Whoa, Whoa, Effing Whoa! Kumbayaaaaa peeps!
Damn, can’t a girl go on vacay, LOL! I come back and am attacked for “not taking responsibility”
Are you serious? I said I OD’d. I was informing other women of the affects of the combination. I said it was jacked up situation and the girls were haters. I said I would (and suggested that others) not wear this combo.
Thanks Tisha and LaurieNY (and everyone else!) for having my back since I have been gone! Much Love!
Gone with the Wind: That was my intentions with the post. To give the gift of letting others know my situation and to learn from it.
As others have noted, I DID take responsibility for wearing an insane amount of Cops. As this forum condones, I put my experience with that OD so that others won’t do it. It sucks I went through it, but coming on here and assuming that I didn’t take “responsibility” is wrong. Like LaurienNY relayed, I didn’t go “whoa is me… poor little me!” I came with a “What the eff was that!!!” mentality and wanted to help other women on here with my experience. That’s why we are all here!
I greatly appreciate all those that send their condolences and such. It meant a lot It’s not nice to be on the verge of getting your ass kicked.
Scaro: your post came of as sarcastic and condescending. I hate that I come back from a great vacay and read what you were saying. I hope you understand what some have tried to get through to you. Regarding the rapist scenario, I don’t believe anyone thinks you are one or you condone such actions. It was merely a matter of a cross-reference to the whole idea of,
“Someone/something made me do it therefore I am not responsible”
That mentality is wrong. Even I can say that wearing a large dosage of Cops wasn’t the brightest idea and yes, I def hold some responsibility for it. I never said I didn’t. Those psycho girls were jealous and basically haters - and are probably haters with or without pheromone involvement.
People are responsible for not controlling their actions. Just as a rapist is responsible for his actions even if a girl is wearing a mini-skirt and wearing IS/A. Deep down those girls are haters. Deep down a rapist is a rapist. They each have their own catalyst and we should be aware of such. I let these women know that a catalyst for some psycho women is an OD on cops. A catalyst for a rapist may that she has RED HAIR or wears EYEGLASSES!
Should all us women get Lasik and dye our hair?
Ones pheromone signature should not allow for another to translate that into a physical altercation:
“I am an alpha-male. I walk around with confidence. I exude superiority. All the women want me. I do not touch you, I am just around you. Watch as I stroll through the club. Behold my aura!!!”
You’re saying it’s the guys fault for just “Being the sh!t?” He should take COMPLETE RESPONSIBILITY for another’s REACTION to him? Donald Trump has that aura and I’m sure he doesn’t use phero’s. He just IS. People hate on him for that and try to take him down every….single….day. Who fault is it then? It’s true that when you hold power you must watch your back. Lol, what’s that saying?
“With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility?”
But when does the responsibility fall back onto the aggressor?
Let’s say I am African-American. Some people don’t like blacks. Is that my fault? Should I take “responsibility” for a KKK’s members reaction to me??? (I know, I know, this is allowing for us to go on a whoooole other tangent, don’t really want to go there…..)
I see where your logic lies, however, and to an extent I agree. Hey, we wouldn’t walk down a street in South Central in the middle of the night with a stack of Benjamin’s on our head, now would we? When we wear phero’s we must take the good AND the bad that comes with it. I guess what some mean to say is that “responsibility” for ANOTHERS REACTION TO YOU is a very difficult subject to tackle and in the honor of “kumbaya” let’s just leave sleeping dogs lie.
Now that this mess is over with, hopefully I helped someone who decides to bomb themselved with Cops and stand on a sidewalk outside of a club. Be sure to bring an umbrella.