thank you,Ilsa.
i have mostly given up on guys.
this thread makes me say mostly and not 100% 
i will give it time, and you are all inspirational for finding men that accept and apreciate what you have to offerā¦
good to hear from others in my shoes.
maybe i need to move where you all are at? 
:o
I think Iām where you are Lor, only maybe actually at 100 percent. O.K., 99.999999, at least.
well we will wear MX135 and sing i will survive together.
i always want to kareoke when im bitter
im kind of singing the whole wedding singer soundtrack right now, and his dedication to linda called "somebody kill me " is the background music of my day
Lor,
When I was 36, I had a sonā¦ no husband. Instead of keeping up a social life and raising my son, I devoted myself 100% to my son. I gained a lot of weight and had no real social life at all. I was happy butā¦ 2 years ago my son went off to college. I found myself all alone.
Now before you feel sorry for me, I did something about it. I started working out, lost 80 pounds and I am now starting to date again. But at my age I really am invisible to most guys so it is harder to get noticed. I regret not dating in my late 30ās & 40ās. I think it would have been better for my son to have me more balanced.
So please do not give up on men. You never know when you may meet Mr. Right (or almost right ).
Definitely. As soon as possible.
i appreciate your experience more than alot of people will, its so tempting to say i will just be all about my kids. i find every decision i make takes them into consideration,to the extent that i let myself go.
this is what happens when you have kids.
marraige and togetherness for 13+ years does not make you immune to him leaving,ladies.
i hope i am able to have your attitude sometime soon, Young at heart.
right now i have to work on anger management
well, heres hoping i win a small lottery soon.
about 4-5g would do it, and florida is h-i-s-t-o-r-y
Iām not so sure of that, Lor.
I see it all the time looking through womenās personal ads and profiles too. I think itās just more prevalent for women to hear it because they traditionally are the ones who have custody of children.
Youāre right about the mens forum though. There is a whole lot of that going on. I think the motivations of the men and the women here on the forums tend to be a bit different.
I actually donāt have a problem with people who donāt want other peopleās children in their lives. Theyāve got a sense as to where they want to be in their lives and thatās great for them. Meā¦ I love kids and want to be around people who feel the same way I do.
I guess itās the term ābaggageā that gets to me the most.
I agree with you completely. There are times when I feel the way you didā¦ that I should completely devote myself to my son. After all, his mother is still in the picture.
But one of the things I want my son to grow up with and see is his male role model (me!) have a successful loving relationship with a female because I believe that will help him later in life when itās his turn to have one.
Bay Area of California! Heyā¦ from one bay to another.
so many good people in cali.
so many good people in newengland.
i think right now i need an island ! 
just curious, but am i the only one that dreads being called a MILF someday?
its just ewwww.
Umā¦ I better bite my tongue on this one. 
Youāre not alone in that dreadā¦itās just sick soundingā¦
That is sick soundingā¦we need to come up with a new oneā¦
Anyone have a picture conjuring up of that scene in the American Pie when theyāre standing staring at the picture of Stifflerās mom and yelling, MILF! MILF! MILF!
it pretty much guarentees i will not be sharing a bed with the person who thinks they flatter me with the term.
S M A C H ?
single mommy and captured my heart?
Single Mommy Obviously Out To Capture (My) Heart
S M O O T C H
Smootch!!
That was cute Thalion, and one Iāve never heard.
OK Guys, here is an update from last night! I tried the EoW for the first time. I followed the instructions which Ail had given on the sticky, which was 1 drop split between 2 wrists, 1 drop in the cleavage and 1 on each neck pulse! I waited 20 minutes for it to dry, yeah it does stink really bad of rotten cheese! Anyway, after that the smell died down a bit, and I used Diesel cologne as a cover scent! My b/f arrived about 1 hour later, but no reaction at all!!! So what happened? Do I need to increase the amount? Could he be immune? Too much cologne??? And last night he wasnĀ“t even that tired!! Well, he did say that he might have a sniffle of a cold. Anyway, just to see if the EoW actually works, I am tempted to try it out when I go to the mall or the shops, using the same doseage and then see if something happens!!!
I am still waiting for the Instant Sexiness to arrive so I can try the 2 of them together!! Lor, will definitely let you know what happens!!!