Devil all you want 
I know we all have our good days, and I guess bad days too.
I reached my conclusions based on the following:
- I was not my regular self today, extremely tired, not chatty, looked like a mess. I would not have gone anywhere in that state, had it not been for being late for that appointment (AND the desperate need for a haircut). Now, I know pushing people away with attitude sometimes work wonders in creating attraction, but not like this. I know, cause I’ve seen it a lot.
- Her dichotomic behavior in grinding (leaning on) me in a somewhat blunt fashion, and at the same time acting bothered about it (reverse neck exposure).
- And of course, the final fact that she was (in a very awkward fashion) trying to keep me from leaving through needless conversational “Bull”. Yeah. Why would she bring up having a boyfriend, just like that? I really had no need to know.
That being said, I sure do know we sometimes see what we want to see (for both better or worse). Pheroquirk posted an excellent abstract on it a while back: Motivational Influences on Visual Perception. While I know most of this both from earlier work (and my current profession) I judged the results somewhat differently this time (as in finding the effects of 'mones close to obvious).
But … thanks for pointing it out to me anyway. I’m rarely afraid to change my perspectives, but I do need reminders that I always have a lot left to learn in Life. For instance that Pure objectiveness never truly can be achieved.
Thank you, Domer.
Lossa’luv,
Chris