Giving More Than I get Out Of Relationship

Hello my name is Ray.
I am aged 18, male.
Location is California.
There is a few reasons why I am here on this forum.
The most obvious of course, is to learn about peoples’ experiences with these products and what kind of effects the product produces.
All this talk about pheromone products seems to be very interesting, especially in this forum where people tend to have incredible stories. Also, after a few hours browsing through the forums, everyone in this community seem to be very friendly and helpful.
A little bit more about myself. I have recently started dating this girl I knew for many years. I am very sincere and give in a lot, because that’s just how i operate. But there’s seem to be a thing that’s bugging me. It seems like she isn’t giving in enough for me. I feel like I’m giving the big portions and only receiving back a small portion. Haha, I don’t know why I just told my life story but oh well. I’ll definitely look forward to meeting and knowing you guys :slight_smile:

Hey Ray!

Welcome to the pheromone community!
If you want to learn about people’s experiences with pheromones, check out the men’s forums. There are threads daily where people chronicle their experiences, and even long-standing journals by some members. It sounds like you already know this, though.

As for your situation, it seems like you would be better off curing the situation with your ‘actions’ rather than with pheromones. I.e. make yourself scarce, girls want what they can’t have.

But, the social pheromones should help. Maybe even A314 to DHV her, thus making her compelled to give back a ‘bigger portion’ as you say to keep you.

Good luck.

hey welcome to the forum :slight_smile:

its kinda interesting to see guys liek you becuz with my ex boyfriend, i was the one doing the most of the giving and i know exactly how it feels.

anyways, whenever i make myself scare, he still chases after me but as soon as i fall back into caring for him a lot again, he kind of loses interest, u know?

but as for the pheros go, i cant really give u a lot of advice on it since im not a guy.. but maybe u should try something like instant openness and talk more to other ppl (instant openness increases the quantity of conversation) and see if she gets jealous :wink:

also on a serious note, you can get a bottle of instant honesty and maybe tell her what you feel and see what she says..

<3

Hi Ray, welcome to the forum!

At 18, you may wish to look at Instant Gentleman, it might be easier to work with than A314 (which may give you negative effects, based on your age). Social pheromones like Instant Shine and Instant Honesty should also be up for consideration.

Read the sticky threads in this forum and in the Men’s section, not to mention in Tisha’s signature (she hands out the $15 GCs.)

Enjoy your stay…

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

I am sorry but I need to ask a personal question before I anwser. Do you mean she dosnt “give alot” in the relationship as a whole or do you mean sexually ? You of course dont have to anwser but it will influance what I suggest.

Your GC will be going out shortly :smiley:

If you have any questions just ask.

Tisha

Hello Tisha. Lol I don’t mind answering at all! Well, what I meant by she doesn’t give in enough, I mean that it seems like I am doing most things a boyfriend should do, but she on the other hand seems to be less.. affectionate? I treat her real nice and will many times say sweet things that put a fat smile on her face, but no matter how much I do, it seems like I’m not getting that amount of affection in return. And sometimes I really wonder what is going on in her mind.. I just want her to be honest with me, what she like/dislike about me/our relationship. But I guess whenever I bring up the subject she would either give very vague answers or just want to move on to another subject. All I’m asking for is a honest, straight forward relationship. I’m kind of like the person that’s like.. “i’d rather be hit with the truth, rather than to be left here confused and filled with doubts.” But I don’t know what to blame. Do I blame herself as a person, or do I blame her inexperience as a girlfriend? I’m her second boyfriend btw, and her first one was 4 years ago, but I don’t think that really counts, since she was like.. 15 then. Damn this is a long post lol. Oh and we are not sexually active, if that information was needed. Any comments/questions/life stories you guys have, I’m available! :slight_smile:
-Ray

Ahh Haa Ok that helps.

I suggest AMMO to add a little sexy, interesting vibe.

Instant Female Magic which is used for calming and comfort. Great for making her feel at ease and more affectionate.

Instant Honesty which is a deep communication mix that will help her open up more. It also brings a close connected feeling.

Have fun, If you have questions or need help let me know.

Tisha