I have come to the conclusion that a lot of women tell you “your big” not because you are, but for some other reason. There has only been one time where a woman has commented that I wasn’t and she was weirdly adamant about that fact. I have my thoughts that they do it to stroke your ego and a couple others, but was trying to open a discussion on why this happens. I mean it can’t just purely be an ego stroke all the time.
Maybe you’re big to them. I get complaints all the time, but I like me some petite girls. I actually had a situation where a girl I never met came up to me and tried to grab my junk. I was like excuse me. She said she was friends of so and so and she told her that I was big. I was like WTF! I couldn’t decide if I was embarrassed, complimented or pissed off. It was an odd situation to say the least and quite frankly I wasn’t attracted to this girl either. In many situations it does add lots of social proof. Girls talk and often.
Seriously maybe they think your big and there’s no ulterior meaning behind it. What’s your theory though? I’d like to hear it 
Yeah “sexual experience” is one part of it along with race or “size” of women. Vaginal sizes coincide with penis size and some races have bigger and smaller naturally. I really think you this is the MAIN reason, because you can be big to some and not to others. I just thought from my example of that women telling me during sex " you think your big!" which i never ever say or said then it goes to “my last bf was WAY bigger than YOU” and it just made me think that their maybe other factors
Brings me to a thing called self-justification. People justify their actions this way usually if they made a “bad choice” or someone points out they got a “better deal” on the same product they did. They try and justify in thier own mind why the made the choice they did. I’m not saying it in this context so to speak. Just simply that in some cases like ONS they need to justify in their own minds why they are sleeping with you and this could be a reason for it.
Another one is that they may just not want to do a certain activity anal or blowjob and that is their way of getting out of it or telling you that it’s not something their into. I think this goes with stroking your ego, because as a male if she is saying your too big your less likely to pursue the endeavor IMO.
I like to believe mostly what you’ve posted in your above post steve. It is just that I have ran across a couple situations where I believe it is more than that sometimes. I may be wrong though. We men do tend to over think EVERYTHING about the opposite sex.
The reason I posted this is since mones this has happened EVERY time. Maybe -none or the likes of A314 gives the “appearance” of a larger member. They just think it’s bigger because of your “Super Manly” sig or “alpha” vibe. It happened before just noticed a difference recently. Maybe I have run across a string of small vaginas…LMAO 
I dont think anone or A314 gives the appearance of a larger member, If your big, your big. LOL 
I dont think its a ego stroke either, maybe just occasionally but its not likely. You can have a big one and know absolutely nothing about using it correctly.
Anone and A314 give off a aggressive vibe. Perhaps they just mention your size so that your not overly aggressive sexually. When men are well endowed it can be uncomfortable when they get to aggressive. Its not that your to big, just big enough to cause discomfort.
If you wanna know what that feels like then have a friend put two fingers together pointing out straight and poke you in the stomach. Dont tighten your abs. It wont really hurt but its uncomfortable and knocks the breath out of you. Now think about them doing that over and over real fast. LOL
The size of most women’s vaginal cavities are about the same. Short women dont have shorter or smaller vaginal cavities. Its the muscle tone that differs as well as the placement of the uterus. The uterus can tip from child birth or frequantly lifting heavy objects. It can be genetic as well. The further its tipped the more discomfort a larger male can cause. She is more likely to say your big then explain she has a tipped uterus and many women dont even know they have a tipped uterus unless it causes a problem and they ask there doctor about it, they just know large and aggressive is not fun.
Thats why women tell you its not how big it is its what you do with it. Just like more is not better with mones big is not always better with penises. To little is not great either.
With either one, Your gotta find that sweet spot 
Tisha
I know how to uuuuuhhhhhhuuuuummmmmm use it . I could have swore I read something about vaginal sizes being different in races like penises are in men. Even in that case of penis size there isn’t that much difference either. Wish I could remember where I read that.
Actually I think in a lot of cases they say it because they think we want to hear it, women know that men tend to have insecurity issues regarding that area so they say it hoping the confidence boost will let us just be in the moment instead of spending the whole time wondering how we compare to whoever she was with before.
My last serious girlfriend actually wouldn’t shut up about it. She actually spent about an hour afterward rambling on about my johnson. I suspect it’s because her ex husband was black and she thought I might feel insecure about it due to stereotypes and such.
Now Now I didnt say YOU didnt know how to use it LOL.
Your misunderstanding me, The actual cavity is about 6.5 to 7.5 inches long (depth) on all women. The membrane can stretch comfortably a few more inches, some women’s membrane is looser then others. As I mentioned genetics can place the uterus differently in some women. So The uterus can be tilted down pushing the cervix into that 6 to 7 inch cavity making it 5 to 6 inches or whatever depending on how bad the tilt. This can make the cavity seem shorter but as you thrust and hit the cervix your actually moving it which causes discomfort.
I also mentioned muscle tone. Stronger tighter muscles in this area can make it feel smaller as well. Its just tighter though not longer or shorter.
Maybe in a few cases but not always. Most time people say things looking for confirmation of some sort. Its not about us making you feel better its about us making us feel better.
Tisha