dreaming big and saying hello

Hello Phero community.

I’m a 34yr old female from NYC and I just love this forum. I bought all of the products from the Instant line last week and so far I’m not really seeing the results I’d like. Especially with a particular TG.

He doesn’t seem to respond well to Instant Sexy B or any of the other scent combo’s I’ve tried (men that I’m not interested in, faun over me when I wear them, but he seems indifferent). I know that he’s interested in me sexually because we’ve discussed that already. My problem is that I can’t get him to faun over me like the other men are doing.

I know that Instant Sexy A is no longer available, but is there something close to that formula that I might try? He’s not really an Alpha male, he’s kind of shy. so maybe that’s why IS-B isn’t working.

Thanks for all your help.

Hi there,

Nice to see you joining us !

Looks like you are still a bit struggeling getting the results you ´re expecting ..

you´re saying that other men are hitting on you and you have great succes with them .. but that´s not the ones you want .. o.k

I hope that some women like Tisha or Boudicca will jump here in to help you in this case … Mick will help for sure !

please do a read on this one —> https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934

there´s explained how you can get a 25$ Gift Certificate for your next purchases

DB please tell us how you found Androtics or this Forum .. and tell us a bit more about you ..

things will turn out fine ..

Pago

Hey Dream Big

If he is shy try it with something which lowers his anxiety! Or creates a huge amount of trust and rapport!

I woukd go with something like IH for the trust and rapport and a few sprays of Instant Shine this would make feel him good and confident and also yourself!

It makes you and him a lot more confident so the chance that one of you will take the initiative is much higher!

If he doesn’t take the initiative, why take it yourself if you realy want it!

Greetz

Welcome!

I think you men is more the TAL type, but sadly is TAL and Instant Sexiness A out of stock…

P78 is a option. This stuff is sensual, social and a mood booster. For women and men also sensual sexual. This stuff is exciting! Take 15-30mcg.

Don’t forget your gift certificate: How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?

Its quite posstble that although he is attracted to you, he is the sort of personality/level of of self-respect that won’t let him faun over anyone?

And in this case, pheros won’t change his basic nature, so you might need to approach you attractions in other ways.

Thank you guys so much for your feedback. I’m going to try every suggestion and report back.

Hi, Dream Big.

Wellcome on board.:slight_smile:

Being a man myself, i´ve never used any women´s products, so i can´t offer you any advice about what to use.

However, i would tell you that, as a man who has always been kind of shy, there have been times, specially when i was younger, that i liked a girl but i was unable to make any phisical adavances with her, and thing never went any further.

However, sometimes, i was lucky enough to find a girl who was confident and forward enough to make the first move, and things turned out great. So, i guess, that if you think that this might be the case, my advice is to take the initiative, because if he likes you, he is not going to turn you down.

Almost every time, all of these girls told me that they liput their eyes on me because i was not all over them as most guys where. Now, I´m not that shy, but whenever i meet a girl i like, i act seemingly unintersted as a means to get her attention. I does not always work, but when it does, it works great.

I would also say that maybe is bacause he does not give you as much attention as other guys do, you want to get it. Maybe you are letting go good oportunities. As they say, the grass always seem greener at the other side of the fence, or something like that, so we humans think that what we can´t have is btter than what we alredy have … Know what i mean?..

Anyway, take my advice with a grain of salt, as i don´t really know you or the guy you are talking about.:stuck_out_tongue:

Hope this helps.

Good luck.

Talk to you soon

Welcome to pherotalk Dream big!

Remember that pheromones don’t make a person act against their will and will provoke feelings that are already there but not make the person act out of character.

As women sometimes we mistake a man not being more aggressive over us while there are times for that as he is not interested. It could be out of respect, fear because of insecurities or wanting to take things slow so as not to spoil what he sees as something special.

Chivalry is not dead my friend.

IH is gonna be a great one to make him feel close to you , that he can trust you and open up.

IO and IH 50% each is similar to cttm 2 which from my experiences makes a guy more touchy and willing to express what he is feeling.

I think the ladies have a formula for the is/a so pop into the female section for more feedback on your situation and on this formula.

Your gc was issued! :wink:

@kelsey - I really like how you broke it down for me. I will have to keep an eye on him, and try out some of the tips I’ve learned here so far. Thanks again