I would have put this in the lounge except it is mostly the feminine perspective I want to hear from, seeing as how the guys have so much info on “The Game” and such.
Okay, so we know the best pheromones to use to get that certain someone’s attention… Instant Sexiness, EOW, Lust After Me, etc. etc. Here is my question. Let’s say you are going into a situation completely naked (of extra pheros) and you knew you would be encountering that certain someone. What moves do you ladies usually go for to get their attention? Does anyone have any tried and trues?
I thought this might be a topic potentially of interest. A way to give us girls a place to compare notes.
Well, I may not be the one to interject here, because I have never been very good at game playing or subtlety, and I think that is what you are looking for here…subtle moves…
If I want to get someone’s attention, I just go up and talk to them. Once they talk to me, they are putty in my hands…works every time…and dispenses with wasted time and cheap “moves”…also less of a chance that they will misunderstand…
i do however put guys on the spot. i might say something that requires an answer (not a game, just gab) and i am a HUGE believer in what they say in the book HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ,if he’s interested,you’ll know
guys do not walk away from something they want.
if they walk away with any thoughts that they want you,
it wont be wanting you enough to not let you go… get it?
Over time I’ve learned that, with me, it’s all about eye contact. I don’t know if this can be considered “game” though, because I do it subconsciously! My circle of friends recognizes “that look” when I’m around someone I’m attracted to or interested in. Since they’ve brought it to my attention, I do sometimes catch myself doing these things - flirty glances, lingering gazes.
I don’t think I make the conscious decision to flirt. I, too, will strike up conversations, but I never plan out moves inside my head. It just happens!
yeah i think with women it is all about “the look”, and for the most part it’s totally subconcious. Somtimes tho I think we get shook - I know i do, and don’t have the guts for the full on stare-down guys need sometimes.
and i agree with the cute lady in blue - they need to make the approach. and if they want you they will.
I see I’m in good company here. What I will typically do is strike up a conversation. As we are talking I, also, will use a look. Not a lustfull look or anything like that. It’s more soft, and slightly contemplative. When I can tell this look has registered on him, which is usually a few seconds, I will typically look down as I give a half smile.
This is one I’ve recently noticed is very effective for me.
I do this too! Except I don’t look down so much as down and to the side. If I look straight down I feel like I come across as sad, even if I’m smiling.
I’m also pretty darned short (5’1", thank you), so I’m always looking up at guys, especially since I like them taller. I know that every guy I have ever dealt with has melted if you bat your lashes a little and sort of peer up with the SLIGHTEST smile - always gets 'em. That’s the one move I make the conscious effort to do, but I keep that on the back burners. Don’t know why, but it’s pretty effective.
Yeah, that’s mine too. Down and angled slightly to the side. I like the peering up with your head tilted slightly forward. I think I do a variation of this as well. It works well after the eye contact and looking away mentioned before.
Well I am married so I dont practice much LOL But I am much like Dolly and Lor. I am blunt and to the point. I will just go up and talk to them which is what I did before I got married. So most of my advice comes after you meet them.
If your looking to get his attention eye contact is good as well as the flirty quick glances.
Once you got him…
If your looking for sex get caught staring at his package. Worked on my husband all the time earlier in our relationship but now I find we are so comfortable with each other and he’s used to that move so I had to break out the cops.
Once again, once you got him… Lean in a little when your talking to him bringing your face closer to his (not annoyingly close) look right in his eyes when he is talking to you like what he is saying is the most important thing in the world. This move works for both men and woman. Gives them a feeling of intimacy.
Oh and of course…
Lip gloss LOL I tell ya its a gem. I have made men moan just from licking my lips with it on.
What kind of gloss are you wearing?! I wear a minty kind and while my punk thinks it’s delicious I have never had THAT reaction. Then again, I’m not big on licking my lips either
I Love lip gloss I have tons of it. My favorites right now are shiny-licious by Maybelline and Beauty rush by Victoria Secret. I also use Lip Plump by wet and wild.
Dont get me wrong I dont go around all day licking my lips LOL , It brings attention to your lips because it is shiny so I dont need to lick to get there attention just put it on.
Worked on my husband all the time earlier in our relationship but now I find we are so comfortable with each other and he’s used to that move so I had to break out the cops.