Tater dont need no wing man. Make your mark. Get your tude on. Walk past her, looking purposeful, if possible while speaking to someone else. Pump those shoes as you walk, like youre on the runway. Get past her. Stop. Lean/turn back. Grab her arm if you dare, and its the right environment. Let your eyes go soft and look into her eyes and say something like You. Pause while you look her over. You look incredible. Dont wait for her response. Then continue walking to your destination. Spend at least 5 minutes on the other side of the room before walking back across her view.
This works best when wearing something in your hair since you want to get your sillage to cross her line and make it obvious that its you who is laying down the hype pheros.
Sometimes shell come after you immediately. Sometimes shell make an excuse to walk by later if shes an alpha female. If not, about 5 minutes afterward, make eye contact with her. Look. Look away. Look back at her and try to outshine the stars with your smile, like youve just seen the most beautiful thing in the world (helps if its true). If she doesnt respond to that, i dont think a good wing man would have helped.
Ive used this at bars and at the gym, with 4 Instant Honesty 4x (16x total), sometimes with a kicker of 2 sprays Instant Female Magic. Starbucks indoors (never outdoors), MX203 and MX103 have also come up incredibly well. At parties, be sure to match it with handling her when she returns. Theres something women like about the palm of a mans hand to the small of her back. Do that if you have a reason to walk a short distance with her or if you can reorient to talk to someone. If shes really into you, put your hands behind her neck and stroke up to and through the nape of her neck. If her pupils dilate or she looks like her eyes are trying to close involuntarily, you OWN her. Make it special for her. Tease her but treat her like a princess at the same time, like she belongs at your side. If she acts as though she has any second thoughts about being with you, just move away without a word. The emptiness will either stun her if shes really changed her mind about you, or make her feel somethings missing (you) in which case she will meekly come after you, which means you OWN her again.
Your tude through all of this is Im where the partys at. I like you. If you want to roll with me, ill let you, but if you dont see it, i dont have time to think about you. Not bitter, just that she doesnt exist. No excuses. No thank yous. Just clip it. Most guys dont know when to shut up.
Also, dont think twice about coopting the friend of a woman youre after. Im shocked by this but if a guy projects himself well, a womans best friend will hit on him and try to steal him away. It turns into a feeding frenzy. Women just arent as loyal to each other as they project. If there are four women sitting together, at least one of them will be the ultra-competitive one and that means you can walk away with all 4 numbers if youre patient. Make the dominant one (usually the competitive one) jealous that youre paying attention to one of the lesser women and when she falls, the rest will too. Even if its just two women together, try coming on hard to the, by most peoples standards, less attractive woman while being nice to but almost ignoring the other. Most of the time shes thinking shes prettier than her friend so youre assaulting her ego. She will pick up another guy as quickly as possible to show that she can still compete, which only means you OWN her. Give her a seductive glance or a line that she can almost bite into once in a while, just a little bit of validation before you turn back to her friend.
