Hi folks
Just thought I would say hi- I am a 40 year ole kiwi (new zealander) living in DC. I am married for 15 years to a beautiful lady and we have 3 children. Like most long term married we are finding that that spark we use to have has kind of been taken over by the day to day grind of life. We still care deeply for each other but we are both looking at ways we can reconnect. I guess you could describe our relationship as one of companionship and partnership. Not bad but could be better!
So for me pheromones is just one thing I am looking at to enhance our relationship. I am working on the communication and listening and all those other things we should do. I am interested to see if pheromones can also add something to our relationship- emotionally and physically!
It nice to see hat you are proactive in taking step to improve things—If only everyone else was that way.
Here are my suggestions for what will “add something to your relationship emotionally and physically”:
Instant Honesty: This really helps to bond/connect with the person who you are talking to. This bon/connection leads to increased trust which is important in any relationship. Many members (myself included) have observed that people tell secrets/very personal information quickly when we are wearing Instant Honesty.
Instant Shine: This makes the wearer and those around him/her feel happy/good. I like this one because people like to be around happy people
Turn Up The Heat. This really gets women aroused. One member said that before she knew about pheromones her husband was using them on her. One day he came home and kissed her (with Turn Up The Heat on) and she said that immediately her temperature down below skyrocketed.
Also you may be interested in this link about guys using pheromones to improve their marriages:
Thanks Clintx2. Some interesting comments in that link- I think the idea of using pheromones to compliment the other areas of a relationship sounds pretty much what I am after.
Regarding my personality- I am pretty laid back, dont get stressed out very much and can handle large amounts of pressure. Never going to be the life of the party but happy to hang out with good friends with a more relaxed atmosphere. I can work the room if I have to, but its not something I particularly enjoy.
From what I have read, it seems that IO could work well and would work with my personality. shall see..
Now that I am in a relationship that is serious I am realizing why persons say marriage is difficult. It’s not bad or hard it’s just bitter - sweet and you need to work on it constantly.
I applaud persons like you who come on the forum trying to enhance your marriage and looking for options to save it.
May God be with your and your wife and strengthen your union.
