I recently had a first date, with a girl I met on a dating site. Before going on the date, I put on the following pheromones.
Ammo World: 3 sprays on neck
Instant Openness: 2 sprays on wrists, one each
Instant Shine: 2 sprays on wrists, one each
P84: 1 spray on chest
Overall, the date went pretty well, although the final verdict is still up in the air. She’s about my age. The hits I got were pretty interesting, peppered with a good number of IOI’s throughout. Here at the hits I got.
Self
Unlike with using Ammo Summer on a date, which I’ve done before, Ammo World had a more energizing self-effect, and even made me feel a little wound up. Although, the latter probably happened because I was going straight from work, and got caught in traffic, and was worried about being late. (I wasn’t.)
Group of teenagers
When I got to the ice cream place, my date called me, and said she was stuck in traffic (how ironic!) and will be a little late. I found a bench half a block away, and sat down to read a newspaper. (Waiting on a bench somehow makes me feel less self-conscious than waiting inside at the table.) There was a group of teens on the adjacent bench, talking loudly and tossing small items into a garbage bin. I pretty much tuned them out. One guy threw a McDonald’s cup, but it bounced off the bin, landed on the ground, and spilled. That’s when I looked up from my newspaper with a “WTF!” look on my face. The kid looked clearly embarrassed, and said: “sorry, sir; I’ll pick it up”, and did just that. The whole group went quiet, until I stood up to go meet my date by the entrance.
My date
It started out well. She looked more attractive in person than in her photos. I was greeted with a handshake, which I found overly formal (I usually do a light hug), but whatever. She apologized for being late, which I thought was a good sign, we got our ice creams, and sat down. Throughout the date, the conversation flowed very smoothly, with only one or two brief moments of awkward silence, which I was able to recover from. We talked more about her than me; plus, she moved around a lot, and I found it interesting. About halfway through, I started seeing what I believe to be IOI’s: she fiddled with her hair (neck length) a lot, and showed no discomfort when I touched her hand to emphasize a point. We talked for quite a while, and almost lost track of time; an hour passed since then. I remembered a rule I read in a book, about stopping a date while it’s still fun, as opposed to letting it run out of steam (and by extension, her interest). So I did just that. We parted ways with a hug, which I found kind of dry, but again, whatever. Maybe she’s just shy.
Thoughts
This girl struck me as a little emotionally flat, so to speak, but that’s not a deal-breaker at all. I have a tendency to be like that myself. She didn’t show much inflection variation in her voice, even when we talked about things I knew she was into. In the past, my successful dates were quite animated emotionally, and even touchy-feely. But the IOI’s were really nice. I’m hoping for a second date.
What do you think? Was the hair-fiddling and the lack of discomfort with hand-touching actual IOI’s and/or pheromone hits? Or just her personality? Comments are welcome.