Hope I’m right here
In my life hade mostly hits with brünet, meditarain girls,woman.
Pleaselook inmy profile, have normal picture of me there. And tell me if I’m attractive for you WITHOUT force of pheromones 
And please notice also your stats, race age and so on.
I don’t want lose time to make my wife jelous and burn again the fire. She already reacted when I talk, mailwith another woman.I just want to find a raw line for fastereasy flirting when we go out with my wife. NOTHING ELSE!
Do you want Pheromone advice or advice on how to flirt with her.
If I recall you dont get to spend much time with your wife because of your job obligations and she is beginning to lose interest. Am I correct ?
While flirting and sexual attraction is great people marry for more then that. They are looking for a partner to share there lives with and your time is the best thing you can give her. I understand that you have to make a living but I think this is the main issue for the both of you. If you cant work where she is then bring her to where you work or at least make a big effort to be there as much as possible because if you dont someone else will.
Pheromonally I suggest Ishine and IH but remember these may spark interest but you have to fan the fire to make it burn. Mones just aid you they will not do it for you.
I also noticed you mentioned she dosnt like the smell of mones. Are you using a cover scent ?
Tisha
I think coming on the women’s forum to ask how to make yourself attractive to women other than your wife, to cheat on her, to make her jealous is a real losing position.
Personally, it pisses me off, being a married woman and all. If my husband did what you are trying to do I’d help him pack, shove him out the door, shake the dust of my shoes and say “good riddance.”
She’s already interested in someone else because you haven’t been there. Now you want to make yourself even more unavailable? Laughable as a strategy. You are just giving her real reasons not to feel guilty about replacing you.
Just my opinion.
Diane
Tisha;
Thank you for your advice. IO and IH with IS are also my plan for the mid of next week. But this time I will not force her to come closer. I know, it’s risky, but also decide to not sleepin our bed till she …
diane999;
Sorry that I make you pissed of. But I guess, you misunderstand me. I DON’T cheat or want to cheat her. I know she get jelous if another woman is flirty with me, and that was the point why I ask here Ladys about their idea how I look,how attractive they find me with her own stats. The result would be neutral because here is no reaction of character, of styl, of pheromones.
Even woman play sometimes with men in this way. It would be my first time that I use flirting to make her closer again.
I’M NOT CHEATING. Never done it all the years.
My point, Pizzman, is that this is not a game that usually works out well. Give her enough of an idea that you are being unfaithful and that will be her reality, whether you are actually cheating on her or not.
You have real problems and concerns facing you that need to be resolved. You and your wife have a child that needs a father there to support and nurture him/her, and your wife needs to know she will not be abandoned again and left to her own devices to provide for herself and the child. Your wife has been under a tremendous amount of stress with you not being there for her or the child financially or in person.
You need to prove that you are capable of supporting your family and being there for them. Your wife needs that. And that is no game. If you can’t do that or show no interest in doing that, but play games with her emotions and heart instead and focus your energy there, in the end you will be left behind. And you will cause a lot of needless emotional pain in the meantime.
Caveat here: I know that you and your wife are or were in a D/S relationship. But wasn’t that a consensual arrangement? These head games are not consensual - they are purely manipulative and non-consensual.
Here is the advice that my husband asked me to give you: “If you won the lottery or owned the playboy mansion, maybe your strategy might work. Otherwise, it is a losing game. It is a body there that your wife needs. What is attractive to her is reliability and responsibility, not a pretty face. That’s what changes with a child.”
Diane
Life is more serious then any games. I plyed enough with woman, and there with me. This time we need much more and be close together.
And yes, in some points you are so right, something that hurt my soul much more then any word can explain it.
Okay, here’s another question for you: Isn’t making someone jealous a bottom/submissive’s game?
Diane
No it was not a game for us. She like and wanted this before many times from me, that I flirt around. She likes to see that woman is hot on me.And she loves it that I turn and kiss her right there,she is saying “its my man” in a way
Did you ask her is that still the game she wants to play?
I ask because it seems she takes this child obligation seriously and wants that from you.
What is important to her? What does she need from you to give you that second chance? Did you ask?
Diane
Thank you Diane for your interest. We should write on the other treath I already started. because the idea of this was diffrent. Anyway;
In the last 3-4 weeks she saw how important her and our son is for me. So we find slovely together. I know, I have still a long way in front of me, but we tlk much more and much more closer. Not fighting everyday.
And yes, she wants this “game” again.
But back to my question;
Forget about everything and comment my look, shine
Diane has a point here. You did state in your thread in the mens section 4 days ago
That would be cheating not making someone jealous. You do realize that copulins are the vaginal secretions of fertile females. Only two ways to get them buy the or cheat.
What does “lady mails” mean ?
I am glad you talking more and hopefully spending time with her. Its one thing to get IOI when you out and about and her noticing but deliberately making her jealous by you flirting or showing IOI would just be rude and disrespectful.
I notice you keep asking us to comment on your look.
We all have different tastes so that’s hard for us to do. Some women will find you attractive some wont but attraction doesn’t come from how you look it comes from who you are and how you treat those around you.
Tisha
I’m not cheating.and if its the way to get the copulins, I will NOT do. and yes, we like that I flirt when we go out. But I don’t do it often, and sure not before the fire is on again. but I will not sit if any one gaze me or … when my wife is with me.
And I belive, copulins are not only deep in the vagina.
About the look;
The idea was to have a raw direction (for later when the fire ison again) to have a more intensiv flirt. Not more, not less.
Believe me I know mones and I know copulins. I been doing this a long time. Sure copulins are not only deep inside a women they come out to the outer vagina but we do not secrete them from anywhere else and the only way a man could use them or actually get them on him is to touch the vagina in question or buy them in a bottle.
You come from a different culture then us so your customs may be different. What do you do when a women shows interest in you? You mention you just dont sit there. Do you just acknowledge it or do you actually respond to it and interact. See here, in most cases, if you respond to it you had better like sleeping on the couch.
Tisha
Hello Tisha,
since I have my wife, it’s over then 5 years, never look around to really have a affaire. But normally, before her or to our “good” times, I gaze back with a soft smile, mostly they started the first word, sometimes I with usual things like “do you like what you see” or play with words, so it have double meaning. And it was interesting that 50-60% was more/less submissive who was interested.
Now, I would prefer to be on the couch with my wife, at least for the first time till she wants me to “play” again. But …
I must mention; the interest of a woman make her talking more and closer and be more shiny the last 2 days.
About the mones; You are the expert with some other here together. I don’t need the deep sence of copulins.
But, I need your advice and ideas. Helps me to see from diffrent, specially, selfsure womans eyes.
Well I already mentioned the time thing. You need to do that and its seems you are trying.
Pheromonally…
IG for a safe reliable dependable masculine vibe.
Ishine and IH which I mentioned in my first post.
Ishine for feelings of upliftment and to draw her to you.
IH to deepen your connection.
Then I would go on over to naturalattraction and get the 5 ML mens roll on. They have A1 in there stuff cause the hold the patent on it. You can read about the effects of A1 by searching for posts on IFM. It basically induces ease, calm and affection.
I would lay off the sexual mones till things start to get better then slowly imcorporate them to get the sexual spark back. No matter the culture its my belief that a solid relationship starts with a good foundation and leads to sexual arousal not the other way around.
Tisha
Culture doesent change the base of a relation. Trust, feelig, spark, fire is needed between 2. Else its just a realation, living together because of … money, social status or what ever.
I am not talking about money or social status. This is what I mean by “Good foundation”… Trust, respect, connection, shared values and yes attraction.
Without the good foundation the sexual fire has nothing to feed it and it go’s out. So build the strong foundation before you light the fire and it will burn a good long time.
Tisha
First with social mones flirt my wife to open her up for more. (If I’m still a good flirting man like before her, it will be DONE) And then show her the base on that I’m standing.
Trust!
Honesty!
Oppeness!
Fighting for US! (Soul and money, even on my body)
Some news;
See my other treath, home, family is running perfect. And attraction is back.
yesterday we went out with son and wife. Every woman,girl we pass look at me! And 70% was not just friendly and yes,she get jelous, kissed me with a bright smileagain and again in front of them to show who i’m belong to. MY WIFE!
What I’m using? Not much. Mostly Instant Shine. Waiting for nice situation to wear all of my weapons when we go out with my wife.
Ahhh see, You are spending time with her. Your time and attention are what are fixing your relationship not the mones.
You admit you were not wearing much and with mones in many cases that is how it works.
New members see all of us mixing away on the forum and think well more is better. People tend to over look the power of a few simple sprays of one product.
Dont over do the mones and keep spending time with her as much as you can.
Tisha