Now there’s an insightful and telling thought. As I recall, when I was in my teens and early 20s, I was willing to dance naked in red square if I thought it would get me laid. After a few years of shameful and characterless deeds merely to get honey on my stinger, I had enough. I decided to be myself do what I wanted: have relationships with women I liked and those that preferred being treated like human beings. Of course I had to be a lot more picky and suddenly the field narrowed mainly to intelligent and educated women. Oddly, they proved to be much better companions and bed partners than my cute airhead lovers.