Ok so my ex-girl of 3 years (we broke up 2 years ago) called me on her birthday a few days ago… Now let me just throw out there that random sex between us isn’t out of the ordinary, as last summer we had sex about 3 times while she broke up with her new boyfriend (that she eventually got back with). NOW… since her new boyfriend is spending the next 4-5 years in jail she hasn’t had sex in 7 months since he got arrested.
So about 5 nights ago we just hung out, shot the shit, and I didn’t make any type of move sexually towards her because she clearly stated that she didnt want anything like that to happen… ok fine… I was a good boy.
Last night she calls again on her way home from work bartending all night.. so.. after recieving my Ammo and TUTH 2 days ago I figure this will be the PERFECT situation to test it… I hit one spray of TUTH to my wrist and rubbed together and one spray of ammo to the chest… I didn’t want to come on too hard…
She walked in my house and what was the first thing she asks for? A massage. Ha… perfect now massaging her neck and back my TUTH wrist shots were right in her face. Sooner or later she started pretty much saying how she would love to have sex with me but she just feels too bad for her boyfriend who is sitting in jail… well sucks for him doesn’t… she got to the point where she really wanted to stay the night (I could tell) but she just ended up forcing herself out the door (and making me walk her to her car, and drive around my block about 6 times for a cigarette before she left) … strange!
Next time I hang out with her… How much should I wear… I’m thinking 2 sprays each?
Yeah it looks that way by reading it… but the thing is… she is going to have sex with me again within the next few weeks guaranteed. It’s one of those ex-girl things that you just know. She is the kind of girl that once it’s in her head then shes doing it. And technically she is single anyways.. she visits the last boyfriend in jail still, for moral support, but is in between deciding wether to give him another chance when he gets out.
You said she clearly stated she wouldn’t be having sex with you. In my mind that means she already had convinced herself not to have sex with you. The mones were telling her body a different story, so she was confused. In my opinion at least.
I can’t tell you what to do but if I were you, I wouldn’t do it. I wouldn’t even hang out with her because there is a a chance of sex. I’d give the guy some respect. He’s in a bad spot now and going to make it worse. Even if her boyfriend wasn’t in jail I wouldn’t push up on her.
Anyone can accept sex if thrown in the face but it takes a MAN to refuse it because it’s the right thing to do.
Ehh I have no remorse… she cheated on me while we were together, then dumped me after 3 years and had a new man 2 weeks later… There’s nothing to speak of morally… Call me a dick… everyone who knows me approves of this. Karma’s a bitch…
Don’t worry, nobody is going to judge you for anything here. Maybe invite her again for round two, but don’t up the dosage, it seems you were doing well at 1 shot.
Thekidrg, this girl will view you in a different light if you show restraint. I think she’s confident that if she just crooks a finger you will come panting at her skirt hem. So she’s getting exactly what she wants right now, which is validation of her attractiveness and the comfort of knowing that she is desired.
If she can’t be certain of your undying lust (I might have said undying love, but this thread sounds just a tad dysfunctional), then she will have little choice but to pursue you to re-establish it. Right now she’s in command of the relationship, such as it is. If you back off and show restraint, or even disinterest, then you are in command of the relationship.
