Well like most noobs on this site…this stuff seems pretty interesting. I am a bit leary of whether synthetic pheromones can have an actual impact on someones daily life…but there are tons of members, stories, etc.. here that have me wanting to give it a whirl. I am fairly certain none of us will ever have the Matt Damon + Oceans 13 pheromone effect lol..gotta love hollywood but that would be neat if it worked ha.
Anyways…been together with my wife for 13 years and have had some rough patches along the way..including a recent one. Looking to see if the use of pheromones might help us bridge any communication gaps or even help ease her tension. From the sounds of it..pheromones don’t make anyone do anything..but act as more of a “push” in one direction or another based on the scenario or mood. I really just am looking to regain her trust and re-build her loyalty in our relationship..and figured its worth a shot to try these…even if I have strong doubts it will do anything.
Might try some of the instant product line…or whatever $25 can get me to test out.
Anyways…glad to be here and looking forward to participating.
Where are you from? This mildly affects the effectiveness of pheromones. Colder climates do not really promote diffusion of pheromones but they still work within a reasonable distance.
If you were looking to improve your marriage, the only thing I could really think of is using instant honesty. Other members might have better suggestions and I’m sure they’ll swing by and give you their opinions/suggestions.
Hi Bryan, welcome to the forum.
You’re right in saying that pheromones won’t magically fix all our problems (I wish! ) but they will help. I suggest looking into Instant Shine and Instant Honesty for you and your wife. Instant Shine has been nicknamed ‘smile in a bottle’. It’ll help lift the mood, and everyone is always so much more agreeable when they’re content. Instant Honesty will help you guys talk about some of the deeper issues at hand, and increase communication. It’s also been said that it helps create intimacy too. You should try the smaller To Go bottles first, that’ll give you about 40 sprays, enough to make up your mind as to whether this is for you. Good luck, and keep us posted. I hope to see you around!
Hey there. Sorry forgot that part…I am in Indiana…so we get a mix of all the seasons Right now…there is about 4 inches of ice on the ground with 6 inches of snow.
Pheromones will not be able to fix the problems in your marriage but it can help with communication.
I believe that in all relationships if the communication lines are kept open then there is no problem that can’t be solved.
With the use of pheromones, the great source of information and experienced users who are married I feel that you will be able to get a lot of answers.
Instant honesty will make her feel like she has known you for a while and that she can trust you.
Instant openness will make her more chatty so that will help for her to let out somethings even if she doesn’t want to.
IG will make you seem like that dependable guy who is mature and deserves her respect.
I am looking forward to hearing how these worked for you.
Well, I’ve read others combo AMMO and TUTH good results…
I’d suggest the AMMO + IH first off. I’ve noticed this with my LTR, that she knows me very well and has a mental image of who I am and what signals I send out… So a AMMO + IH will be helpful if you act in congruence with that signal. Mones will NOT override free will, but, some will diminish natural inhibitions. Give TUTH a try later.
Better yet, check out what they do individually, with a couple of days of testing and observation with your wife and others around you. Then, you’ll have a much better idea how they will work in tandem.
I wrote up a thread on TUTH and its results in my particular case, here:
I wore some AMMO to bed last night…didn’t go well. She was mad with me to begin with anyways..then she was like “why would you put that on before bed”.
Could have simply been bad timing on my part..but AMMO is definitely a strong smell compared to IS or TUTH.
Androstenone, the molecule in ammo and tuth is known for causing polar reactions.
Try testing each product alone first. But like Mick said, pheromones don’t fix anything. If you’re having a rough patch you must talk it through. Remember to try to come to an understanding. Many couples who end up in divorce only see it as “it is their fault blah blah blah”. Those individuals fail to see that it takes two to tango and may never learn from their mistakes, so remember if there’s a fight be sure to try to understand each other. Therapists give different perspectives to those who engage in therapy.
Actually we typically do communicate well, I probably should not have put any on last night…I guess i was curious how she might take it. Maybe IS would have been better LOL.
Yeah, AMMO is cologne strength… it does come on a bit strong in the scent department. I’d agree that IS would be a good starter mone to see how they work on you and those around you.
IS is a very easy and cool social mone…
AMMO could be used during the day and the mones will last several hours, to around 5 to 6 hours depending on a few variables, such as the weather and your own body chemestry.
) but they will help. I suggest looking into Instant Shine and