I have a question for all of you, I’m 27 and almost all of my friends but 2 are “tied down” by the opposite sex. I’m the type of guy that when I want to go out I like to have a wing man or someone just to keep me company. Now that I am using mones I am eagered to go out all the time but the list of friends with freedom is getting really short. So is it okay for a guy to go out by himself? Wouldn’t look a little pathetic and ruin the purpose for the mones?
Just so you know, you probably already answered your own question. If you think it would look pathetic, then it will definitely look pathetic.
Before I got married and way befor mones I used to go out dancing by myself. I used to go to salsa clubs, because the girl to guy ratio was high, usually there is a quick class early in the night, and you get right into kino. The quick lessons are like speed dating, you swap partners every few minutes. No one cared if I came by myself. If I was fun, people invited me into their set.
Dude go out alone. You will love it if you have already found your sweet spots. That way you don’t have to ditch your friend if you are about to hit a home run. Before mones I needed a wingman now mones are my wingman. That way you get to be the life of the party for once in your life.
Ok, here we go. I go out alone ALL THE TIME, and I do have a good amount of success meeting women. I dont really have any friends. Being a single dad and living in one of the most socially akward towns in the US will do that.
I have found out some things that may help you. Yes, alot of social proof comes from going out in groups. It shows your ability to be well liked and social. So does walking into a bar and opening the first group you see. Others in the bar just saw you in a conversation with a group. They dont know you have never met them before. Even if you just stop over and say “hey have you guys seen the score of the Celtics game” or something. As stupid and old as this line is, i have used the “wow, did you guys just see that fight outside?” line more time than I can remember to open the first group I see. It usually buys you about 3-5 min of convo with whatever details you make up and you are no longer seen as a loner to the rest of the bar.
If you approach or are approached, saying that you just came in to grab a drink or 2 before you meet your friends at another venue works really good as well. Especially if you live near a really hot club. You can always say “ya, im meeting friends at the ------- but those guys dont get out and about till after midnight and then they usually sit in the VIP area till the place closes.” “Sorry, but I’m the social type.” “Hanging out in a roped off area doesnt sound all that social to me”
The trick is…you need to talk to people. The chances of someone approaching the lone quiet guy are slim. Trust me…I WAS THAT GUY.
Put your erone, P74, anol, and TAA to good use. Wear approachable phero’s and make sure you smile. ![]()
Thats my best advice.
becausemos of my pals here in the East coast are nerds… no offense to them.. they aren’t ugly or anything liek that… it is just that they are busy with works and school stuffs… they go out when they feel they are free…
I can;t just go out on their terms, so I go out whenever I feel like it. For instance, yesterday, I went to this new bar I had never gone before to watch some basketball games and meet girls…
In short, who cares? Just go out and have fun ![]()
Since birth, I’ve ALWAYS secretly put on my cheetah-print boxers, and hunted ALONE!
Every now and then, I may venture out with a friend.
Wing men come in handy … sometimes, but they’re not a necessity on planet M to the M. ![]()
+1 Going out alone is great,You can come and go as you please, besides if you run into a set there’s no need to figure out who’s going with who.
I saw a PUA said whenever he walked into a club he would smile and wave towards the back of the club, people would just assume he knew someone.
I LOL’d.
Some guy tried to AMOG me with this same line a couple weeks ago. I laughed so hard Jack and Coke almost came out my nose, a while later his wing came up and tried the “who lies more, guys or girls” line.
I have been divorced for a couple of years and a single dad. Almost all my guy friends are married now. So I go out by myself most of the time unless a friend comes into town for a visit. I don’t use any lines or wave to the back of the club
. Confidence is the key, confidence is sexy when you go out alone and the mones help a lot with confidence.
I tend to go Solo for the Same Reasons… Most my Friends are Married, Moved, or Dead (Some All Three)… I tend to think of Ammo as my Wingman… Ofcourse there is also some Help from IS and IO now… Pickup Lines Don’t Work… Be Yourself, Be Confident, and Most of All Have Fun… If You are Having a Good Time so Will Those Around You…