if we search there definately is alot of info on this forum about EST affecting both men and women.
from the looks of it , it does affect us differently but as the wearer people are responding to you differently, so self-effects dont seem to play a part in this pheromones usage.
sometimes when we wear Androstenol, for instance, we are pretty used to the effects by the end of the day.
someone approaching you for the first time gets a whiff of your signiture and it imprints on them as part of you.
wearing EST for me, i do infact notice a bit of something.
I genuinely feel softer, my tone is softer, my kids notice i am softer in conversation and have actually said something to that effect.
i feel more tolerance.
i use EST at 100- 125mu and carry it with me even if i dont want it as a part of my signiture on any given day -
just incase a moment arises that warrents diffusion of negativity or rudeness.
i promise upon more examination you will find this pheromone one you cannot live without , but finding the dose might take some time.
nothing less than 67.5 registers, and my bestest hits of all come from 100-125mu.