I had to enter this post again don’t think it went in the first time so if it did sorry for my mistake but here’s my question again.
I will be getting any day my Instant Sexiness B and also turn up the heat & MX235 .
How can I use these products to get the best effect and my aim is on my husband who totally doesn’t know I exist lol…so I want a bomb to drop on him or some hot pheromones
And any other products that anyone can suggest for my next order that can help I would appreciate.
Well lets shake the man up, I would take a few different approaches.
First mones, your off to a good start there.
If you haven’t done it yet test each one by itself just to get a feel for it.
During the day or just hanging out doing normal everyday stuff with him use MX235. I use 2 to 6 sprays myself.
Then when its more quiet and you have private time together… Use Instant sexiness, 3 to 5 sprays depending on your testing and dosage. Open up your TUTH and apply a few dabs, I dont use sprays because to much anone on a women can make us horny bitches.
Give it a few trys because we have to sort of re-program them. They have preconceived notions and conditioned responses and sometimes it can take a few trys to break through those.
Next I would pop on down to Victoria Secrets and get some goodies.
Another thing to do is if your going out together even to the store or anywhere use your mones. It cant hurt for him to see you getting looks and attention.
There is one thing I do to get my hubby going. Shit I hope my kids are not reading this LOL Sam go to sleep … I stare at his package LOL He will be sitting on the couch and I will be looking at it. He will be talking on the phone and I will be glancing at it. LOL He will look at me and say “what” and I will act all innocent like I wasn’t looking at it but it tends to get him aroused LOL I know it sounds silly but it works for me.
There is always the returning from the bathroom naked method but the timing has to be right LOL
Go on a health kick… Say dear we are getting older and its time we take some vitamins LOL Take some womens vitamins for yourself and Give him some zinc and horny goat weed LOL That will light his fire (snort)
The guys know of alot more libido enhancing vitamins you give him but you dont want to over do it either .
Other products that tend to get my husband going IH, LAM or a high copulin formula. P83 and P74. All people are different and different products click for them so its sometimes hard to find just the ones that will cause a sexual reaction. It can be one you never expected would go in that direction and it takes you by surprise like IH does for me with me husband.
I am peeing in my pants right now this is the best advice & the funniest dam reply I have ever read lmao. And let me tell you I have been praying to the Godddess Venus & Aphrodite..my husband is a Capricorn and his mind is elsewhere meanwhile I want to have some fun and passion and heat.
I like that package thing you mention I definitely can uderstand how that can work I have done that myself and will definitely turn it up several notches with my pheromones when they come in probably tomorrow.
And what a great idea Tisha about wearing my secret weapons while out with him to get the looks elsewhere already have a hot Aries looking my way and if he doesn’t get with the program I might entertain the Aries looks
Still laughing here lmao…great advice I love it this is going to be fun can’t
wait to start the experiment.
Let’s see here… some good vitamins that are “easily explained away” are zinc (for keeping that cold away), vitamin E (helps your immune system, baby), and iron (helps metabolism). All of them help put a little UMPH! into his attitude. What else… one of the best aphrodesiac foods can be oysters. They are naturally high in zinc and also have rare amino acids that increase the testosterone produced by men. Also, if done correctly, eating oysters on the half-shell can be a very sensual meal. So if you have any kids, put them to bed, make a meal of oysters with candles, spray on a bit of sensual pheromones, and see where it goes? I can almost guarantee he’ll be carrying you off to bed within an hour of dinner. Cheers!
Yes I know all about those Aries i have a Aries moon and I do go very well with the fire in a Aries my spouse is a earth sign & he better watch out lol.
Oh, i didnt forget the horny goat weed… it’s just that…well… that one is kinda hard to explain away. I mean, lets be honest, you would have to be a tad on the dense side to not figure out what that does for you. Your best bet is to refer to it by its other name, barrenwort (i believe thats right… its been awhile since ive taken my plant identification class…). Yup! Looked in the link Tisha provided and there it was. But as far as i know, it doesnt have another health benefit… but i suppose it wouldnt be too hard to make one up!
Thanks Tisha & Mr Feel Good lol. I suppose this is something I would pick up in the health food store and then tell my spouse it’s a enzyme or something like coq10 & slip it to him with a sly look & Tisha I guess I should check out his package and act all innocent right lmao.
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To answer your question…We are 45 will be 46 this month and have been together about 26 years plus. We have always had a lot of sex everyday but things have been on the low down.
My spouse and I have been thru some tragedies the past couple of years & changes don’t know if that has anything to do with it & he is also very too much work and not enough play he can be a little too serious and I am very open and playful and experimental.
But I bounced right back afterall you only have one life to live and I feel as I get older I don’t feel older but feel more vibrant and more passionate and want to feel deeper levels of intimacy in all ways.
Wow, your story sounds very much like mine. Both my husband and I are 48. All I really wanted to accomplish was to reignite that spark between us. I am totally blown away by what we’ve been able to do in such a short amount of time.
I started using Androtics products about 3 months ago (was it really just that short amount of time?!!) and I can attest that these products have made a 180 degree difference in turning around our slow slide into boredom, and turned our bedroom (and other quick encounter places) hot, hot, hot!
So, I have a little bit of advice for you that will take a bit of patience. There are several things you want to do, and it is best if you take these in stages so he can get used to the changes gradually. And remember that as you use these to help your relationship the pheromones will affect you too. It is all good.
1.) Lighten the mood. When he feels better, lighter, less tense around you that will start the process rolling to happier, better days. I used several products:
a)Instant Shine - good for spontaneous smiles, but not a lot of long term effect. I still use this for celebrations as it really intensifies happiness.
**b) **MX274 - really good product with my husband. This one brings him almost immediately out of a bad mood. It promotes harmony in the environment and elicits caring behavior in a thinking, but kind way. It has anti-anxiety effects. When both of you are feeling like you desire harmony and are both feeling less stress, and both feeling deep caring for each other, good things happen. (Be aware that the molecule P74, which is the ingredient in this, is a cool, intellectual molecule. For me that translates to being too much in my head and slightly distanced from my body during sex, so I don’t use this product to promote sexual behavior. Some people, however don’t find this effect, or don’t find it bothersome in sexual encounters. You’ll have to determine for yourself the effects on you in different situations. The same holds true for all pheromones and pheromone products.)
**2.) Promote communication. ** Sometimes our guys forget that we are their number one support. They can tend to shut down and isolate themselves. When they can easily open back up those lines of communication in a self-assure way it builds the trust back that might have gotten eroded with years of tension and little fights, and situations out of their control. I used several products:
a) Come Talk to Me - This was interesting to use because of the odd reaction my husband had. He’s normally quiet. With this mix he became chatty as hell, but it was all superficial stuff and got to be a little exhausting listening to it. b) Instant Openness - This a better product for promoting conversations of a general nature that had a little more important content. I recommend using this for a minimum of one to two weeks before moving to the next product. This will set the groundwork for deeper communication that is to come. c) Instant Honesty - This product, in my opinion, should be used only after some considerable rapport has been built with MX274 and communication lines opened with Instant Openness. It can cause some very deep things to be revealed which can be a little frightening if a person is prone to feelings of having been rejected or stifled. But, the communications when using this product, in my experience with my husband, has lead to an incredible deepening of trust and sense of being valued and cared for.
3.) Spark some bedroom interest and intensify bedroom experiences - Okay, so you’ve been patient. You’ve worked hard and diligently to set the groundwork for some really mind blowing intensely intimate sex. You want to spice things up for both yourself and your husband, and deserve some reward. You might need a little more patience, but rest assured, the goal is in sight. So, right now your home environment should be really nice with harmony and open communication, more trust and understanding. And hopefully the dynamics that lead to the normal slide down is not there any more. To take this next step I used the following:
a) Lust After Me - I was so excited to get this product. But for us it was a dud. Not every man responds aggressively to copulin products and even after 3 months of testing with copulin products I have only seen minimal and sporadic response from my husband. But many women report extremely good, repair-the-walls-afterwards sex as a response to this pheromone. So don’t write it off without a fair trial. b) Essence of a Woman by Love Scent - ditto for above. c) Instant Sexiness/A - Very good product and my husband responded with a lot of interest with this product. But it lacked follow-thru. It didn’t close the deal or make a tired male stand to attention. Still a very good product and very fun to play with if you want to tease more than be pleased. d) MX335 - This is a kind of fun, kitchen sink, center of the universe product that is very effective at getting stellar attention. But again, at least in our case, it didn’t close the deal. This is one of my favorite products, btw, because it makes me feel stellar, sexy, happy, and fun. g) Turn Up the Heat - I had some reservations about using this pheromone after reading the warnings about Androstenone OD, and was afraid it would irritate my husband. I did finally try it and it definitely had some effects of intensifying my desire level… but it did turn my husband into a total crank, so after just a few tries, I discontinued use. If your husband is not sensitive to Androstenone, it may be fine for the two of you to use. f) Methoxyestratetraenone (MEO-EST) - This experimone has been reported on the site to have some very interesting effects on women’s libidos. I’ve reported pretty extensively on the self effects of this molecule and I think it is a real winner. It doesn’t have much effect worn alone, but paired with the test molecule TAF and the Putative P103 it becomes extremely sensual. Because I feel so sensual wearing this mini-mix, I send out tons more signals to my husband that when he is ready, I am too. It is a very, very friendly molecule. It makes me want to touch things, including my husband… lol. My husband tends to find the molecule calming. g) Estratetraenol (Est) from Love Scent - This molecule totally centers my husband’s attention on me in a very caring, very supportive, very warm way. It will not promote sexual desire, but it does allow all those good, kind, warm, and loving feelings to surface in him and be expressed. If you are looking for respect, though, don’t wear this molecule. It promotes cuddling, hugs, and loving feelings, but it can tend to unleash a bit of “I know what is best for you” in your husband. If you use this molecule knowing that effect is possible it is easier to take that with a bit of humor and ride it out rather than fight for respect. You won’t get it with this pheromone. h) Putative P83 - This was the first putative I used to show some definite forward momentum in my husband and it was responsible for my husband beginning to initiate sex again, and initiate more often. On its own it is a bit of an impulsive molecule and used at too high a dosage and in a frustrating situation it can cause extreme irritation. So, use it the right way, with stuff that brings out the warm fuzzies, and in situations where you don’t have to put off sex until later. Don’t try to tease with this molecule. It may very well backfire. i) Putative P80 - Wow! This molecule was the deal closer for sure. In my husband, in a mix designed for attention, warm- fuzzies, and sensuality, it very quickly promoted him initiating sex. I’m just now starting to play with it and it has some intense up- and down-sides. On the upside it affects me the same way it affects my husband, in that it makes us really want to do each other. And it is effective at very, very small doses (1.2 - 2.5 mcg). On the downside, it interferes with yummy sensual feelings. "Doing and being done" is a very different experience from having intensely passionate, sensual sex. So, I’m still trying to keep that quality of forward momentum and intensity in my mixes, but downplay it just enough to allow the full range of mind-blowing sensation and emotion to come back into play.
So, that is my journey so far. Now I’m working on mixes to really intensify what we have. So, far we’ve been having the best sex of our lives, more intense, more experimental and risk-taking, more passionate, more intimate and honest and real. My husband has gone from almost never initiating to wanting to have sex at least 4 or 5 times a week. I’ve gone from just wanting to renew the spark to writing symphonies of sensation, emotion, behavior. It’s a hell of a lot of fun and extremely satisfying.
My husband loves my new hobby, btw! But because he never knows what brew I’m working on today, or what mix I’ve decided to wear, he never knows ahead of time what it is going to be like.
OMG Diane
Thank you so much what a wealth of info that I really needed the funny thing my husband also is having attention on other women as friends which does not make me too happy but because of his business he meets a lot of women and he is very chatty and not a macho man and women love him for his talkative ways…I guess he is having a mid life crisis or something and meanwhile I am hot and my mind is hot lol and I want hot lol.
So somehow the attention has gone to zip and I am working on getting it back and meanwhile no problem with getting attention from other men isn’t that crazy.
I have no problems with the bedroom and I am very creative always thinking and very adventurous but still no attention when this was never the case so I am frustrated to some extent. I am at a different point here in my soul being and my state of passion and would like him to get on lol or get on board. HeHe.
You and I have the same birthdays I noticed (12/29). I’ve been exploring some of Diane’s suggestions and find that many work for my situation too. I’ll be checking more in the days ahead. BTW, my lady friend also shares our B-day.
You said your husband is a Capricorn too and working far too hard. Been there and done that! As to communications, I’d suggest praising him for being such a good provider and that he can relax a bit - he’s impressed you with his efforts on the material plane but that he’s neglecting other duties! Those key words work on every Capricorn I’ve known.
Two Capricorns together do get into a rut so throwing him a curve (like a cops-heavy pheromone mix) or a new venue or position could stir things up too. Ever tried wigs?
Lastly, others have mentioned zinc as a good supplement for men. Let me be more specific - have him take something called ZMA - zinc-magnesium-asparate. Two or three capsules at bedtime gives me morning wood almost all the time and inspires me to large muscle workouts. The ZMA is easily assimilated so the zinc can do it’s work as a catalyst for the internal conversion of testosterone and other in the steroid production chain. It can make one a bit sleepy (the magnesium) so before bed is best. Another virtue is that it is cheap!
Hey All You Sexy Ladies~~~
I had to enter this post again don’t think it went in the first time so if it did sorry for my mistake but here’s my question again.
I stare at his package LOL He will be sitting on the couch and I will be looking at it. He will be talking on the phone and I will be glancing at it. LOL He will look at me and say “what” and I will act all innocent like I wasn’t looking at it but it tends to get him aroused LOL I know it sounds silly but it works for me.
I am peeing in my pants right now this is the best advice & the funniest dam reply I have ever read lmao. And let me tell you I have been praying to the Godddess Venus & Aphrodite..my husband is a Capricorn and his mind is elsewhere meanwhile I want to have some fun and passion and heat.
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