I like this really shy girl and I guess she did like me in the past, has been a while I didn’t see her. I have a way of meeting her that is I know where she works and I have a way to bump into her. It takes time before pheromones works right? And what is the best way to start back a conversation with her. What pheromones work best, I would really want a date with this girl after I try to “accidentally” bump into her.
As you know by now everyone reacts to the pheromones differently. There are no guarantees.
You might try an io/ammo combination, start a conversation, and then aske her out not too far into the interaction. Say it’s been a long time since you’ve seen her and would like to catch up but don’t have time right now. The interest should be high and then you can leave her with interest still high.
If this girl used to like you and she doesn’t currently have someone she is dating she will absolutely be willing to meet you to “catch up”. Just be very happy to see her and eager to talk with her some more.
Since you wont have a lot of time to interact with her by “accidentally” bumping into her, ask her to meet you somewhere later and you can work on a date from there. a coffee house would be good or lunch somewhere would work. Ideally somewhere casual and either noisy or quiet as it will give you an excuse to need to be closer when you talk.
be sure to watch for ioi and start the kino early so she doesn’t put you into the friend category, as that is often a death sentance lol. Your pheros should make you confident and open lines of communication Ill have to let others post on that, although ammo and instant openness sounds right to me.
Remember people are just people and this girl has probably always wished you would initiate something with her so just be yourself and dont worry.
This is going to be very long, so please bear with me and I hope you are patient with me. I recognize your effort in answering my question and I appreciate it. The reason I wrote short is because I didn’t want to trouble you.
This goes a long way back in 2006 December when she was my work colleague,Back then we used to hang out for lunch, and on one of the lunch, she make a joke with me and said she is married and have children and in less than a minute she was laughing and says she was joking, I kind of like her already and when she say she has children and is married, I laughed. In office I make funny jokes with my friend and she in the vicinity, I touched my other guy friends and I said I was gay in a joking manner and she laughed a lot. I am a Chinese and she is a Chinese and she asked me how my Chinese name is written in Chinese, most Chinese girls would not ask a guy how to write his name in Chinese unless they like the guy(in most cases but I am not 100% sure on this) She is a very quiet girl and she talks a lot. She has known other guys(friends) for 3-4 months and when they talked to her and she is quiet, she responds to others and said she don’t talk much with people she doesn’t know much, yet when I knew her for less than a month, she talked so much with me, I can’t catch up. I only worked with the same bank with her one and half month only. The last day of working day with the bank, we had a small party at Dome Cafe, as time was running out and it was time to go back to work, I just told her to eat abit faster, and she look at me, put out her tongue at me and show it full of food saying she is eating fast or spicy, can’t recall what she said. After 1-2 weeks after I left the bank, the word spread out to her that I liked her and she got very angry with her good friend(a guy) because the fact I like her, he kept secret and didn’t let her know and after I left the bank only she knew about it. She was so mad she shouted at the bank that nearly everyone know she shouted at him and she ignored the guy 1-2 months. In fact, after few months I left the bank(after she knew I like her) she ask my good friend, have I found a job yet? There was once I called my friend, and for no reason he passed the phone to her, my friend asked do you want to speak to John(me), she said yes, I was a bit silly I don’t deny, so I just asked why did he pass the phone to you, then she said John is it you don’t want to speak to me?(this happened after she know I like her) Well the last time I talked to her was 14 February 2007. She left the bank I worked at August 2007, and she told a friend of hers, I didn’t accept John as my boyfriend because of different religion, I am a Christian and she is a Buddhist. But of course she never said she liked me. Well when she ate some vegetarian buddhist food, I followed her, I ordered a coke but I told her I was full and have eaten but I haven’t yet. And when she celebrates Chinese New Year, I told her I don’t take red packets or rather ang pow, red packets usually contain money and is chinese tradition. Maybe she can’t accept that. But to me, is it the relgion that is the barrier, maybe is there a way to tell her, I can compromise that is I’d still respect her belief but I do my things and she does hers? And recently I only found out that when her friends told her I like her, she became very sad. Interesting
The thing is I like her very much despite 2 years has passed. I refuse to belive she didn’t like me, I thought pheromones can help, so I thought of asking her friend for help.Pls remember my first thing is to bump into her, but I am so shy anyways. My plans will change as circumstances and conditions change, nothing is certain for sure
OK my friend you have two problems here and only one is easy to solve.
you don’t know if this girl feels the same way about you that you do about her.
the simple solution is to ask her to lunch and tell her how happy you are to see her again and that you have missed spending time with her. This statement is relatively harmless but based on her reaction you should be able to tell if she feels the same way about you. Your problem is that even if she does respond favorably towards you you are likely to convince yourself that your still not sure about her feelings. Its hard for me to tell you what I think you should do or expect to see because there seems to me a cultural difference between you and I, however I would imagine that if she is hoping that you like her, when you tell her that you do, her face should light up.
The other problem is actually a real problem and that is one of religion. I believe you said you are a Christian and she is a Buddhist. Well here my friend is where the trouble starts as I’m sure you are aware that you are not supposed to be “un-equally yoked”. You cant get into a relationship with the intention of changing the other person rather the liklyhood is that she will change you and according to the Christian faith that obviously would be bad.
The rest is up to you, as far as the pheros, I really think its pretty much self effects is all that you should be concerned with at this point. Shine, openness, honesty…even the names of the products reflect how you need to treat this situation.
Good luck with this it will be a character building experience for you but that is the price that will be required for what you desire.
I got your PM and went over the mone options with you. Just so others know I suggested MX200 aka… Asian Persuasion, (since this is your second attempt with mones) and I made you aware its not guaranteed.
IH and IG which do come with the guarantee.
Now the religous differences can be hard to get by but I feel the IH can help you both open up about that and talk about it so you can express how you feel on the issue. Her looking sad when it was mentioned that you like her can be a indication of anything at this point. Perhaps being aware of the religous difference she was concerned, who knows but the IH can help you get to the bottom of it.
Like I mentioned to you approach it softly. You dont want to come on to strong and I think that is what happened when you used A314 before.
The consumer section which is where you get the proven products like IG and IH.
The advanced section is where experinced users test products and report on them her in the forum
MX200 is in that section. Its been around a long time and the men like it. It has a low low dose of anone so it meshes better with the asian culture. Asian men tend to naturally make lower levels of anone so this is what asian women are attracted to.
Some info on MX200
This thread just illistrates how much the guys like it. I thought it was funny LOL
Dancing jokers Journal …
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These posts should give you a feel for what MX200 does and some suggestions from the men on attracting Asian women.
