Ok, so I just got IS/A and MX135 today. Since it was my first time, I got excited and decided to try them out. I followed the examples of other users and sprayed accordingly. I went grocery shopping with my mom, and nothing felt different. Even I didn’t notice any change in my mood. I used both of them, and still no results… I know that the fault wasn’t with my appearance.
Hello CellarDoor, just hang in there. Sometimes it takes a little while for the pheromones to work.
Cellar, try each of the products separately, first. That way, you will start to see what each product can do for you.
Secondly, and I cannot stress this enough…do NOT expect results your first few times trying pheromones. It takes some practice to learn how to use them properly, and what type of reactions to look for. Some people have no self-effects, while others have dramatic mood changes while using them. Also, “hits” from others are not always big…they are often subtle, and unless you are observing the situation closely, you may not even notice them.
Newbies buy these products, expecting big dramatic hits their first time out. And, while sometimes it happens, this is NOT the norm. Pheromones do not make people do things they normally wouldn’t. For instance…if a certain individual does not like you or is not attracted to you, pheromones will not change that. Pheromones ENHANCE what is already there.
Take your time, and try using the products separately, gradually “tweaking” how much you are using. And, don’t expect miracles. They just don’t work that way.
I totally agree with Dolly. Before reading some of the links, I was just throwing my money away, because I would mixed different pheromones, and not be able to keep track of what worked. Another thing is, everyone is different, and it depends on the exposure as well. If a person is only coming in contact for a few seconds, or minutes, I think they might not have any response. People don’t respond as wildly to pheromones as insects, or animals ,thank God! We would be in trouble if this were the case.
As has been pointed out many times on here, a couple of sprays isn’t make people magically attracted, the sprays are more like a cute new dress or hair style.
First, most pheromone reactions are subtle and subject to context and social conventions. Extreme reactions are rare. You might light up a room of drunk friends when soaked in Instant Openness but strangers in a mall won’t give you a second glance. Normally you need to be a keen observer of human behavior to notice most behavioral differences. Remember, the human brain’s social filters will counter most urges.
Second, while some report self-medication effects from pheromone use, most will experience a decline of said effects with regular use. Some never feel a thing. I fell nothing. Zip. Nevertheless the point of artificial pheromone is to reinforce your pheromone signature so you stand out to other people, not so you fall in love with your image when you look in the mirror.
My dresser top is covered with products that didn’t work for me: Chikara, WAGG, Liquid Trust, Essense of Woman, IMPI, Instant Shine, Perception, TAF, lots of P series, etc. I wasted hundreds of dollars and precious time. On the other hand, I have many products that do work for me: The Edge, NPA, Ammo, PheroProof, CTTM, Scent of Eros, Alter Ego, Aquagen, as well as numberous chemset pheromones. I’m always looking for something new to try. It takes me a week or two to test a product enough to get a handle on what it does and decide if it’s useful for me, and a couple months to optimize dose and combine successfully with complementary pheromone products. One day of use doesn’t tell you much except your don’t know squat yet. Sometimes a small tweak in dose or an added for subtracted component works magic on a failed combo. Sometimes all you need is an attitude adjustment or behavior tweak.
Finally, successful pheromone use must be proactive and participatory. Why? Normal social rules and freewill are still in play. If you spray pheromones on a fencepost, nothing will happen. A passive person is no different than a fencepost in this regard. Spray them on a confident, charming and friendly person and the pheromones reinforce and amplify every word and action, making them a little bigger than life. In other words, your persona and behavior must be congruent to your pheromone signature in order for things to work. And getting your persona and body chemistry synchronized with the optimal artificial pheromone signature takes practice and experimentation.
To some people, when they buy pheromones, they thought that they have bought the “Aladdin Lamp”…they ‘depended’ too much on the pheromones to ‘work’ for them or wait for miracles to happen or even hope that the good Lord will bring some beautiful girls or handsome dudes and place them on their laps till they forgot about the fundamental principles in communications, presentations and attractions…no doubt, pheromones were designed for those purposes.
Its takes practice and some tweaking to get the best results. Do what Dolly said and use them one at a time. Start with 1 spray and work your way up till you find your sweet spot. Everyone has there own sweet spot when it comes to mones so even if you follow a mix someone else has used that dosnt mean it will work the same for you.
Not everyone gets the self reaction especially with Instant Sexiness. I am assuming you got IS/A so there is a possiblity your more of a IS/B person. MX 135 with help you determine that. Its has TAH in it which is prominate in B.
You mentioned you went to the supermarket. The kind of reactions you would get there are more subtle. Your just casually passing people and not spending alot of time standing close to them (3 to 6 ) feet. You can expect smiles, perhaps double takes, you may notice someone will sort of follow you around (not in a creppy way but just to find a way and the nerve to approuch) things like this. All of my big hits are from spending a good deal of time around a person with the product on.
I also think there is a period when you first start using mones that your body needs time to adjust to it. This is just my opinion. The first few times I used them I didnt see much either and it took me a whole month before I was able to get EOW results. About 2 or 3 applications with Androtics products and I started to pick up on it.
An example SHINE… For me it just makes people seem more upbeat and happy nothing totally amazing at first. I figured hell I have it may as well use it and after a while I noticed a pattern. My boss is always in a nice happy accomadating mood when i wear it and when I dont he’s his normal pricky self. Happens everytime. I noticed things with others as well. Point being sometimes it just takes time to see it.
Hang in there, alot of us have made the same mistake of spraying a bunch on and running out the door just to see no results. Its hard not to get excited when the box arrives.
Tisha
Hiya
I’m pretty new to pheromones, and I have been quite lucky and noticed results pretty early on - but… I am very aware of my surroundings, pretty good on body language and tend to see the same people a lot of the time.
I had a heck of a fight to get MX135 to gel with me it took two to-go bottles before I figured it out. Instant Shine. I see the results on others but I get no self-effects at all. EoW I only get hits from if I dilute the heck out of it or if it is residual.
But I get great effects from the nols, on myself and on others - I’ve had gob-smackingly candid revelations from people while I have been wearing Instant Honesty.
To be honest, grocery shopping with your mum is probably not the best place to try this stuff. You don’t know the strangers you see and won’t be able to see if they are reacting at all out of character or if their body language is different than usual. Regarding signs of interest from guys - well I wouldn’t flirt with a guy in the supermarket if he had his mum with him… even if I thought he was gorgeous.
Additionally, your best results will be when you are close to someone for more than a second or two, and they have had a chance to have some exposure to the pheros. Men are said to need 10-20 mins to react to cops.
And unless you have eyes in the back of your head you will miss a lot of people’s reactions in a supermarket.
Try it in a different environment where people stay in the same place - ie near you - for a longer amount of time. Try it at work to see if people you know react differently to you when you wear it.
Everyone’s body chemistry is a bit different mixes that work dramatically for some might only work subtly for you - or may not work at all. Additionally, something that may do absolutely nowt for me may be your total goddess mix.
Play around with the stuff in different environments.
Best
May
Wow, thank you all for supporting me like this. I will just continue to use one pheromone at a time until it runs out. Today, I went to the first day of school wearing IS/A. Nothing dramatic happened, but someone did ask what perfume I use.