18-24 February 2008
19th: After work (during which I was wearing Instant Honesty), I met a friend (one of the guys I’ve been trying to get in touch with for a while) and we went for a drink or four. I was wearing 2xShine (on hair and neck) and 1x Instant Openness (on wrists), applied about 30 mins before meeting. I didn’t really expect it to be otherwise, but we had a lot of fun.
It’s probably nothing to do with pheros, but once when he went to the bar some guys there were talking to him a bit. When he came back, he told me that they had been (gently) making fun of us because they thought we were gay. He just inferred this from the way they were speaking (lisping or whatever people do in Polish to insinuate that someone is gay), so I don’t know if he was reading it right or not. Anyway, one idea is that they noticed the feminine-ish (orange) scent from my pheros (because obviously signs of femininity imply gayness… at least in some people’s brains). Or it could have been entirely random. Anyway, the more phero-relevant part was that we had a good laugh about it
21st: The usual Thursday involving a trip to the girl who’s very flirty (code name: Thf). I was wearing 2xIFM (on upper back and side of neck), 2xAmmo (lower and middle chest) and 2xIH (wrists and hair). Quite a lot of stuff, but it was a bit of a disaster for other reasons. Halfway through the previous meeting, I started to feel quite unpleasant. My stomach were aching. I’d made a tasty sort of mushroom ‘risotto’ with barley instead of rice, and I think the grain wasn’t as cooked as it should be… Anyway, I continued on with my round of visits, and I could talk to everyone ok, but I couldn’t really give it my full attention. So I probably seemed very distracted to everyone (I was), and I don’t really remember anything beyond just the contents of the meeting. No idea if there were flirting attempts or anything. I even cut the meeting with her ‘short’ (i.e. not staying longer than an hour, which I usually do), although that was party due to time constraints. Anyway I’m looking forward to seeing what this week is like
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I had another meeting after her, just a sort of social meeting in a pizzeria with a new potential client (we’ll call her Tf, because we’ll be meeting on Tuesdays). Interestingly, I noticed that I wasn’t making a lot of sense (because of the stomach), but she just seemed really calm and accepting of everything I said. Part of a “he’s the teacher” attitude, I thought, but I found out later that she teaches languages too. So, maybe an Instant Female Magic effect.
23rd: Went to Gdansk to meet a friend and spent the weekend there. Before I arrived there, I put on 2x IS (wrists, neck) and 2xIH (back of neck and hair). Didn’t use Instant Openness because I ‘only’ have the bottle of that (not the to-go), and I didn’t want to risk damaging it on the journey. Anyway, met friend & his girlfriend (who I hadn’t met before). There was a great mood for the whole weekend (although she had a sore throat and was very annoyed she couldn’t talk more). No need to describe it in detail, but I refreshed (same pheros) 6h later in the evening and in the morning. I haven’t seen this guy in almost a year, and I’ve never met his girlfriend, but it felt like everybody was really comfortable and happy. I remember coming home quite drunk in the night, and we were laughing a lot at some sign in the lift. In the morning, I couldn’t see why it was funny, so I guess we were in a good mood
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So both social meetings this week were really successful, and resulted in plans for more meetings - exactly the aim.