Because I have a hard time believing I’m that attractive. Is it just me?
Not knowing what you look like I cannot say if you are attractive or not … lol.
Remember - attraction goes much beyond the physical - or I would have been single and celibate these past 20+ years … for tyhose of us who are not models of varying sorts I suspect that as far as looks go as long as we fit a certain “type” that the other person is attracted to and we are “attractive enough” then that works in the physical realm. That may seem odd to us guys who tend to be visually oriented but I bet it makes more sense to women.
I think a vast part of attraction falls into other realms - psychological, etc..
But the bottom line is that the pheromones only enhance what is there - the old 90% you and 10% pheromones that many of us talk about.
Absolutely correct!
I think this is where people get confused.
Attraction or being attractive only has a little to do with being good looking.
I posted this in response to another persons question but here is what attraction is
So yes you can be that attractive.
No your dont have to be good looking to be that attractive.
Taking care of your looks by being clean and well kept helps alot because it brings both the visual and the Pheromonal together and can be a powerful combo.
Now bring together, Visual, Pheromonal and good social skills and you will be rocking girls worlds
Tisha
I was a lot better lookin’ when I was 20 but wasn’t too successful with women. Now that I’m older and wiser, women less than half my age are after me all the time. I work out, dress well and take good care of myself. But still, the attraction is mostly about the total package, especially personality and lifestyle, and appearance is a mere component of many contributing factors. So make the most of what you have and don’t worry too much about the shortcomings.