so I’m a hot mess), and before that I had just lolled out of bed. But, before I left the house I sprayed on some IO(you never know). So, right from the start at Costco I see a dark not bad looking woman(lets say Caribbean, lot of over seas dark exotics at this one) getting a cart and I have to get one also. I make my way over and purposely make sure I make my presence felt. When I get inside I keep notice of(if) any buy signals from the get go, and YES(her 3 times), so I chat her up real quick and get full frontal feedback as well as many heavy glares and smirks from a fair number of other women. So much so I have the stupidest chagrin. This creating a compounding positive loop to the point where you reach what I call a “shit or get off the pot” reflex. U have to not necessarily be proactive but learn to read the buy signals then act accordingly(whether to act or react). So I chat them up, something like “Here, let me help U with that or I’m really thirsty”,from all the water I have in the cart(with a smile on my face). I found these woman extremely receptive so the choice to be the initiator was a no brainer. This can be a little disconcerting when in such a large arena but you will eventually learn to adapt remembering that it’s not like you weren’t warned this might happen. So all this eye f*ing and then them breaking into a smile because I couldn’t keep from smiling(the positive compounding loop), goods stuff. These we’re mature, secure women were talking(have had there fair share of experience and they wear this proudly like a medal of commendation) not girls. These women(that I do not know) made it easy or I should say IO made easy for them to make it easy for me… No numbers…yet because I’m not there yet. Baby steps, baby steps. GJ
These are some good reports mate, you should set up a journal thread for us all to subscribe to.
Thanks Bro. Not sure how to do what you mean(journal thread). If you could give me a walk threw(instruct me) on how to I may consider it. GJ
Of course! 
It’s real simple
There’s a subforum here:
Just click the new thread button and type away!
This is where everyone keeps their journals. Keep it to your own personal style. Myself, I am a messy writer and lack structure… others keep it very well laid out and clinical. It doesn’t have to be a journal, it can be notes, reminders, anything! Loads of knowledge in loads of different styles over there.
Ur the best, Thanks.
Duh, one last thing. Almost forgot the best part of the “Costco Encounter”. Guess I got punch drunk with all the moans floating around in this place. lol I was making my way passed a kiosk with this cute black promo clerk giving a high energy sales pitch for something. So she shoots me a deep BS(buy signal) while she blurts out the price. I reply, “how much for U”? She replies, “1 million”. I come back with, “I got that”. She closes with “O Really”! This all taking place while I’m still pushing the cart. I put this in the win section and make my way to the water. I then double back to get to a register not realizing I was passing the kiosk again till I hear “million dollar man” what about me. So I wave real quick as if to get in the cart which she then makes as if the attempt was to take place. Yea it was a good day. GJ