I am currently living with my S.O. for over year now, and we recently split because of a chemistry issue we can only boil it down to possibly Pheromones or maybe a hormonal imbalance(we think more unlikely). We both want more then anything in the world for it to work, since we are insanely close and are super good friends. She has told me I am the most physically attractive man she has been with, and that the result of her feelings isn’t anything I have done behaviorally. She for some reason she doesn’t understand why isn’t feeling it and wants it to work because she thinks I’m perfect, and I the same with her. She has also felt this way for a while now and thought it would pass but hasn’t, and is just confused. Has anyone had any luck with a similar issue or the same issue. We are trying anything at this point and communication is 100% solid
Hi noharmnofowl,
Good communication is a nice start. Now is it solely a chemical imbalance, who knows. I think you both will have to go on talking more to find the root cause of your issue. I suggest you get the following products.
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How old is that lady? How is her personnality? How is yours?
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Hi, I agree with Conjurator.
IH will force very deep and intimate convo between the two of you. In your case, the x2 or x4 strength will be of benefit. The regular strength is good but too many sprays will make you smell like a cologne store.
IO single strength used in combo with IH will help just to loosen up the gears a bit. I’d do one spray of IO single strength with one spray of IH x2 or x4.
Hello noharmnofowl,
Nice screen name man. I agree with the guys above. For her there is something she is not telling you or maybe she needs some space.
I usually suggest the Men`s Ultimate Kit as you would get everything you need to get started and then some. This way you have everything right there at your fingertips instead of wondering if you got the right stuff and you can try and see what is best on her.
IH I would start with this one as this will bring out any underlying problems that she may be feeling and you will know the truth on how she feels. Plus it is great for bonding and deep conversations and will help with that connection.
Ammo You definitely need something for attraction and this is a great all around product and nice cologne to very balanced.
Really I think these 2 will help you more than the others to start with. Of course they will all help you and is why I suggest the kit.
First of all, thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly!
Well I’ll start by saying we are both vegan and she is a lot healthier then me as of right now, but I used to eat very balanced. As of right now I just snack on junk food mostly and have been skipping veggies. So I could be low on testosterone not 100% sure, and other natural pheromones that could come from foods like celery. She is eating a lot healthier as I said.
She is also 33(I am 27) and really wants kids, as do I. She has no idea why she doesn’t feel a spark with me because I am “perfect”. We are both very caring & compassionate people that would do anything for anyone. She is also introverted and I am an extrovert, and at times can be too affectionate, if I haven’t seen other loved ones, and lately that is the case since we moved from PA to Las Vegas, leaving my entire tight knit family behind, but I do keep myself in check. She has never had this void of feeling before with other men, and as I said before she thinks I’m “perfect” minus the feelings.
Let me know if you wanted to know more on this subject. Thanks again for the quick and informative responses I will definitely look into the products listed above.
If you want to help her talk more in everyday life, since she’s an introvert, you should get IO as well as the products mentionned before. This should help make her more talkative on the chitchat level. Light conversation is as important as deep one 
.
If you feel you are too affectionate at times (and it gets on her nerves maybe?) try Instant Gentleman. It helps staying more rational and balanced with all type of emotion bursts.
If you have other questions, please ask.
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, noharmnofowl!
Your GC is now in your email.
If you think this is about chemistry, then it’s not about pheromones. She sees something in you that prevents her from falling for you despite of you being “perfect”,
So I suspect that that “perfect” thing is the issue. She’s uncovered you for over a year and there’s nothing mysterious about you left. There’s nothing to discover, or she possibly discovered something.
But it’s good to try. Try an AMMO + IH + IS everytime she’s around and flirt. She’s not a friend. Flirt. Make it all day flirting. Surprise her, and then slowly expose her to TUTH.
And let her make the 1st move. That is important. She will remember that.
Happy Pheroing!
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This may be a very big part of the issue right here - Being insanely close and good friends may initially seem a good, nay fantastic thing but very often high investment in a relationship, familiarity and reliability is also a very big passion killer.
Nothing you have done - consiously, yes. Unconsiously however your closeness has IMO almost certainly turned her off. Made you seem more like a best friiend or a brother instead of a partner/lover. You are no longer a challenge to her - and her subconsious is seeking one!
Communication is good and the more open and honest the better but IME any attempt to negotiate attraction is nearly always doomed to failure as it simply does not happen that way. Other practical aspects in a relationship, yes but not the basic passion that should underline it all.
So pheros can help, yes but any gain could well be short lived and unsustainable long term if you don’t make a few other changes as well.
I agree that many of the suggestions above are good - and IH will help with bonding/communication and getting issues out in the open - however I would also steer it with Instant Shine, in order to keep a feelgood frisson to the overall feel and help keep it from going “too deep” in a bad sort of way. Having her happy to pour her heart out to you is not a good as it sounds attraction-wise.
When it comes to a sexual, at 33, she will be getting to an age where more robust sexual products are coming into their own, so whilst you could regard Ammo as a baseline attraction product, do not rule-out using TUTH to alter its sexual proportion in a way better suited to her age - also, IH/IS with some TUTH aded later as the mood builds is a very effective mature sexual combination. Just don’t hit her with the TUTH unbuffered, unless she is already pretty horny as it can backfire on someone not already partly aroused.
Also consider taking some time to yourself - invest less in the relationship by developing some interests that keep you apart for a while and let her wonder about what you might be doing - pretty much give her room to “miss you” and to “try harder”. It may seem totally counter-intuitive but the person with the greatest investment in a relationship is often the most likely to be the one who loses it. So step back without explanation and she will almost certainly to be the one who comes running to you wanting more - but don’t give her it completely and keep her on her toes emotionally from now-on. This dissonance will only serve make you more attractive to her, not less.
Status products are also worth considering and again, at 33, she is into the age range where A314 is particularly good at reminding her what she found attractive about you in the first place and A314/IH/IS-TUTH is IME a superb combo for a mature fulfilling relationship if you can master some of the alpha traits that need to be displayed along with it. Do not simply apply pheros and go-back to doing just what you did before.
Hi, noharmnofowl!
I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it all fine.
Don’t forget to share your test results, my friend. You can create your own journal here to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine.
Also, you should drop some feedback about your p__ and MX__ usage. We would love to hear how those precious molecules worked out for you. You must send your feedback at feedback@androtics.com (Always enter p# or MX# in Subject Line). You might just qualify for a Reporting User status by doing so.
For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread here. Expert pheromone users usually browse this area.
Thanks! Chat soon!