Chinese girl - which pheros?

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First off, I am completely new to the pheromone game. So I really appriciate any help you might provide!

I am Caucasian, Male, and 29.

She is Chinese, 19, and moved to California from China when she was 8. Her personality is mixed, most of the time she is a closed book.

We have been casually dating for 6 months or so, however we stopped talking for a few weeks recently. Turns out she was seeing another fellow. She still wants to be fuck buddies with me, but I want an exclusive relationship. I agreed to be her fuck buddy for now (so I could at least see her again in person) until I can figure out how to handle the situation.

I’m going on vacation tomorrow, so I won’t see her for about 20 days. My hope is to purchase the best pheromones possible to enhance our next meeting.

I posted my findings in this thread:

As a result of my research and several recommendations I’m leaning towards A314, MX200, and a few Socials like Instant Openness and Instant Shine.

If you have any recommendations, please mention how much quantity to apply and to what region of my body.

Thanks! :smiley:

John

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What? Not getting enough recommendations in there or sumthin’? :smiley:

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A314 is def good, not sure how much tho.

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Sounds like a good mix, I’m gunna test instant female magic and ammo on Tuesday in class, that class is almost exclusively Chinese girls lol.

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Just wanted to devote a tread to this girl, I wanna make sure everyone has a chance to read it. :slight_smile:

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Fair enough. :slight_smile:

Well, my recommendation stands. You don’t need the -none or any of the typical ‘attraction’ mixes. You need to strengthen the bond as I mentioned before. I’d wear 3-4 sprays of Instant Honesty, 2-3 sprays of Instant Shine.

Have you talked to her about it by any chance?

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I will absolutely try those with her. Maybe a light touch of A314 also.

Should I spray them on my neck, or are there better spots?

I have not talked with her about it, and don’t really plan to. I’d like to have the advantage, so I can get closer to her.:smiley:

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IH is a must from your description of the situation, A314 would also make you stand out a little as the alpha male and obtain the respect from her.

the neck is a good place to apply your pheromones.

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I want our next meeting to be a chance for us to get closer. I want her to realize that I’m the only one she wants. I’m also working out very hard for the next month before I see her, and eating alot to help build a nice cut physique.

Should I try MX200, A314, Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, and Instant Openness all together in small quantities? Out of the above listed products, do you have a recommended combination and quantity?

Thanks!

John

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No pheromones will help your situation. She wants to see other men for reasons not related to your body chemistry. The fact she wants to remain “fuk buddies” but date other guys shouts your “body chemistry is working fine but your potential for a serious relationship is not so good.” Been there myself many times. And, yes, several were Chinese women. I was told “nice fuk buddy, handsome but you musician and no future.”

It’s easy for a woman get a good lay but very difficult to find a guy with a future, i.e., a man with education, ambition and a great job. In other words, the ability to provide a stable and comfortable environment for her and future generations of little ones. And culturally, Chinese women are the most demanding of material wealth of all Asians. They even whip my culture, Koreans, in this regard. Get a Beamer, wear European designer threads and flash a hoe lotta green and she might be swayed. A314 ain’t gonna cut it.

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I’d say neck and wrists are two common and effective points.

Sure, but I would recommend you at least find your ‘sweet spots’ for a few of the products so you’ll know how to balance them all out. If it were me, I’d probably wear 1 drop of A314, 3 sprays of Instant Honesty, 2 sprays of mx200, and 2 sprays of Instant Shine, all on the neck, except the A314 which is also applied on my wrists. Then I’d spray Instant Openness once on my wrists then one spray of IS on the wrists to finish it off.

Instant Honesty can help a lot with that.

That’s great that you met someone that motivates you to enact positive change.

But I’m a little curious as to how you came to this conclusion?

Did she fill out a questionnaire or something?

Now responding to Gegogi’s post, that’s a possibility too. I’m not sure how you feel about an age gap of 10 years, but she might think that at the young age of 19, she doesn’t want to be tied down quite yet. Hell, chances are, unless I meet the most amazing girl within 3 years, I’m probably not thinking about marriage at least until after I’m 25..

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LOL. I love the way you said that, true yet really funny to read. Most Chinese women like/require the security of money. As to if they beat Korean women… I’d say it’s fairly even. Either that or my korean friends just whine about korean girls more.

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Not trying to brag at all, but it sounds like I’m the perfect candidate then. I drive a BMW, I wear nice clothes, and I have a great job. Perhaps that was part of her initial attraction to me in the beginning.

So I don’t think it can hurt to have the advantage of pheromones.

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Her last relationship was over 2 years long. So it’s clear that she enjoyed the security of a good relationship at one point. But it’s a toss up weather she’ll want another one right now. I’m hoping to convince her that she does. :smiley:

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I wasn’t talking about you working out..

Well, I’m not intending to get in your business, but since you want me to get detailed, this is the conclusion that I was talking about.

I understand this, perhaps, differently than you do.

You say you want her to realize something, indicating she doesn’t feel that way at the moment.

You’re asserting that you believe you are the only one that she wants.

If she hasn’t realized it yet, how do you know that you are the only one she wants? That’s why I’m asking, how did you reach this conclusion?

I see you feel that she had strong feelings for you at one point. If you know anything about games of chance, you should know that past outcomes has no bearing on future outcomes. Now, this isn’t a strict game of chance, but I’m just saying that because it was so once, doesn’t mean it is so again.

Even then, being ‘the one’ is different a bit different I think, than simply wanting someone really bad. If you want someone really bad before you really get to know them, I suspect it’s more along the lines of infatuation, lust, or curiosity.

Either way, I’m just saying, I think I’d slow down a bit before speaking on someone else’s behalf. She’s clearly not spoken for if she’s having relations with two guys.

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Quote: Phya

I wasn’t talking about you working out..

Well, I’m not intending to get in your business, but since you want me to get detailed, this is the conclusion that I was talking about.

I understand this, perhaps, differently than you do.

You say you want her to realize something, indicating she doesn’t feel that way at the moment.

You’re asserting that you believe you are the only one that she wants.

If she hasn’t realized it yet, how do you know that you are the only one she wants? That’s why I’m asking, how did you reach this conclusion?

**Two things.

One, there was a time that I know for a fact that she wanted me quite badly. I found an internet blog entry that she didn’t think I knew about. And at the time she was asking her friends about what she should do. **

Two, when we make love it’s a very close feeling. We hold each other for hours afterwards and at times we have spent hours talking about life, etc..

I see you feel that she had strong feelings for you at one point. If you know anything about games of chance, you should know that past outcomes has no bearing on future outcomes. Now, this isn’t a strict game of chance, but I’m just saying that because it was so once, doesn’t mean it is so again.

That time wasn’t very long ago, perhaps a few months. So I doubt she has moved on yet. She’s just a bit burned from me not asking her to be exclusive the first time around.

Even then, being ‘the one’ is different a bit different I think, than simply wanting someone really bad. If you want someone really bad before you really get to know them, I suspect it’s more along the lines of infatuation, lust, or curiosity.

For me, I know for a fact that it’s not simply lust. Perhaps at this point it is for her. I’m hoping to find that out soon.

Either way, I’m just saying, I think I’d slow down a bit before speaking on someone else’s behalf. She’s clearly not spoken for if she’s having relations with two guys.

I think the reason she is with two guys is simple. She wanted me first, we didn’t talk for a while, and she smartly decided to move on to the next. Then I came back into her life, and now she is confused as hell, especially with my attitude change.

I’m simply going to treat her with respect, show her a fun date when we are together, and mix in some pheromones to bring out her true feelings (if there are any left).

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I’m not ignoring the fact that she was really into you. I’m also not ignoring the fact that you two had a really close relationship at one point.

It’s just that those conditions don’t automatically mean that you know that you’re the only one for her. :roll_eyes:

Basically, what I’m saying is, you wouldn’t really appreciate it if someone else came up to you, told you that they were the ‘only one’ for you, and expected you to accept it.

Cause, if that’s the case, I’m the one for you, and I only wear the biggest diamonds. :stuck_out_tongue:

But either way, it seems like you are able to distinguish what your feelings are/might be, and what hers are. That thought probably just came off wrong..

As for what happened in your past..it certainly wasn’t the best tactic not wanting to have an exclusive relationship, then back tracking and wanting an exclusive relationship again.

If I were her, I’d be thinking a couple things. Why does he want a relationship now? What’s changed now that makes him want a relationship? I’d wonder if it was just casual before, and that there were other women, which is why you turned down the relationship earlier. So I’d wonder if maybe those women aren’t around, which is why you want a relationship now?

Or, I’d think, well, shit you had your chance..but why not? Let’s see what it’s like, or rather..in a way, what would have been? Either way, imo, the fact that you’ve already turned down a relationship changes the dynamic. She can’t ignore the fact that you turned her down. She might be able to at first, but I’m sure it’ll pop up again at some point.

If a girl turned me down, then later came back wanting a relationship, I guarantee you, unless the relationship just worked out that perfectly, it would probably be broken up at some point.

I dunno, either way, you’ve got the right idea. Just enjoy yourselves as much as possible, and hopefully it works out.

Good luck.

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Thanks for giving me so much feedback about the relationship side of things, certainly helps me put things in perspective. I’ll update you all on the results of my efforts.

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Hey sounds like you and this girl click, however the fact that she is 19 is probably your biggest issue to overcome when it comes to serious relationships. Being that I am a 25 year old Chinese woman I’ve been there. 19 is an age of exploration. She is going to be in that phase for a while and there is nothing that you can do chemically to change that. If you want to wait around for a few more years like 5 or 6 she may be willing to settle down then, but the truth of the matter is no girl regardless of race at the age of 19 is really going to be ready for a serious relationship. That being said fuck buddies is lots of fun.

P.S. not all Chinese women are about material items. Some of us go for intellect and compatibility.

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SHIT… i don’t even do that with my wife… O_o

~Haz~