Update!
First, sorry it took so long to back to you peoples.
My mones were delivered the day of my little date! Yes!
So I got off school at around 8:30pm, got ahold of her on FB around 9:15 (as planned) and my original plans were altered. She suggested a change in setting cuz by the time we would meet up it would be almost 10:00pm. I wanted to go downtown, and she suggested a pub near to the place she was staying. I didn’t know what the mood would be, if it was going to be crowded, too loud, etc.
Reluctantly I agreed to her suggestion.
Because of the uncertainty of the environment, I didn’t know what to equip. Here is what I did:
-2 sprays of AMMO on the neck
-2 spray of IS on the wrist
-1 spray of IH on the back of the neck
also…
We talk quite often, so I didn’t know how successful our get together was going to be. Had we already run out of things to talk about? I was soon to find out.
So we got there and to my delight, it wasn’t overly busy or loud! We ended up talking for like 2 hours straight and had 3 caesars each. Our conversation was amazing! Got to find out a lot about her, especially her past relationships (she has been hurt by one guy who she merely became friends with, and incidentally, she has hurt many guys because they have easily developed feelings for her while she didn’t.) Additionally, I got to find out about the troubled relationship she is trying to mend with her family. We have so much in common.
She actually hurt one of the guys in one of my classes already! I don’t know if she knows though, but I do. He confused the “getting together for drinks” as something more. She lliterally meant what she said. Wild! She enjoys drinking, and party life in Europe goes until the whee hours of the morning, so it’s different there. The next day, I could sense and see that he was upset. There were a few other indicators as well, strong ones. She came to class and thanked him for the drinks, and he was perplexed searching for the right words to keep face. Whoa…
Anyway, our convo got deep. She told me some sensitive stuff. I told her my story and told her some secrets too. There were a few things she wouldn’t tell me and vice versa.
Cuz english is not her first language, I was able to articulate many of the feeling and emotions she was trying to express. She was impressed and thankful.
We had great eye contact throughout, and we flirted a little here and there (non verbal).
We understood each other and the connection was great. We were able to relate to one another.
I walked her home from the pub afterwards, huged and I allowed her to kiss my cheeks, but I didn’t kiss hers. Again, I expressed my willingness to help her with her studies and she said she would let me know when.
The evening exceeded all of my expectations in many ways. I think I am going to ask her if she wants to do it again in March.
She is an extremely stong girl. She is brilliant too. I have so much respect for her. I don’t want to ruin our friendship by imposing anything or doing anything stupid. There is just too much there to lose. She values friendship with guys a lot more than actual relationships because she has so few guy friends… most of which fall in love/develop feelings for her and she ends up hurting them cuz she doesn’t feel the same way.
I would like our friendship to progess a little bit… but I will not cross the line. We will see…
As per the mones, don’t really know if they worked. Didn’t notice anything out of the ordinary (I don’t think). Remember, I love human interaction… I get a sense of fulfillment from it, and some times, a mild high. I am a great conversationalist…it’s an art! Lets put it this way, I have given girls the wrong idea when I have asked them out for coffee or a drink, cuz they may confuse that with the word “date” or believe that I am interested in them cuz the convo gets so good. I know I could have pulled this convo off easily without the product cuz I have in the past. This was my first time using the product, so I can’t judge it yet.
To give an example, there are two girls in my Consulting class that I like and could easily ask out for a drink/coffee. But I think I would ruin it cuz of the friendship I am developing with this girl I went out for drinks with. These two girls have given me small suggestions that they like me (verbal and non verbal). They are the only 2 in class that I speak to, and I don’t want to poison the environment (class room) by having one or both dislike me. They could easily confuse the great coversation in to something that it isn’t, then boom, they dislike me. Because I am in a grey area with this exchange student, I haven’t truly defined what I want, and if I have, it’s not very clear and decisive.
Going salsa dancing tonight for an hour or so (practice) Gonna see what’s up with these mones!
Maybe next time I meet for a few drinks with this girl, I will throw on some Turn up the Heat along with IG! LOL Just joking…
Thoughts…