I’ve been doing some testing, and it seems if I go without working out for 2 days or more with weights (especially if its a long time since weight training large muscle groups), and don’t wear ANY mones I am more likely to get challenged by people (not necessarily physical challenges but insults) than on days i do.
This is especially true since I am now over 35 years of age and don’t look alpha in body image compared to guys 20-25 years at the gym. Also when I am with beautiful woman without mones it seems other guys think they can come up and hit on her or talk to her even when they SEE me right there with her, but on days I wear mones it doesn’t happen.
What are your experiences with bring picked on in terms of being treated beta or being ridculed by punks when you DO and DON’t wear mones?
Wow, this is the actual reason I got my BF pheromones in the first place. He is an great man, but he’s never really put too much emphasis on the alpha vibe because he thought the whole machismo thing was dumb lol. Anyways he was having tons of the same experiences as you – we’d be walking by or sitting somewhere together and other guys would break their necks to stare at me, or make passes at me despite us clearly being together.
When he wears A314, this all changes… I tried 1, 2, and 3 sprays. 3 sprays seems to be the sweet spot. Older men defer to him and are surprisingly friendly and respectful (hes 20 and they can be from 50+) .
However, one to two sprays seems to piss other guys off. That I do not understand.
An Alpha male would pay no mind to someone checking out the women with them or hitting on them. If your reacting even with body language to these advances then your not being congruent with the Alpha signature. Its not about the girl as much as it is about your status being challenged.
My husband is a natural Alpha and men will challenge his status this way sometimes by hitting on me or flirting. I can be flirtatious at times as well but he doesn’t get overly possessive or reactive unless he senses I am disturbed by the attention. Friends have even asked, when they see someone indicating interest in me, “doesn’t it bother you ?” His response is “no she is coming home with me so why would it bother me”
If you feel threatened by this attention your body language will show it not only to the male challenger but to the women being challenged for.
I think in your case Desousa you feel more confident with the mones on and its coming through in your body language so less men challenge.
I don’t know if I can just say its confidence.. i mean why does the p75 and a314 combos give me confidence and other mones do not? So it can’t just be in my mind.
I think mones have self effects on people whether they realize it or not. Sometimes I’ll be so into conversation with someone only an hour later will I realize hey I tossed on mones and the combo I used was xxx.. What I experienced was in sync with what that combo was supposed to deliver.
One of my best test subjects is my sports physiotherapist P. P behaves differently to me each week he sees me.. When I don’t wear mones he likes to be the boss, tell me what to do and argue with me until his opinion is absorbed by me as if hes like a father.
When I wear mones he shows respect (a314), p75 (increased social status), IS (increased happiness and joking and laughing).. the mones have an hour to work in close proximity so I can really see the effects on P.
When I don’t wear mones I get assholes challenging me at the gym.. they come with their buddies and think this guy is alone we’ll dominate the equipment hes on even if hes using it already. If I go in with mones I’m more likely to be seen as a winner in the gym. I’ve tried dressing in nicer outfits, and also wearing nice runners, and all but I’m afraid I don’t lift as heavy and am not as big as some of these guys and they have attitudes that bigger and stronger leads and will dominate even if it means no manners.
Not all people are like this but certainly plenty.
I am not saying its in your mind. A314 and P75 elude confidence. Your giving off that vibe but your body language is matching it because as you have said yourself you do get self effects from these two. Because your getting the self effect your body language is falling in line.
People will still challenge the Alpha but the extent of the challenge depends on many factors not just the pheromone signals. I always encourage people to learn about body language along with pheromones. This way they have double the advantage.
This picked on issue is precisely where P75 plays its role. How much to use? As much as necessary. When the disrespectful BS remarks from other guys stops, this is your dose. Don’t worry what women think about it. Try to buffer it if you can. It is their observations about how men react to you that would make you stand out. I’ve reached the point where I almost stop caring if the vibe comes off too strong. In the long run, I think most women appreciate the hardness, once they get to know you. The effect upon men is pheromonal. I don’t know if there is any true phero effect with 75 on women at all. Body posture and congruency becomes almost second nature to me now, having used my first 30 mL of this. Still learning it. If these male attitudes present a problem, and if you tolerate the self effects, it’s time to start using your P75 at higher doses. No other molecule (to my knowledge–maybe P80?) does this.
