Ok, I’m a newby and I need your help 'cause I’m all confused I’m 21, single and I want to seduce that mysterious guy who’s acting weird with me lately but I know I’m turning on… He’s an independant, kind of shy and really really hot type of guy. I know he’s not the kind to have a bunch of one night stands and he told me he was more looking for the right one… a nice complice that makes him laugh ( I do that…). We hung out, we kissed and he told me I was intimidating him 'cause I was beautiful. I was very respectful though and he hasn’t tried anything on me (I wish he had… damn!). I haven’t dared to do anything neither 'cause I didn’t want to freak him out and I thought he maybe wanted more than just a one night stand with me. I’ve seen him since but he was acting strangely since. I want him to be accro to me and more talkative 'cause there’s no way to know what he’s thinking, he doesn’t share much. I know he his somehow interested in me 'cause I told him a couple of things and he didn’t seemed to listen to me at all but, later on, he brought them back in a middle of a conversation and I know he doesn’t have a great memory for that kind of things, so he probably cares a little.
I don’t usually have problem to attract men, when I go someplace, they come talk to me easily. I’m an intense passionate girl and I like guys attention but I’m in no way a slut, if that can help to determine what pheromones I need…
If you have any ideas about what kind of product I should buy or how can I deal with the situation, that would be really appreciated! I’m telling you, it’s driving me crazy! I feel like a school girl and I can’t stop thinking about him haha! I want my control back please!!!
Hope you can help A masculine point of view would be appreciate too
Have a great day!
Do u mean that you wanna appear less sexy so you would be less intimadation? That would be pretty unusual lol! Perhaps you should try some social product to make others more confortable.
Instant openness is very light and effective for new people that you meet. They would be very confortable around you and will talk a lot with you.
Don’t forget instant sexiness, it is great for most woman who want a spotlight!
Welcome to the forum Mag! I hear that Instant Sexiness A mixed with Instant Sexiness B makes you seem more like Brittney Spears. So make sure that you do not use both at the same time. Us really hot guys can have any woman we want, so spend your efforts on being the women he wants. My guess is that he is not intimidated by you and he knows exactly what he is doing. After all, you are the one that spent the effort to research pheromones in the attempt to become more attractive to him. He is probably watching the football game right now or talking to another women on the phone and not worrying about becoming more attractive to you. You are on the right track. Attractive men like to remain in control and have women pursue them. Not the other way around. If you think about it, you probably do not want to be in control of him. You would lose your attraction toward him because that would make him like every other wussy male out there. Try To Go bottles of as many products as you can afford. Use them when you are around other test subjects first. This will give you a good idea of the effects of each product and help you choose which products might help you remain attractive to him. DrZorters
So, Mockingbird, I don’t want to be less sexy He is not that shy when he’s talking to me And I guess he likes me to be sexy, no? Anyway, I appreciate your suggestion, sounds good to me… but maybe I want something stronger, I’m not quite sure. Being in the spotlight just sounds even more perfect Thanks again, that’s nice of you.
Have you tried Instant sexiness yourself? I’ll check it out for sure! Yeah, I don’t want to freak him out and be too outgoing, he’s more the calm, down to earth type of person. So, I guess you’re right with the B. What do you do with different products? You mix them or you just alternate them?
Thanks again Tisha, wow, you guys are all so nice!
You think so Gone? I really don’t know. sometimes, it looks like if hanging out with me was a chore for him… What do you think would be the best thing to do? I don’t want to be a pain in the ass and be too insistant Thanks
Thanks DrZorters. No, if it sends a Britney Spears vibe, then I definetely don’t want to mix A with B…
It’s easy to be the woman he wants… He’s not really hard, I already fit in his criterias (being a nice girl, make him laugh, be there for him). You got him wrong He’s not a Don Juan at all… Women don’t approach him because he doesn’t really flirt with them. He doesn’t have much girls in his life. Most of his friends are guys (all his friends in fact…), he only has brothers, no really long term relationship… He’s independant, single and he parties with his boyfriends.
I don’t really want to be more attractive to him in fact… 'cause I know he is attracted to me anyway. I just want to solve his mystery… I don’t know how to deal with him. You’re right, he’s not at all worrying about becoming more attractive to me!
He went all strange when I talked about that friend who were going to visit me and that’s after that he started to tease me instead of being all nice… Is there a way I can fix it?
By the way, yes, I still want to be in control with him I always do! I’ve been with gorgeous guys before and they were treating me like a princess (ok I got bored though… but it was a mistake and now I won’t do the same and appreciate it more and they had great personnality… So now I’ve been spoiled a little and I don’t want just a cute guy with no personnality… It’s an whole package I’m picky So, yeah, I just want him to treat me right like he was doing and I don’t want him to be shy and distant…
Do you think I’m losing my time? I don’t usually stay hooked too long on a guy when it’s not quite reciprocal But that one… Ouch! Hot stuff!
mmm… I tried to order Instant sexiness version B but there is no additional notes for the product… Ok, it must be simple but I do have my blonde moments… Someone can help me please?
I’d have to disagree, DrZ. In my experience, the more attractive the guy, the more likely he is to desire the opportunity to chase. At least, that’s the best way to stand out, IMO. Be incredibly attractive to him and then behave with friendly politeness… no heat. This has been incredibly effective for me.
Good luck to you, Mag! You’ve already gotten some terriffic pheromone advice so there’s no need for me to add my 2 pennies. As I’m sure you’ll find out, pheros are a blast!
Mag I am unsure where Dr Z got his information but its incorrect. So disregard this as it will only confuse you when it comes to figuring out Instant sexiness A or B. If you need any help you can PM me if you like.
I have used both products seperate and together. Its the base mix for most combos the girls use and it can be used as a stand alone product as well.
To get B you order from the regular instant sexiness link in the store after your shopping cart has everything you want in it click on process order and then another page will come up with a review of your order. At the bottom there is a notes section, write that you want IS/B in there. Remember that B only comes in the large size not the to-go .
I agree with GW on the IH and it will go well in a combo with Instant sexiness.
I think so because I had some interactions like that when I was younger, and your description seems to fit with my behaviors and perceptions of those times. However, you are the one that really knows. We only have what you tell us.
He already told you you intimidate him. He remembers your conversations.
He may be afraid of just how far he could fall. I know I had that apprehension when meeting women of substance and deep attraction.
Some in-depth conversations will take you both past the surface levels.
Thanks Sheba He’s not quite a “hunter” though… But he’s definetely not like DrZ said he was. I’ll try your advice (the no heat will be hard though! haha)! Can I call him and invite him over or would it be better not to and wait?
Thanks again for your advice and enjoy your phero blast
I just ordered Instant honesty to-go, Instant sexiness to-go and Instant sexiness version B Hopefully, that’ll do the trick And if it’s not with him, it’ll be with someone else… I can’t force him to like me haha! Thanks for helping me with my “blonde moment” and for giving me such good advice
Do you suggest to mix them right when I’ll start or to try them separately? What should I begin with? Thanks again!
Thanks GWTW That’s really helpful. I appreciate it. I don’t really know more than you though… I told pretty much everything that happened.
What would be the best thing to do so he stops being “afraid of just how far he could fall”? What was the best trick women did with you when you acted like that? Please, do tell Thanks again and have a great day
Sounds like you should purchase some Instant Honesty and have some conversation with him on a deeper level like Gone suggests or you can just keep playing the game that you are in. You are both playing with your own set of rules unannounced to the other. If you have some deeper conversations with him you might be able to get closer to both of you playing the game by the same rules or at least have a better idea what the rules are that you are both playing by. On another note: It is great that you have picked a specific target that is worth your effort, but do not put all your eggs in one basket. There are many Hot Men out there, but there are very few that will be able to understand you on a very deep level and make you feel like you want to feel. This is the same advice that I have given to many men. I have just substituted the word Men for the word Women. I hope this advice helps you. I wish you all the best in whichever path you take Mag. DrZorters
This whole thread is exactly why I love this forum. It takes so much to give of ourselves freely and wholly and yet time and again I see it everyday on this forum. What an awesome place to be a part of.
With that said I’d like to welcome you to the forum. I’d have to agree with the advice that has been given here. Deep communication is the basis of every relationship. With that said though there has to be a connection in order for the relationship to blossom. I also would agree that your relationship seems to have some underlying little nuances that need to be addressed.
You guys need to start talking and as DrZ has said you are both playing a game. This can be dangerous ground in destabilizing a relationship. You guys IMHO should talk to one another and meet on something solid like your affection for another. Get yourself some Isex and IH.
To help you on your way I am sending the gift certificate right out your way.
I’m 21, single and I want to seduce that mysterious guy who’s acting weird with me lately but I know I’m turning on… He’s an independant, kind of shy and really really hot type of guy. I know he’s not the kind to have a bunch of one night stands and he told me he was more looking for the right one… a nice complice that makes him laugh ( I do that…). We hung out, we kissed and he told me I was intimidating him 'cause I was beautiful. I was very respectful though and he hasn’t tried anything on me (I wish he had… damn!). I haven’t dared to do anything neither 'cause I didn’t want to freak him out and I thought he maybe wanted more than just a one night stand with me. I’ve seen him since but he was acting strangely since. I want him to be accro to me and more talkative 'cause there’s no way to know what he’s thinking, he doesn’t share much. I know he his somehow interested in me 'cause I told him a couple of things and he didn’t seemed to listen to me at all but, later on, he brought them back in a middle of a conversation and I know he doesn’t have a great memory for that kind of things, so he probably cares a little.
A masculine point of view would be appreciate too 