Diamond’s journal
With apologies to the ladies, this post contains activities that some of you may consider makes me a bit of a player, it’s actually just about me rediscovering myself and exorcising some ghosts. I promise that, eventually, I will settle down and behave myself (Hmm, what do you reckon?)
Moved out of house, moving on with my life and having fun!!
Although I’ve only moved about 15 miles, apart from my family, I know virtually no-one in this town so I’ve done a bit of internet dating. As some of you may have noticed, I’m not too bad at selling myself via the web!
Within five days, I’ve got four dates lined up with ladies between 25 and 45 years old.
A few more details on the previous post, Date 1, let’s call her C. 43yo, grown up kids, divorced 12 years and runs a pub! Seems concerned that I’m a player ( is there a pattern developing here) so we meet for a drink at a neutral pub, both driving so no alcohol.
Looking to give the strong, alpha yet nice and slightly dangerous guy image so what I have now called my first date mix is brought into play
3 x A314, split wrists and rubbed on carotid pulse points
4x IH to wrists
3 x Shine, one to each wrist, one to neck
3 x heavy ammo
Plus, of course, a to go of TUTH in my pocket.
Meet at 9pm, large airconditioned pub, sat across table, about 2-3 feet apart.
Chat for an hour or so, having a good time, long hold eye contact etc, the interest is there, she’s displaying several IOIs. I excuse myself, go to the bathroom and 2 quick sprays tuth. Back downstairs, sit down and initiate a bit of kino within the first minute then suggest another drink. ‘Not on your life, back to mine for coffee’ and virtually drags me out of the door. It’s now about 10pm, within 10 minutes, we’re back at hers, she doesn’t have any coffee! I lean in for the kiss and am finally allowed to escape some 5 hours later. Had I gone with TUTH straight out, she would have blown me out within 10 minutes. I’ve seen her twice since with the same reactions yet not used any TUTH. Last night I was told that I was the ‘best fuck she had ever had’
Date 2 30 yo South African blonde aerobics instructor ( yes, I know!)
Daytime meet for coffee, same mix. Chat about all sorts, this girl is insane, she is studying towards being a marine biologist and specialises in open water diving with Great Whites, that is when she’s not finding something less boring to do. The bizarre thing is that I don’t find her in the least bit attractive on a mental level, there is absolutely no spark for me. I draw things to a gentle close and we go our separate ways.
Date 3
29 yo former colleague ( from different office), blonde Caucasian.
Don’t see this one being a winner but never one to turn down a testing opportunity.
MX301 3 sprays, lunch date, small Italian restaurant.
Within a few minutes, she is giggling away, laughing at every weak joke and giving me the gooey eyed look. She has to go back to the office but the resulting text convo is opening up some interesting possibilities, watch this space!
My impressions of MX301 so far are that it gives similar results to MX275, without the over the top hilarity. Smooth, amusing, nice guy with a bit of an edge. I like it, it blends well with my persona, enabling me to direct the convo where I want it, yet without putting any pressure on the target.
Date 4 was a disaster,25yo, recently divorced and, unbeknown to me at the time, carrying a lot of issues/baggage. I used the first date mix, no TUTH, within 45 minutes, she was steaming drunk, loud, very sexually aggressive ( not a problem but not when she tries to drag me across the pub table!) and got us both thrown out of the pub. Can you imagine a six foot guy running away from a drunk woman whilst shouting ‘ I don’t want to, leave me alone you nutter!’. To be fair, she rang the next day, absolutely mortified and very very apologetic.
Apart from that, a couple of small incidents, went to one of my favourite pubs in Falmouth, by the water’s edge. Just a couple of quiet pints by myself, went to the bar, ordered my drink from a cute 23yo blonde called Katie, I wouldn’t say no. Wearing nothing but 4shots ammo. Went and sat outside, within 2 minutes, her colleague, Charlie (21yo, slim, stacked blonde, mini skirt, pierced lip and dreadlocks) came out for a smoke, sat on the wall about four feet opposite me and started chatting. Within two minutes, I could literally see the colour of her panties, white with leopard print. She caught me looking, smirked and made no effort to cover herself, close her legs or admonish me. Played it cool, not up for anything ( too bloody knackered!) but that’s one in the kitty for later if need be.
Jive class last week, sprayed my female friend with a shot of TUTH to her wrist and asked her to let me know how she felt later, within 10 minutes, I got my reply “tingling in intimate areas and horny”, later that night, I got an email complaining that she couldn’t sleep!”
Finally, a note on attitude, saw the ex last weekend, my mindset has shifted from holding out for potential reconciliation to ‘get on with my own life’, this was noted, I’ve heard from third parties that, suddenly, she is having second thoughts about the split! It may be too little too late but time will tell. At the moment, I’m having too much fun.
Diamond is well and truly back in the saddle.