I would need more specifics about whats happening to really give advice on what you should do, but if you want to increase sexuality I would say Turn Up The Heat or AMMO would work
Instant Female Magic is alright, I personally feel its best used to counter the high 'none sig if you tend to OD easily and more-so to get the girl, it relaxes them to your advances, something that you should not need if you are married
But during that time of the month its definitely golden, haha
I don’t know what your wife really reacts to, if she likes you to take charge, or if she likes to be in charge, and the context in which she likes to be or not be in charge
Some women are sexually dominant and simply need the switch turned while others need you to do everything
Potentially A314 might help out a bit if you mix it with the more sexual phero’s
I would say start with Turn Up The Heat or AMMO and experiment a bit
The site offers ToGo bottles which are much cheaper so you can afford to get a bunch of different types to try out, give each one a week or so by itself trying out different levels as each has its own sweet spot for each person’s body chemistry
then you can mix and match to find your perfect mixture for different places
Also, women want sex just as much as men do, but they MUST feel enough attraction to the man in order to enjoy the sex, so if she is declining you it is generally a problem with her attraction level at that time
If you make her attracted enough it will usually override just about anything she is doing or trying to do
You can something called escalation, where you start with mild touches in a non sexual manor, and when she touches back you move up to a slightly more erotic touch, perhaps caressing her body but not her sexual areas
Coming close to these areas but not actually touching them causes a desire for that place to be touched, once she meets your level of touching you are almost 100% assured that you can escalate further to touching the erotic areas and eventually getting sexual
Its kind of like a mechanism, you escalate and then pull back a little on it, if you do it right she will mirror you and perform the same escalation you did, then before she pulls back you escalate further and then repeat until you reach sex basically
There are other ways to go about it, but generally I consider this as the best/ideal way to do it, it makes the women the happiest and you get what you wanted too
It also is not overbearing and doesn’t stress the issue since it starts as something non-invasive and she is subconsciously giving you the go-ahead so she doesn’t feel like your pressuring her
You are creating a desire that you can fulfill for her
Also, it is very important to not allow yourself to become whipped in the marriage!
A marriage should never be one-sided, thats why they call it a partnership its two people that come together not one person that tells the other what to do
You know when the balance is upset when the women is in charge of you, when they can use their sexuality as a weapon/leverage because they are not as interested in you sexually any longer
The key is to realize that you don’t need her or anyone, you are complete as you are alone, if you receive respect you will return it, but you will not tolerate disrespect and will simply leave if none will be given to you
A lot of these things sound very cold, but its all about the mentality of not being needy, people respect people who respect themselves and will set up boundaries for how they allow others to interact with them and around them, basically you set up certain reasonable boundaries and people will adhere to them to be around you and you will not need to leave is the idea here
Like how a women generally would not tolerate someone they do not know walking up and touching them sexually, you would not/should not tolerate someone walking up to you and saying you suck for no apparent reason, nor would you allow someone to rape/harm your friend for no reason, it is behavior that you will not tolerate
What you choose to tolerate is up to you and whatever you feel is acceptable
(and I don’t mean harming anyone or anything, I just mean you will not hang around people that do these things and have a willingness to just walk away and not come back if it comes to that)
I could get really detailed about this but I’ve already strayed far enough from the topic, I just see marriages and relationships fail because one person cares too much and the other reacts poorly to it
Basically its a good idea to self reflect now and then, look at yourself and notice your accomplishments, if you feel in charge and confident about yourself things will tend to just go your way, you will tend to act more attractively and playful towards your wife and she will respond better
Acting needy or insecure reminds others of their own needs or insecurities and it does not make them feel good, that is why it causes a negative reaction
your wife, instead of getting the attraction you want, she may become suspicious that there is something changed about you. Start with one and slowly increase the dose, to find the dose that works well for you. After one week try the next product, and during the third week you can try a combo of two pheros.
