Hi everyone 
, I’m new to the forum and pheromones in general. I’m a female in my mid-20’s, who wants to try using pheromones to see whether it would help me in social and personal interactions (although I don’t need much help to begin with)! So, 3 days ago I received my first IS/a and a sample of Come Talk to Me… I’ve been using it (just IS/a) as directed here on the forum and I’ve been wearing it to work. So far, I’ve seen no changes in the way people react to me; I also don’t see any changes in myself (in terms of reacting to IS/a) to me (at least thus far) it’s just like wearing perfume. Any thoughts? Thanks! 
Where have your interactions taken place?
What do you expect out of mones?
Do you know what to look for?
How many sprays have you been using?
Also, not everyone gets self effects. You might be having a hard time noticing results if you are already a very social person.
My interactions took place at work (a group of about 40)
I expected people around me to become more sociable, maybe more talkative, joyful… I used 3 sprays (wrists, neck, hair). I think that because in my line of work we all have to interact regardless, it’ll be harder to notice people’s reactions. 
Is there maybe a different pheromone I should try, which would be “an easier read”?
P.S. I’ll continue to use IS/a and report back on it, tomorrow I’ll be in a slightly different environment while wearing it, so I’ll give an update on how that goes.
I don’t know much about womens products, but IS/A is supposed to be a more “alpha” type mix. So maybe a little intimidation could occur? So it is possible that if you notice a lack of communication we might be able to consider it a hit.
More obvious responses, try out Instant Shine and Instant Honesty. If you haven’t already, you can earn a gift card by following the instructions in a thread in this section.
Welcome to Pherotalk Mia!
I believe that pheromones works but it’s not for everyone. For some users the results happen right away and for others it takes time.
There many things that can affect you receiving or not receiving hits from the pheromones so it’s very important you be aware of everything and take everything into consideration.
Just like cooking, if you don’t measure all the ingredients you put in when you make a mistake you are not sure where to go back to correct it. Starting a journal is very helpful in these situations and also very accurate accounts of everything that occurred around the time you put on the pheromones so you can trace back and I think this will be very helpful.
That is what I love about pheromone testing, it opens up your awareness.
The ladies and I will be more than happy to assist you so please continue to post your questions and concerns in the women’s section.
I would love to issue you a $25 gift certificate because this is your first time posting so please reply to this thread with the following info :
Your personality, what type of person you are. You don’t have to go in depth, the basics are fine.
How did you stumble upon this forum or store and what is your ultimate goal for wearing pheromones.
I’m very friendly, always in the good mood and w/a smile on my face type of person. I get along w/most people I know and I’m rarely in a bad mood.
I stumbled onto this site by looking up perfumes online (I LOVE :o perfumes) and I remembered reading about pheromones, so I googled “pheromones and perfumes” and this was one of the pages that came up. My ultimate goal for wearing pheromones is to really test out whether or not they work and what kind (if any) of effects do pheromones have on mood and/or behavioral changes in people. 
No lack of communitcation either, everything is pretty much the same… 
How much are you using ? Have you tried it with strangers as well as coworkers ? Its easier to gage results from those who dont know you well. Do they approach more, stare more, make eye contact more, seem to hover around you, engage more ?
How long are these people exposed to it ? Do they have time to talk or is the environment not suited for sitting around socializing ?
All these can be a factors in being able to pick up hits at first. Then when you get used to using something suddenly clicks and its like “Oh shit I see it now”
A few tips…
Keep trying it in different dosages and enviroments. Like Mick said sometimes it takes time.
Be sure to spend one day without pheromones really paying attention to how people interact with you and their body language. The reason I say this is because most people think they are paying attention but they really are not. They are thinking about a million other things at the same time When you make a conscious effort to pay attention before you use your mones you will be surprised by what you notice and this makes it easier to tell whats going on with your pheromones on.
Tisha
Tisha,
I tried it wore it around my parents, people on the train, co-workers (some on whom just recently started - so they are like strangers)… Prior to making my first purchase, I decided to have several days of observation of how people behaved around me.
I don’t know if you read my initial post where I briefly described my personality and how much pheromones I use (usually 3 sprays: wrists, neck and back of hair); well I’m very friendly and people at work talk to me all the time, both males and females. I’m almost always in a good mood, but I haven’t noticed feeling different w/IS(a), as others have pointed out to feeling more confident, joyful, happy… Neither did I notice the difference in those around me, I tried to especially see whether people were affected after being around me for 20-30 minutes. No change though…
I describe in more details what happened in the Women’s Journal Section (my thread “IS/a: trial period”)
Thanks for the additional information. I will definitely get your gc out to you today.
I sense frustration in your response and I know it might be like that but what you have to loose. Take a deep breath and rewind. Start over, try one again not expecting certain type of results and have fun while being that fly on the wall observing everyone.
I have a feeling there is some key ingredient missing and if not it’s not the end of the world. You learnt something because you came here and that is always a good thing.