Then there are the balances in “personal chemistry”
ex: I have a friend who is a single mom whose Dr found out she had more than the normal levels of testosterone; she had her levels tweaked and adjusted and all of a sudden had a revelatory experience of full force feminine: found herself weeping at “girly stuff” <–her words, not mine
She was astonished at the new perceptions:
"So…this is what all of you have been feeling all this time!! "
but she missed her tougher, more decisive, more masculine self, as she is still on her own w 4 kids 1 of whom is autistic.
Another friend, who a happily married father of 2 girls, works w computers, has estrogen levels that are way above normal, but is content there.
So…could some of the issues relate to the balance of sex hormones an individual has?
I suspect another (male) friend is really high on the estrogen balance—so what sort of 'nomes would be good to counterbalance the “meek” aspects ?
Messing with his hormone balances might make him miserable and a bit of a jerk, so this might be the answer for him.