so, if i had pheromones on me, and was walking around with some girl, what would the exact affect on her be (i know it depends on the 'mones, but keep reading)? i know they would affect her mood, but would she be able to tell somehow that whatever affects were caused by me?
i was always under the impression that 'mones only affected mood, and the affected person is oblivious to the source. but if i were to keep meeting up with this girl wearing these 'mones, she’d equate the mood with me. this contradicts posts saying that wearing sexual 'mones at work may be inappropiate because those affected would think the source is constantly trying to put out sexy vibes. so if i were talking with some girl wearing one, would she think i was trying to get her in the mood, or would she just be in the mood??
likewise, if i were wearing instant openess or shine, would only her mood be affected, or would she think i were actively trying to affect her mood somehow??
im not sure how helpful my post will be, but i happen to dissagree with that work-theory.
some people just give off alot of sexy pheromones naturally. to say that others get the impression you are sexing them up is the same as saying " great haircut!" and then that person thinking “oh great,they must want me!”. in other words, if anyone is trying to say your trying to put out sexy vibes, they must have sex on the mind to begin with (and to this i say,RIGHT ON!!!)
so to answer your question, no, no one will KNOW what your strategy is, although they may feel strongly about stuff they didnt prior.
The female in question for just being around her I’ll reference a Julia, and the one for work i’ll reference as…um… Gabby! That’s a good one lol
Ok, So you are out with julia wearing your special mix and then you leave for a bathroom break. Druing this time she will notice your amazing pheromone signiture as gone and miss it because it is so subconciously amazing!! (i’m playing it up a bit, but it’s the basic principle) When you part ways a the end of the day she will once again miss the presence. When you and Julia meet up again she will reconize the pheromone presence (subconciously) and then equate that as you making her feel so absolutely fricking fantastic. haha
After spending all weekend boinking the crap out of Julia, It’s Monday and you have to go to work. Being the player you are, there is this cute little spinner named Gabby you work with. You decide to throw on the turn up the heat and/or ammunition to see if you can’t get her blood boiling. This backfires as your female boss stops by your desk and is very threatened by your sexual presence. She see’s you later flirting with Gabby by the water cooling and decides to halve a talk with you about sexuality and the office, and remind you of the company fraternization policies. Plus Gabby felt a little threatened and uncomfortable around you, making her wonder if her work environment is safe from sexual advances and harasment.
(embelished a bit, but once again you get the idea)
so lor is saying im right in that only mood is affected and the person is consciously unaware of any influence on my part?
toilof - and you agree?
my concern is, no matter what im wearing, as long as im acting normally (not flirting, not being an ass, just speaking normally with a *current friend) i dont want her to percieve anything normal as inappropriate, other than simply being subconsciously affected by the 'mones (positively or negatively)
It’s all subconcious. Don’t underestimate the power of that though. The subconcious mind can have very powerful effect.
You are most likely safe wearing ammunition or turn up the heat at work in very low doses. Just watch out for negative responces, and if you get them, stop using them at work. Watch out for build up. andorstenone is know for that. I wouldn’t wear it every day.
They wash off to an extent, but they soak into your skin. A little extra care is advisable. I think Ail recomends exfoliating. Some people use a sauna if available (if you have one available why not use it anyway lol). I haven’t heard of anything else causing build up except -none, but -none is expecialy hard to get rid of.
Just scrub the areas you put pheromones on and you will be fine
That is true… some women naturally produce a lot of copulins. So what would be wrong with me adding a few synthetics? Do you think that people would take me less seriously if I had Instant Sexiness on at work? I’ll have to search the women’s forum to see if Sexiness provokes cattiness in other women. I don’t want to cause conflict. Maybe I’ll just stick with Instant Shine and Instant Female Magic at work, just to be safe. Don’t want to OD or to make people immune to the effects.
I’ll have to message Ail and dolly and ilsa to see if they wear their beloved cops formulas like EoW all the time, or only at night.
All women’s college (all girl’s school, too – I’m not partial), with MANY MANY women all together in close proximity – I don’t want any conflict, nor do I want to unwittingly alter other people’s moods negatively.
I think it depends on the woman, personally. There are those who can take any little thing and make a huge deal out of it, and there are those who will never see the signs at all.
If she reads too much into things, and is aroused by you (and the 'pheromones) she very well could take a normal conversation and turn it into something more.
Or… a woman might get the sexy vibes from you, but still realize it’s a normal conversation. BUT still be aroused.
… But then again, that could be exactly what Lor was talking about.
I do not know much about female body chemistry, so i’ll give my perspective as a man being attracted by pheromones to a coworker.
I wouldn’t take her less seriously, but I would not be viewing her from as much of a professional manor. It’s not that I would see her as a poor worker, or not professional, I would be thinking in the gutter as oposed to acomplishments and work ethic. As you know men have a one track mind. We can’t be looking you up and down discretely (or non discretely lol) and be thinking about how great your report was. Honestly after getting such sexual ideas in my head, i’d probably relate anything from you to the gutter thoughts. Men are very impressionable, and seem to hold on the pre concieved notions.
My opinion, and I do not speak for anyone else. I have a very high libido so maybe i’m an exception. My mind is always in the gutter.
