Hi all,
I am wondering if any of you can help me… I am in a relationship with a married gorgeous lady. I’m married as well. We’ve been dating twice. One, where we go for lunch together. She was beautiful wearing sexy dress. She told me she drops her jeans at her workplace before going out with me. Just try to imagine a gorgeous girl, with a short skimpy dress supposed to be worn with jeans. Then drop the jeans… Wow..Sexy…
Anyway, second date was at the beach, at night, unprepared. We sat by the beach and talked. Again she wears another skimpy dress at the beach. All these while, we’ll be glancing at each other profusely. I like the part, when she brushes off the sands in my car… The way she brushed off, stroking her leg, from her lower butt rite to her toes. Very mindbending! Wanted to kiss her but afraid of the consequences..Will be going for a third date soon, ice-skating…
So I have a problem, I do not know whether she wants me as a lover or a friend. And if she wants a lover, how to make her lose that ‘I am somebody’s wife’ mentality, in other words, how to make her really hot to me. If she wants a friend, how to make her into a lover? Anybody help me…Thanks 
Hey hows it goin. Cant really say i would… hmmm… do you really want to ruin your relationship with your wife? if you take this thing anywere with this girl sooner or later its gonna come out and you and your wifes realationship are gone. Im sure she might want you as a lover but when shit hits the fan do you really expect her to drop her husband and stay with you?
That’s not cool man, none of my business of course but I don’t think I would want to help and give you advice for what you’re going for. I think that’s messed up, I’m married my self and although I flirt, enjoy IOI from other girls, and the occasional naughty thought (especially when wearing MX331) that doesn’t mean that I’d cheat on her so I don’t know man. Why not just leave your wife if you’re going to be cheating?
seriously, haha… is this guy a troll?
hey shazz. i posted this in your intro thread but i think this issue is better off discussed on another forum. we deal mainly with pheros here, and since this topic is very touchy and complex, not many people would be willing to discuss it, as you can see from the replies above.
I disagree with miko here… since you came to this forum for advice I would say you MADE it our business… in my opinion would you really want to do harm to both relationships for a piece of booty? Cause no sex is so great it’s worth hurting ones you love like they said maybe you should first decide if you want to be with your wife, then decide what to do from there that brings you closer to what you want.
Tiger Woods! Is that you??? Cheating, to lots of people, is so much FUN … til you get caught!
If you two are both married, and you’ve been on two dates already … the door is slam wide open!
How old is she?
A314 – 3 drops and 2-3 sprays of IS for the next date, or just wear 2 sprays of TUTH and a couple of sprays of IH. From reading your thread, it’s a done deal as long as her husband is not SUPPOSE to be your best friend and is in Iraq!
You know what’s wrong with the world today? It has a serious NEED to get into other people’s business! 
Well, I believe I gave him my piece of mind already as quoted below. 
“I’m married my self and although I flirt, enjoy IOI from other girls, and the occasional naughty thought (especially when wearing MX331) that doesn’t mean that I’d cheat on her so I don’t know man. Why not just leave your wife if you’re going to be cheating?”
Hehe yea I wanted to confuse people into thinking I was gonna be different and give advice… then smack same opinion as everyone else haha (alright so 10 hours at the desk here at work I get stir crazy and bored… I have to amuse myself sometimes, plus refreshing my tracking number to see where my new order is, is only exciting a couple times an hour)
yeah same here miko my peice is said. I mean come on dude… im sure this isnt what you wanted to hear but you cant really expect to drag us into this. I wouldnt want to be the cause of a womens pain, and even the girls dude. Hope everything works out for the best foreveryone i guess
I guess it remains to be seen but just like the gun mones are neither moral or immoral, good or evil. They simply just exist. I really believe in karma and for someone to go about doing things such as that should at least give the situation enough consideration to not to hurt the other party. Simply put if a guy can’t stay committed to his loyal girlfriend as he needs different puntang to satisfy his needs then why don’t you just stay single and reap the benefits of string free sex. Theres too many men and women out there that want their cake and eat it too which I just find repulsive.
You guys are not cool. I’ve already said I’m not into evolving into another family or somethin… Its just that I like this girl. I want her to open to me, just have a little fun and then back to our lives. I’m not going to commit myself nor destroy what i already have. Anyway thanks for the advices.
If we don’t agree morally with choices other people make, why not just not agree and not go berating them? They’re only “hurting” themselves and posing no danger to others. People will always cheat whether we condone it or not.
Just an idea
As for my advice, i think you’ve already established the connection you need. Two dates, sexy dresses, impromptu sit-down on the beach, showing flesh…
I’d say, if you really don’t want to make the first move and push her first into acting on it, 2 sprays of TUTH to chest, and 2 IH to back of neck (for the deeper connection/conversation aspect)
Sorry guys, you taught me to do this as you’ve always been there for me when i needed your advice.
Strange…Does your wife know u’re doing such things?Do you know if she does such things?Do you have an agreement to have additional relationships and side sex?If that’s the situation and the other woman is also in an open relationship - I guess that there is nothing wrong with it and u don’t even need pheros.But if u’re both cheating to someone - well it’s kina bad thing to do.Afcourse being faithfull doesn’t mean that the other partner witch is percieved to be faithful too is really that way.
My advice - decide wysely what to do and do it.If you had dates - well maybe u just need to kiss her.But in your situation , unless u both are in open marriges - that would be wrong. 
Thats not the idea. The fact is the forums is absolutely superfluously filled with information in terms of any aspect and any use of mones. Not to mention AD store clearly states how each product can be used alone or together as a layering. Sex is probably the hugest driving force for us men to be here using and tweaking our usage of mones. The amount of threads women or men on the topic of getting more of it is endless. He could’ve just searched that particular thing instead of asking about it. Now I admit I sound rude offering such a suggestion but its like going to the library and always having to pester the librarian for a simple book he/she couldve found for themselves. On top of that AD forums or any forum for that matter is easily navigable with the search option. I understand were here to help one another and not to judge.
To each their own I suppose noone’s business is any other person’s business.
Thanks to the responses. Anyway noted and understood. By the way, is it possible to use -mones in a team sport, during a game like soccer or basketball? Is it possible to use one or more of the products to help others in the game to improve their performance and to listen to me, their captain? Will the sweat interferes with those -mones?Thanks for any information…
I’m sure I will be corrected if I’m wrong here and have no experience playing sports and using any mones, but if you want them to listen to you more A314 is a wonderful product that helps you gain more respect and it is oil base so it lasts longer then the alcohol based instant lines. Sweat will breakdown some mones and convert them into something else (I believe the a-nol based products convert to -none which may produce an od and that would probably be counterproductive to helping your team). Plus you have to think if your outside playing soccer the open area and the wind will make your mones less effective as well.
Maybe wearing products like A314 and Instant Honesty around your team mates when your not all sweaty on the pitch will give them enough exposure to your new phero signature to get the desired change out on the field… this is more speculation then anything.
Thanks jakeable,
Maybe its a cue for me to try involving mones with sports and see how it goes. Will start a new thread on that soon after I get my mones.
I wouldn’t recommend that but in the name of science what the hay XD.
All I can say is if you do decide to to wear them in that fashion only use half or less of what you’d normally use for any sort of social outting. Your sweat is definitely gonna alter your signature.
Sir,
Accept the hand that you are dealt.
YOU are MARRIED. please, don’t expect this community, this Forum… to get into this area. Someone suggested, that topic dealt with someplace else another forum.
respectfully.